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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by stewart p on March 28, 2016 at 1:40pm

I'm curious there Morgan if you would like to share just a little about your "project" you are trying out.  Ive done many things during the past 3 years, paint the house, pick up new hobby, travel, whatever but here it is 3 years later and yes the Christmas tree still goes up and it comes down but for what reasons any longer I do not know.  I pay the bills and do the shopping but at the end of the day it holds little if any meaning.  Some days I wake up and I'm ready for it to be night again just to end the day.  So I'm always curious when someone mentions something new they might be trying out and was curious if you'd like to share your a little something about your project. 

Comment by O.L. Cato on March 28, 2016 at 11:23am

Joseph, I really do understand how you feel.  There are no words for the grief I (we) feel.  My life is over.  Yesterday was three months that he has been gone.  The pain is worse now than it was a month ago.  My children don't understand and give me a nasty look whenever I speak of their Dad.  I'm too much of a coward to do anything.  I wish he could have taken me with him.  Again, I do understand how you feel.

Comment by Joseph on March 28, 2016 at 11:06am

I can barely breath today.  I feel queasy and confused.  Tomorrow is my beautiful Jerry's scattering and I am a shattered shell.  I know people die and I tried to imagine what this would be like and I had no idea.  This is beyond hurt.  I want to scream.

Comment by stewart p on March 28, 2016 at 10:32am

I just wish all of you a good day as you can have and to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.  This is truly a difficult and nearly unbearable rite of passage to endure and it is truly comforting to know that unfortunately we share this in common.

Comment by O.L. Cato on March 28, 2016 at 9:41am

I MISSED HIM YESTERDAY...I'LL MISS HIM THE REST OF MY LIFE.  NOTHNG WILL EVER BE THE SAME.  I LOVE YOU JOHN...ALWAYS

Comment by Linda Engberg on March 28, 2016 at 7:54am

It was just another lonely Easter for me even though I was with a friend. Holidays are not the same anymore without my beloved Husband.

Comment by Joseph on March 27, 2016 at 10:00pm

Thank you bluebird for the personal reply.  I read many posts on this site before commenting and I knew I had found a home. 

Comment by bluebird on March 27, 2016 at 2:50pm

Joseph,

I am sorry you are in this hell with us.  Know that at least you are not alone in feeling as you do, that the people here will at least have some of understanding of what this loss is like.

_____________________________________________________

Tildy,

I understand, as much as another person can. I feel much the same as you do. I'm sorry.

Comment by Lisa on March 27, 2016 at 1:45pm

Hello everybody.  I'm finding today especially difficult.  It's been just over 3 weeks since I lost my beloved Wayne and my family are all next door at my brothers house waiting for me to go over for Easter.  I just don't want to go.  I don't care about Easter or any other holiday for that matter.  I don't feel like chit chatting.  I don't care about eating.  I don't want to hear my mother say "my poor daughter" over and over.  I just want to be left alone.  My heart goes out to each and everyone of you going through this horrible pain and emptiness...especially today.

Comment by George H on March 27, 2016 at 1:25pm
Hi everyone doing my best to get through another Easter without Mary things aren't going too well in fact nothing is going to well just wanted to check in on you all not finding it easy post or do anything anymore I hope you all are as well as can be
 

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