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What is a grief counselor?

What is a grief counselor?   A grief counselor is one who is very knowledgeable in the area of "normal grief." This practitioner is well-versed in the normal grief reaction and process that occurs... Continue

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The Grief blog

I Can Hear The Drummin’

When I first saw him, I thought he looked dreadfully skinny. He stood as tall as me, 5' 11", but seemed to weigh about half as much. His glasses were thick, like a plate glass window, which made his eyes small. His hair, full and unruly, looked more like the mane of a lion, the color of burnt sand.

Joohn Greden and Eric Hipple: Overcoming Suicide and Depression

September 11, 2008 – Topic:  Overcoming Suicide and Depression Guests  John Greden & Eric Hipple John Greden, M.D., is the Rachel Upjohn Professor of Psychiatry and Clinical Neurosciences, Research Professor, Molecular and Behavioral Neuroscience Institute, and Executive Director of the University of Michigan Depression Center. Eric Hipple is a former quarterback of the Detroit Lyons, Outreach Representative for the [...]

I Am Burying My Son Tomorrow

I am burying my only son tomorrow. He was 25. I have no one left except cousins and friends. My son was killed in a car accident abut I think it was intentional. The coroners met me on my porch after calling my cell phone number. I knew he was dead when I got the [...]

HOW DO I…

By Audrey Szabo Thoughts of you flood my soul with sadness I should be celebrating your birth Yet all I can do is see your death Trying to capture the days before you became you But they are clouded with the sight of you Lying so still upon your bed, cold, lifeless How do I celebrate your birth if all I see [...]

Taking Care of Yourself While Grieving

The process of grieving a loss in one's life can have as many physical manifestations as emotional ones. Common physical symptoms include fatigue, appetite changes, lowered resistance to disease, and sleep disturbances.

"Along the Road"

I walked a mile with Pleasure;
She chattered all the way.
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.

I walked a mile with Sorrow
And ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things
I learned from her
When Sorrow
walked with me!

-Robert Browning

 
Alan Wolfelt, a grief counselor in the Colorado Medical School's family medicine department, speaking to a Wall Street Journal reporter, "people are searching and yearning for ways to mourn. It's important to grieve not only independently but also communally."

Blog Posts

Surviving Murder

Ultimately, it's the long-term effects. . . . . It’s never knowing, yet fearing that I know all too well, what those final moments must have been like. . . . It’s constantly visualizing myself in his place that night, moment by excruciating moment. . . . It’s realizing that I will n… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on September 4th, 2008 at 10:00am — 1 Comment (Add)

Remembering George Carlin

Posted by Diana Young on June 23rd, 2008 at 10:04am — No Comments (Add)

Mercy Me, "I Can Only Imagine"

This song speaks to me in so many ways. It is truly a favorite. When I was a member of Faith Worship Center I danced in a group called "Mercy's Face". We danced to this song. We performed this once per month, it was so incredibly moving. We lit candles and the lights were dimmed. Unfortunately, I do not have a video of that dance. But here is Mercy Me's version, Enjoy: Continue

Posted by Diana Young on June 22nd, 2008 at 7:42pm — No Comments (Add)

Gale Massey, M.S.

Gale Massey has been a student of bereavement since 1989. Formally educated (with a graduate degree in Counseling) through Georgia State University, she has gained life knowledge by communing with the most respected educators and spiritual leaders of our time. (Elizabeth Kubler-Ross,… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on June 6th, 2008 at 2:40pm — No Comments (Add)

Funeral Checklist

Posted by Diana Young on May 1st, 2008 at 1:02am — No Comments (Add)

Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain

Gawain explains how to use mental imagery and affirmations to produce positive changes in one's life. The book contains meditations and exercises that are aimed at helping channel energies in positive directions, strengthen self-esteem, improve overall health, and e… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on April 21st, 2008 at 7:00pm — No Comments (Add)

Savin' me - Nickelback - Worth Watching

Posted by Diana Young on April 20th, 2008 at 9:16pm — No Comments (Add)

Run Through The Fields of Your Life

When I see Your face within my dreams, I wish that I could be forever in my sleep When I wake, another rainy day is more than I can take, then I hear You say, Run through the fields of your life, I'll never leave your side Just keep your hand in mine Run through the fields of your life, a… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on April 19th, 2008 at 7:30pm — No Comments (Add)

Picture of Unknown Origin

If anyone knows anything, please comment. I found it labeled "unknown"

Posted by Diana Young on April 17th, 2008 at 1:57pm — 1 Comment (Add)

Coping with Suicide Loss

"One learns to live with the loss, the tragedy, the waste, and the gaping hole in the fabric of one's life. There is no closure, nor would I want one. I want to remember him all my life, vividly: his laughter, the smell of his sneakers under his bed, his moments of joy, his hum Continue

Posted by Diana Young on April 13th, 2008 at 7:30pm — No Comments (Add)

Grief vs Trauma

Grief tends to be mixed with trauma when a loss is sudden and unexpected — a fatal heart attack, an accident, a murder — or it’s perceived as being outside the normal cycle of life, as in the death of a child. For example, someone who nurses a spouse through a long illness will g… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on April 11th, 2008 at 7:18pm — No Comments (Add)

Do You Have an Elephant in the Room?

There’s an elephant in the room. It is large and squatting, so it is hard to get around it. Yet, we squeeze by with, “How are you?” and “I’m fine”... And a thousand other forms of trivial chatter. We talk about the weather. We talk about work. We talk about everything… Continue

Posted by Diana Young on April 10th, 2008 at 8:43am — No Comments (Add)

Cedella Booker, Bob Marley's Mother, Dead at 81

Posted by Diana Young on April 9th, 2008 at 11:07pm — No Comments (Add)

Monk Actor Stanley Kamel Dead at 65

Posted by Diana Young on April 9th, 2008 at 7:54pm — No Comments (Add)

What Made Bush Cry?

Posted by Diana Young on April 9th, 2008 at 9:52am — No Comments (Add)

67 Bodies Exhumed From Civil War Era

Posted by Diana Young on April 9th, 2008 at 9:30am — No Comments (Add)

Notable Deaths of 2007 - A Slideshow from NYT

Posted by Diana Young on April 8th, 2008 at 9:00am — No Comments (Add)

Requiem

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To One In Sorrow

Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.

-Grace Noll Crowell

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