I miss my Mom!
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank goodness my baby dog is doing well. To be honest, I still stay at my Mom's house even though I own a condo close by. I kept my dog there because my Mom's cat Charlie tried to attack him one time. I recently introduced my pup and…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa,
I'm glad your medicine helped you some. Talk to your doctor if it's not helping a lot. They may be able to adjust the dosage or even the type. There are several available and everyone's body is not the same. I look at it like…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lisa Everything you said is right I also had to go on something for anxiety of course I wouldn’t take the proper dose because I was afraid it helped a bit but I’m still having anxiety and yes I’m learning to live as hard as it is…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. I took Abby to see Dad last Saturday and it was such a nice reunion. He was not as excited as I thought he would be but that's ok. Abby sat right beside dad the whole time and dad rubbed her head and talked to her some. He…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, I hope you are handling everything as well as can be, that is my fear losing my dog, he is my strength
But hopefully time will heal.
It is coming up on two years for both of us, I'm still heartbroken, people just dont' understand…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I was so glad that I was able to do everything my mom needed as a caretaker but that did not make her death any easier. I still lost her. I still have the finality of death in my mind that hits me every day like a sledge hammer. And it's the…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett,
Life is so hard and it's definitely not fair. No one should ever have to lose their Mom at any age.
My mom has been gone for 20 months and I still miss her terribly and I do still talk to her out loud in my car. It makes me…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Luisa, the best advice I can give you is to be the best caretaker that you can be. Remember, your daughter loves you the same way that you loved your mom at that age. God has given you a tremendous blessing to love on and take care of. There is your…"
Luisa Salter commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I can't imagine losing one of my Mom's pets, Brett this must be devastating to you. My Mom has two cats, they went up to Washington to live with her sister because I could not take them. It was really hard when they left. It was especially…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I'll be honest with you Luisa. As tough as my mom's funeral and arrangements were, I realized later that I was still in a state of shock when they occurred. I cannot remember very much about those days.
You are right about losing Boo. This…"
Luisa Salter commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett I'm so sorry about losing Boo. I have lost pets before also and it's very painful. terrible that you have to deal with it while you are still deep in grief over losing your Mom. Hugs
Try to believe that God will give you what you…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thanks, Lisa. I also feel like death is all around me. Boo's sister is still alive but every time I look at her I feel like she is going to leave me, too.
It's hard. I have never had a little dog rely on me the way that Boo did. She was…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett,
I can relate to your post a lot. I lost my Mom Feb. 2016 and in June that same year my cat of eight years died. Always before when someone would talk about the pain of losing their pet, I couldn't fully understand that until it happened…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Not well. Losing little Boo was hard enough because I loved her so much, but it also opened up a floodgate of memories. We can't go back. Not even for a day. What I wouldn't give to snuggle with that little bundle of fur right now. I…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett,
I am so sorry about the loss of your beloved dog Boo Bear. That has got to be hurting you to your core. How are you doing? I mourned all of my pet's when they have pass away. But because this was your Mom's pup, it seems like it…"
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- About Me:
- I am 26, a Licensed Massage Therapist and a mother to a beautiful 5 year old little girl.
- About my Loss:
- ~I lost my uncle to pancreatic cancer on 10-18-09
~I lost my Papaw to liver cancer 10-20-08
~I lost my Nana to Lung Cancer 12-4-08
~I lost my sweet Mom 6-8-09. In 2006 we found out that she had breast cancer, she had surgery and radiation. Everything was good for awhile. Then in August of 2008 we found out that it was in her Liver, Gall Bladder, Bile Duct and Lymph Nodes in the central part of her chest. She had surgery to remove everything that could be safely removed. In Sept she got a Staph infection and we almost lost her. November, she started Chemo....She was 2 treatments away from being finished with chemo when we found out that she was in Acute Renal Failure (5-19-09), two days later we found out that her Liver had failed and that there was nothing left that they could do for her. She died June 8, 2009 at 1:10pm.
Comment Wall (10 comments)
- At 12:25am on January 25, 2013, Emily said…
Hi! I'm sorry about all the important people in your life who you have lost.
- At 6:51pm on August 22, 2012,
Jayne said… I am so sorry for your losses. my mom just passed away to Pancreatic Cancer. I feel pain so bad and you do too. Some people say it gets easier I mean the pain, depression, etc. I don't see that now.
- At 8:28am on July 16, 2011,
Sue Waxman said… Karen,
I work up this morning...and thought "what a bummer". I really have no meaning to my life. My mother has been gone 3 weeks Monday. Cancer...that murderer of our loved ones. She was my darling mom. Without my faith..I would just kiss this thing we call life goodbye. This site and all of you have been almost my sole support. I pray a lot. I miss her. I hope you are going to have a decent day today. I will try. Mustering up the energy and desire to do something normal like go to the movies. XO Sue
- At 2:26pm on February 26, 2011, Nicole Rodriguez said…
Karen,
I am a 26 year old dental hygiene student and mother of a little girl who is almost four. Last Dec. my Mom was diagnosed with Stage IV Ovarian Cancer. We lost her this past summer. She was only 49. I felt like I was the only young girl who lost her mom--until I joined this community. It is so hard, and I miss her so much. Sometimes I think im ok and can see a future for myself and my family, and sometimes I cant hardly get out of bed. I hope you and your family are well.
- At 7:02pm on September 20, 2010,
John Bilanchiardini said… - Karen i am sorry for your losses. I know how hard it is. I reach out to you and I pray for you. I would like to be be a friend and share. We are all here to help each other. , JOHN
- At 7:17am on February 12, 2010,
Kirstine Rushing said… - HI Karen-
I am sorry about your mom too. I just lost my mom on Jan 22 and I am only 32 years old, young like you. We never expect to lose our moms this early in life. Its just horrible! I miss her so much and it hasn't even been a month yet. We are best friends! K
- At 2:28am on July 16, 2009,
Katherine Ellis said… - Karen I am so sorry you just lost your Mom. It's been a few years for me but I think about my Mom everyday and say hello to her. My husband had cancer 3 yrs ago and they said he was "cured". Now he is having liver problems and I'm scared the cancer may be back. We just never know what life will deal us. Hang in there and know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.
- At 12:46am on July 8, 2009,
Jonnie Russell said… - I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom when I was 18 years old. Then a Sister, a Brother, my Father and recently my Brother to cancer. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of them all. It has been 26 years since I lost my Mom. Take comfort in knowing that the memories you have of her or of the two of you together now will one day lead to smiles instead of tears...
- At 10:52am on July 7, 2009,
Gina Stroup said… - I feel your pain my father and husband passed away two yrs apart...
- At 5:23am on July 7, 2009, Debbie Lindley said…
- I am so sorry for you. I also lost my mother on 10/16/08, father on 12/5/08 and my grandmother on 5/29/09. My mother also had bial duct cancer. It is really hard losing so many of your loved ones in a short period of time. My daughters are 24 & 19 and the family is having such a hard time with this. We miss them so much.
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Marine Marietta replied to Crystal K's discussion Its hard accepting my mother's death in the group I miss my Mom!"Hi everyone. Thank you all for your sharing,I dont feel alone because I identify with you all. I am deeply greatful.
My dear mother passed 20th September. I was angry with my sister because of how she treated my mother. I begged my mother to live…"
Marine Marietta joined Karen's groupI miss my Mom!
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Cheyenne Steffen left a comment for morgan"Thank you for writing Morgan. I appreciate it so much that you reached out. I have an appointment with a grief counsellor on Monday. I'm looking forward to that and hoping the Dr. Can help. It's very difficult for me not to look ahead too…"
Carlyn Jorgensen commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"Tomorrow would have been my honorary little brother Rick's 30th birthday. It's going to be a very difficult day for me. However, I will honor his memory by going to a local bar with some friends and toasting his life. I'd love to be…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank goodness my baby dog is doing well. To be honest, I still stay at my Mom's house even though I own a condo close by. I kept my dog there because my Mom's cat Charlie tried to attack him one time. I recently introduced my pup and…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa,
I'm glad your medicine helped you some. Talk to your doctor if it's not helping a lot. They may be able to adjust the dosage or even the type. There are several available and everyone's body is not the same. I look at it like…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lisa Everything you said is right I also had to go on something for anxiety of course I wouldn’t take the proper dose because I was afraid it helped a bit but I’m still having anxiety and yes I’m learning to live as hard as it is…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. I took Abby to see Dad last Saturday and it was such a nice reunion. He was not as excited as I thought he would be but that's ok. Abby sat right beside dad the whole time and dad rubbed her head and talked to her some. He…"
Sopa Brown posted a status"I look to you, it's where my help comes from. Thank you Lord for your lovingkindness and fathfullness."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My heart is broken. A part of me has died. My eyes swell up with tears.
This too shall past."
Sopa Brown posted a status"I have the hope of expectation of seeing him again on the new earth as it is in heaven."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My son's birthday just past. He would have been 27 years young. Now, he's been gone for 2years."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, I hope you are handling everything as well as can be, that is my fear losing my dog, he is my strength
But hopefully time will heal.
It is coming up on two years for both of us, I'm still heartbroken, people just dont' understand…"
Maxey left a comment for Cheyenne Steffen"Hi, Cheyenne,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will face this Saturday with dread as it is the second year of my husband's death. I think in the beginning, you feel a sort of numbness, you cannot believe this is real. As time goes by, you realize…"
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