Linda Engberg
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  • Elkton, FL
  • United States
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Going home to visit family without Husband.
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My Husband has been gone for 4 years, when I go home to visit family they seem to care less about how I am feeling, not one single person asks how I am doing. They think I am just fine, little do…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by AnneJ May 26.

Hate Easter
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Easter was the last Holiday my Husband and I spend together and he put on a brave face with company, even thought he was in pain. I can find no comfort with God as he took him form me. Why not a bad…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by silvia maria Apr 17.

Hate this Life
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Every since I lost my wonderful Julian in 2013, my life has been pure hell, I cannot stop thinking about the wonderful times we have over 35 years. Anything that I do now has no happiness to it. It…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Linda Engberg May 8.

LOSING MY BEST FRIEND TO CANCER
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I am losing my friend to cancer, I already lost my husband, sister-in-law and nephew all in on year. I hat this disease it is taking all the people I love away, That;s why I would God would take me.…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jennifer Mar 12.

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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, My thoughts are exactly like yours, each day is miserable without My Husband. My life is worth nothing without him."
Jun 14
KIM Montgomery left a comment for Linda Engberg
"Oh I wish I could go back to before my husband had cancer.  It was already at stage 4 when they finally discovered it. Cancer is so ugly. The big "C" word. The diagnosis was given to us on 1/23/2017 and 05/02/2017 he was gone.  I…"
Jun 4
Linda Engberg commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Hi Irina, I feel the same as you, don't care if I die, I'm 68 and hope God takes me Life i so hard, each day gets worse, not better. "
Jun 2
Linda Engberg commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Hi Michael, I feel exactly as you do, I am nothing without my Husband Julian, it's been four years. I am sick of pretending to be happy and am dying on the inside. Nothing makes me happy anymore. I hate waking up each morning and know I have to…"
Jun 1
Linda Engberg and KIM Montgomery are now friends
Jun 1
Linda Engberg replied to Richard Rivera's discussion WHAT I REMEMBER WHEN MY WIFE ANNETTE DIED in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello Richard, I am so sorry for your loss, I do hope there is an afterlife as my Husband has been gone over 4 years and I just go through live waiting for God to take me. I am nothing without my Julian, I just go through life with s with no…"
May 30
AnneJ replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Going home to visit family without Husband.
"Hi Linda, I sure get what you're saying. It's actually astonishing, isn't it, when some of us find out just how irrelevant we are in family's lives, in "friend's" lives, co-workers... it goes on and on. 3 weeks…"
May 26
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan & John, Couldn't agree with you more, leaving tomorrow to visit family. I have to put my mask on and pretend everything is ok, my one sister does not agree with me having a few beers everyday to keep from going crazy, Inside I am…"
May 22
Linda Engberg replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Going home to visit family without Husband.
"Jean, Thanks for your reply, I made the commitment for this year, but it will be my last one. Again, thanks for your thoughts on this. Linda"
May 22
Jean replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Going home to visit family without Husband.
"If I were you I would change plans and go somewhere that you and he loved to be together. You are not obligated to do anything you not choose to do. I am finding inner peace doing this. No need to "put on airs". Just be as peaceful as you…"
May 21
Linda Engberg posted a discussion

Going home to visit family without Husband.

My Husband has been gone for 4 years, when I go home to visit family they seem to care less about how I am feeling, not one single person asks how I am doing. They think I am just fine, little do they how much I am still suffering with losing my wonderful Julian. I hate going each year, all I am is their gardener, babysitter, and house maid. I am fed up with this. It will be my last year visiting. I live in Florida and the family is in Michigan.   See More
May 21
Linda Engberg replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Hate this Life
"Wish I could say in 2006, my husband didn't have cancer then"
May 8
JO B replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Hate this Life
"wish i cud stay in 2011 i do"
May 7
Linda Engberg commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"It has been 4 years and I still miss my husband every hour of everyday."
May 7
Kevin Bailey replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Hate this Life
"I don't know how long I can deal with this new hell I've been thrown into."
May 3
Linda Engberg replied to Maxey's discussion Today is his birthday in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Maxey, I cry for my Husband everyday and he has been gone 4 years. He was my everything and now I am nothing just waiting to join home. Linda"
Apr 22

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At 7:48pm on June 4, 2017, KIM Montgomery said…

Oh I wish I could go back to before my husband had cancer.  It was already at stage 4 when they finally discovered it. Cancer is so ugly. The big "C" word. The diagnosis was given to us on 1/23/2017 and 05/02/2017 he was gone.  I want him back. He was the sweetest person we loved each other so much. I still love him and want to be with him.  I have the flash backs of his final day.  His beautiful blue eyes looked into mine and he then closed them to take a nap.  Our daughter and I walked outside onto the front porch for less than 5 mins; came back in and he was gone.

 
 
 

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KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Yes, that is exactly how I feel."
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KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Went to the 2nd session of support group.  Grief is grief and hurts no matter what the loss.  It hurts, you feel alone.  I have learned one thing from group is we are not alone. There are 2 different groups those that are…"
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"I had that feeling when my nephew called me and told me his brother had killed himself one year after my brother (their father) died. It was a weird sensation I have never felt before. From the top of my head all the way to my feet just a rush of ?…"
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Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Kim, ladies, I just found some thought that actually explains how I feel now: Sounds familiar? Grieving and trying to be nice, crying and smiling to look nice next minute... It is a great movie anyway - watch when you can."
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Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you, Jackie. Those horrible panic attacks just visit us often. Suddenly the whole world is turning black and no oxygen anymore. Jackie, I accept you as acting Steve - I hope he does not mind - and I really appreciate your support - I know you…"
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AnneJ replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi, Kim. Please don't feel sorry about discussing different topics; it's how our minds work and your words are a comfort to so many. Just knowing someone feels the same, hurts the same, has the same inner voice... the empty bed, the…"
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KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I try not come on here in the early morning as I start work early so I can go home early.  That was my routine.  We would get up in the morning, have a cup of coffee and I would go off to work.  I looked forward to going home a little…"
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Jackie cooke replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Nora, you are a beautiful women with a beautiful heart. Steve loved you very much but remember you were a success before you met him and not because of him. We need to give ourselves time to grieve it's only been 3 months, who knows if we will…"
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Nora posted a status
"Hi, Pumpkin! 3 months without you today. Started looking for a job. I know you are proud of me now. But it is so hard without you. Love""
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Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Ladies, I just had one more pain caused by simple actions that I even did not pay attention to before. Well, I sat to start looking for a job. It was already hard as I have a "meeting people & leaving the house" anxiety. Also, it…"
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Lost with out him replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I too feel exactly as everyone here has discribed it. Four months in.. Lost the love of my life. I feeling like the walking dead.. I function because I am expected to. I go to work because I haven't any choice. I have to sell my house.( for…"
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One down...

Having a glass of wine for my mom tonight and trying to wrap my head around the fact that she's been gone for a year. A whole year. A year without daily emails just so I'd wake up to an email every morning. A year without daily Skype chats just to catch up even though nothing much ever changed. A year without an e-card for every random holiday. A year without hearing about the dumb things my dad was or wasn't doing. A year without my best friend. A year without my mom.See More
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National TV show wants to help unsolved cold cases

I am the producer of a nationally televised crime docu-series. I am currently developing a new series focusing on unsolved cold cases, where the perpetrator is known but remains uncharged, many times because they are already in prison for life for another crime. That should not deter anyone else from getting justice. We will bring in outside, independent cold case detectives to rework cases to see if we can help. The series will underscore the hope, strength and tenacity of the families and…See More
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morgan replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I really hate to reply to this thread as I am four years and almost five months into the loss of the love of my life and I can hardly stand the roller coaster I am on.  I am careening off the tracks "again" and I come here to reassure…"
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KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you all for the kind support here.  It does help.  I too feel lost at time.  This morning I was up at 3:30 watching TV; my alarm goes off at 4:45, no sense in trying to go back to sleep.  Like some one else said on here, my…"
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Jackie cooke replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Kim, your not alone, as Nora's says every word you say matches how I feel. I have lost my best friend, soul mate, partner, my lover. Now I'm alone with my dog and cat. OVer 70 people and the funeral but none of them ring or call. People…"
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Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Kim, If I could I would just copy each word of yours and paste it here. I am exactly in the same boat. I know how you fell and what is going on with you. I will have 3 months tomorrow and today is 13 weeks since my Steve just gone, disappeared into…"
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KIM Montgomery added a discussion to the group Lost My Spouse...
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Missing my Best Friend

Again, I am missing my best friend tomorrow will be 7 weeks.  I went back to work last week and it helped some.   Getting into a routine helped.  The issue I have is when I get home he is not there.  That was our time together. Yesterday being father's day the adult kids were lost as was I. My son lives close by and my daughter is 300 miles away.  I was alone without the kids, just my 2 little dogs.  I am so thankful for them.They say go back to work it will help, they say it has been 6 weeks…See More
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Mourning by Definition

MourningThe outward expression of grief over a death or some other calamity. In Bible times, it was customary to mourn for a period of time. In addition to weeping loudly, mourners wore special clothes, put ashes on their head, ripped their garments, and beat their chest. Professional mourners were sometimes invited to funerals.—Ge 23:2;…See More
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