Linda Engberg
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  • Elkton, FL
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No one cares after spouses death.
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Today was the 4th birthday my Husband has had since he died. I did a post on Facebook sending him a Happy Birthday in Heaven card. One one single person in my family made one comment, I had one from…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by KIM Montgomery Jul 27.

Going home to visit family without Husband.
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My Husband has been gone for 4 years, when I go home to visit family they seem to care less about how I am feeling, not one single person asks how I am doing. They think I am just fine, little do…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by AnneJ May 26.

Hate Easter
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Easter was the last Holiday my Husband and I spend together and he put on a brave face with company, even thought he was in pain. I can find no comfort with God as he took him form me. Why not a bad…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by silvia maria Apr 17.

Hate this Life
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Every since I lost my wonderful Julian in 2013, my life has been pure hell, I cannot stop thinking about the wonderful times we have over 35 years. Anything that I do now has no happiness to it. It…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Linda Engberg May 8.

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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, I feel the same as you it has been 4 years 3 months my wonderful husband died. I wish God would just take me. All I am is a zombie walking around in this hell. Linda   "
23 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Stewart, I have stayed with site for 4 years, 6 months since I lost my Husband, your poem is beautiful. Sometimes I am surprised I still can get up every morning to a life without him.   "
Oct 7
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Maxey, I agree taking a trip without my husband didn't do a bit of good, all it brought back is memories of all the fun we had. The night is better for me too. Daylight just brings pain. It has been four years and it hasn't gotten better…"
Sep 29
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird and Trina, After 4 years waking up every morning is the worst part of my day."
Sep 23
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, No matter how many years go by, I am on Number 4, I will never happy again until I join him. he was my true soulmate and Husband."
Sep 23
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Nancy, I have a quote on my fridge as follows: Grief is something you never really get over, but you put it in a place inside you and deal with it in the way you have to. "
Sep 17
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Paul, I just take one day at a time. Plus i have the love of a shih tzu I rescued Babie J.  time, I adopted a cute little shih tzu that keeps me going. She is better than most people I know."
Sep 16
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Paul, It has 4 years since the loss of my beloved Husband of cancer. I can't wait to get off this miserable planet and join in. "
Sep 16

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At 3:22pm on August 31, 2017, Joy said…

Linda, I didn't lose a spouse, but I wanted to say how sorry I am for the loss of your husband. You two were (let me correct that) are a very lovely couple and I know you'll be glad to see him again. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I see your posts periodically and my heart goes out to you.

At 1:50am on July 30, 2017, Alice Thompson said…
Linda, I'm so glad Babie J is at least a little better. My heart goes out to you.
At 4:04pm on July 28, 2017, Fran said…

Linda, so sorry about your dog! When I lost our cat it was like tearing my heart open again!Logically we know we will die, but when an innocent pet has to go thru suffering it seems even worse.

 
 
 

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Profile Iconkiran singh, Cheyenne Steffen, Emma Milner and 3 more joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Michaela waldier commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"Well, the finality of it all has set in;recieved my hunni's ashes and death cert finally from Alaska.He's been gone 9 weeks. Im no longer angry,im moving towards finding a happy medium, didnt have the luxery of laying around in defeat,have…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I was so glad that I was able to do everything my mom needed as a caretaker but that did not make her death any easier. I still lost her. I still have the finality of death in my mind that hits me every day like a sledge hammer. And it's the…"
19 hours ago
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett,  Life is so hard and it's definitely not fair. No one should ever have to lose their Mom at any age.  My mom has been gone for 20 months and I still miss her terribly and I do still talk to her out loud in my car. It makes me…"
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Louise joined Desiree's group
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When will the ache subside?

A group for people who have lost loved ones with prolonged suffering. For those of us who have seen that the end is coming, and had to watch the ones we love creep toward it.
20 hours ago
Louise replied to Ashley Lounsbury's discussion I lost my daddy to suicide.
"I’m so sorry Ashley, your situation sounds truly horrendous, life seems so unfair. My husband died from suicide on 29/30 September; I have the uncertainty because he disappeared for a night and wasn’t found until the next day, so…"
20 hours ago
Louise posted a blog post

Does Counselling Really Help?

I’ve not been on here for a while, it’s been so hard just trying to get through the days; keeping myself busy, trying desperately hard not to think about things and often failing miserably. I’m so tired of feeling so shitty all the time. I had my first session with a counsellor today, after feeling initially nervous and not wanting to say much everything came out and I cried like a baby. I feel absolutely drained now and very emotional. So my question is this, does counselling really help or…See More
20 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, I feel the same as you it has been 4 years 3 months my wonderful husband died. I wish God would just take me. All I am is a zombie walking around in this hell. Linda   "
23 hours ago
Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
""All I want, like most of the rest of you, is to reunite with my husband.  I want to know he is ok.  I want to hold him again.  I want his love.  The sooner the better." Morgan's words, simple yet so profound,…"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird,  I find myself wanting to kick over tables or throw something hard at times and yet my old catholic upbringing kicks in and disallows me to act out but I get the same feelings.  In the beginning I used to kick a cardboard box a…"
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morgan replied to Ashley Lounsbury's discussion I lost my daddy to suicide.
"I really don't know what to say Ashley.  I'm so sorry.  There is some kind of weirdness in this universe that seems to have its way with us when we are not at all prepared for how to handle it.  Death by any means is hard to…"
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Ashley Lounsbury posted a discussion

I lost my daddy to suicide.

My daddy was a us navy veteran who brutually killed himself on September 27, 2017 at the age of 51.My Daddy had become really emotionally sick in recent years. He was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. Which of course he didn't believe because he thought that was the Va trying to control him. He became really hard to be around as he has these crazy conspiracy theories and he heard and saw things that didn't exist that proved to him he was right. Then he started believing people were out to…See More
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Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm the same way bluebird"
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bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"And along with being incredibly sad all the time, I am also very angry, all the time.  Right now I want to jump out of my fucking skin, I want to punch everything, I want to yell and scream. I can't even contain this level of anger;…"
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bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Absolutely, Paul.  We do not deserve to live in this hell."
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Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"bluebird, As bad as I feel now, I do not look forward to the holidays as this will be the first holiday season without my beloved wife. We also met on a New Year's Eve and I am really dreading that day. I can't see myself lasting years on…"
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bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Same here; I feel just like morgan and everyone else. My husband died five years ago, and my "life" is no better -- in many ways, it is worse, both as a result of his death and due to other factors.  For me, the pain of his death, of…"
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Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"This seems to be an especially hard time for a lot of us lately. I feel exactly the same way as the previous 4 posters."
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Marine Marietta posted a group
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Elderley Abuse Mum died

I lost my mum in September. She was subject to elderly abuse by my older sister. I dont know where to start from. The anger and rage I have for my elder sister, its not funny. I try to get the vision out of my head, and how she treated my mother. The pain is excruciating that i feel, I need to join my mother. I spent a week in the crises centre. I hope this grief and anger passes.Question: how do I accept or come to terms with the matter.I do have evidence supported by my other siblings. The…See More
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Mel Royer posted a blog post

Letter to My Nancy #602 one of my daily letters to my lady

I began writing one of these each day, beginning December 2015 to ease my grief and start each day with some hope and joy. The hope and joy would last for awhile and then I would be back in the throes of deep, dark misery. I recommend these emails that are never sent as excellent therapy. I have written 602 of them in the 2 and  a half years since I lost my Nancy. Here is today's letter to Nancy. Letter to My Nancy  602   Sun., Oct 15th, 2017   without youGood Sun afternoon my other half. My…See More
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