Don't grieve alone; 12,000 members and growing
We are eternal beings who will never be separated from our loved ones. ~ R. Craig Hogan, Ph.D.
Added by JO B
I wanted to share an idea of what we can do with pictures of our loved ones. Nancy Gershman, a digital artist, creates meaningful portraits from photos, memories and stories that we think about every day. Here is a sample of her work:
DREAMSCAPE PHOTOMONTAGE: Myrtle pays homage to the memory of her twin and keeps a promise to her sister. As long as she lives she will keep her nephew - who is a trucker - safe on the road.
I know Nancy's work and I’ve seen how she captures the entire essence of a person and the real truth about their character, their passions and their mission in life.
What Nancy does is digest all these photos, memories and stories until they re-emerge as a holistic portrait of the person you love. You see your father, sister, or beloved poodle, thoughtfully placed into a beautiful legacy portrait for you, but also for generations to come. The end result is that her artwork makes you smile or even laugh.
For the 30 - 60 minutes you spend with her by phone, she delivers a meaningful, heartfelt fine art photomontage in the form of an 8 x 10 print (or enlargement). She can also upload the artwork so you can make something to wear or display (photoblanket, photo-purse, photo trivet, etc.) -- however you want to keep that loved one close by.
I encourage you to view the documentary on Nancy Gershman’s work.
Let me know if you have any questions.
1. SPAM IS NOT TOLERATED ON OUR GRIEF SITE. However, if you have a product or service that is helpful, please feel free to post information. It must be pertinent to grief counseling/helping others, for instance aromatherapy, guided imagery, healing with pictures, journaling, etc.
2.If you have posted your full name, please go to settings and change your name. Privacy is important for all of you.
Online Grief Support uses the blog feature for Journal Therapy – You can choose to make it private or public. Blog posts are a great way to express yourself on your profile page. To get started, go to your profile page and locate the "Blog Posts" module in the middle column. Click the "Add a Blog Post" link. You must join the community to take advantage of Journal Therapy – It’s free.
You can add text, links, images, and files to your blog post using the blog editor toolbar. You can also select the privacy of your blog post to allow anyone in the community to view it, just your friends in the community, or just you. Go to Settings and then click on Privacy. If you need help, I'm just an email away. - Diana
Everything feels stupid, and I'm so angry. My friends are saying the dumbest things possible. I feel like they are the grief police and their job is to keep me from going off the deep end, except that I'm already there, I'm in the deep end, I'm grieving and drowning. Too late. My brother Mark died two years ago in November, and my youngest brother died three weeks ago-- it's like my youngest brother, Johnny, wasn't able to survive the loss. He fell into alcoholism. At the age of 46, his…Continue
Posted by Lillian Ann Slugocki on December 7, 2016 at 8:07am
Can anyone please share their experience with me of their first Christmas without their loved one? Or if this is your first too, how are you feeling? I am getting very anxious and definitely overwhelmed just thinking about it. Someone said, just think of it as any other day - you will miss them just the same so don't put pressure on yourself to feel any different that day. I understand this but Christmas was a big deal to me so I know I am going to be hurting. My Dad always text me first and…Continue
You know what's hard about this? I'm driving through my neighborhood and I see all the houses decked out. I see the tree inside and sometimes the people. Families enjoying the season.
Not me though. And I used to love this time of year. Even through all the Christmas's I was a single mom and lonely. I still got it together for my kids and that made it good for me.
But now I just look at these other people and it makes me feel incredibly alone and sad.
Why do I always end…Continue
When we grieve we sometimes lose our focus.
You can choose what you want to focus on. Choose! Choose what you CAN do. Honor and care for each other… Smile… Say thank you… Let the person ahead of you in line… Hold the door for someone… Help the elderly with a task… Give a compliment… Be courteous and polite… Say hello… Offer help to others… Be a good listener… Start a conversation with someone… Give someone…Continue
Bruno, my Frenchie, was Rocky's dog, even though he was supposed to be my dog. He bonded with Rocky though. And drove me crazy.
Now he's all I have of Rocky's. Like my last link. And he has cancer and heart disease and won't be long for this world. I pray that he will go straight to where ever Rocky is, so they can be together.
Then I will feel completely alone. There will be no one to greet me at the door. I have my birds, but it's not the same. Nothing is the same as a dog,…Continue
No one is prepared for grief. The rush of feelings, the thoughts, anxieties, and heartache can take us by surprise and drive us to our knees. Yet, when we choose to harness that power for self-growth, amazing things can happen. Good can come from pain.
Learn to tell your story differently. Take the victim mentality out of the story of loss you tell yourself and others and replace it with the word survivor to return to a sense of control over your…Continue
Just when I thought it was okay and my sadness was controlled. It all came back...noi as hard but still there. Today is the 2-year anniversary of my oldest and wisest nephew passed away. He was only 46 years old. I would have never imagined I would be at his funeral...I thought I would go first. I'm a few years older than he was...My world seemed to crumble a little when I heard my sister tell me Artie was gone. I was in shock and disbelief then and I'm still having a hard time not picking…Continue
Posted by Felicia Evans on November 28, 2016 at 10:51am
It’s up to you to choose if that hole will be filled with pain, anger, and the eternal darkness of loss . . .
Or if you will choose to fill it with light and love and have that hole shine out of you like a spotlight into your life, keeping their memory alive . . .
Disconnected (1 online)
You are disconnected from chat. Connect to join the chat.
Sign up to chat on Online Grief Support - A Social Community.