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I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!
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Car accident and the a suicide 4 Replies
Hello. My name is sara. So on the 18th of feb at exactly 3pm my grandad passed away then at 3.02pm my nan died. They were involved in a massive car accident. And they were gone. That day change my…Continue
Started by Sara. Last reply by Sara Sep 12.
Murder, Suicide, And living in fear 3 Replies
I don't even know if I can do this. My mind is weary and my thoughts are scattered. And death is all around me. In fact it consumes me as I still search for answers and try to understand them all. My…Continue
Started by Janet Shores Hoogendyk. Last reply by Belle Merc Jun 23.
Why do we think we have more time with someone? 1 Reply
I always felt I should have said more about how I felt about them, did more for them or did more with them. My youngest sister and I lived together, she had OCD and I have ADD so most of the time we…Continue
Started by Babz Worel. Last reply by JO B Nov 7, 2016.
I can relate in so many ways 2 Replies
My name is Emma I lost so many family members in my life , my grandma was my everything she died when I was young, than all my uncles passed away than my aunts , my last aunt passed away in sept of…Continue
Started by emma. Last reply by emma Oct 6, 2016.
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Comment by Moira Lynch on August 10, 2017 at 6:45am -
Hi group. Reaching out in desperation. Lost my job in June, my brother in July and my best friend just moved out of state a week ago. Call this the summer of sorrows. Also in the past 5 years have lost my mother, my Godmother and Godfather. Was divorced a year ago in June. It is complicated by earlier losses that went ungrieved. Feeling overwhelmed and close to despair but trying to find some light in everyday. Question: how do you keep moving through grief?
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Comment by King on May 30, 2017 at 2:47pm -
I'm 40 and have buried 2 babies and a teenager it has to be the most unatrealthing a parent can do.
Even sadder that i can tell you losing the twins was a lot easier then losing my teenager.
It's been 4 years and my family has fallen apart I actually feel detached from others around me
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Comment by B.Windsor on May 30, 2017 at 2:12am -
Honestly, i don't know what to think/believe at this point. My daughter died a few months ago and we're still waiting for the autopsy results. We got the toxicology results back and she had several types of opiods in her system. *sigh A couple hours ago, i decided to do another online check, to see if there was anything different in my searches for different people i'm associated with--since i'm out of the country, most people don't bother to let me know anything--and found out that my late daughter's fiancee's mother died ten days ago! i don't even know what the circumstances were, as of yet, but she died in the same home that my daughter died in! This is just becoming a heavy load....and i have to get to NC to make sure my grandson is safe!!!!
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Comment by silvia maria on April 23, 2017 at 2:45pm -
I´m picking up my own pieces after multiple loss stroke me in the head like a brick wall.
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Comment by karen stephenson on April 23, 2017 at 10:10am
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I just lost my very best friend this week to sudden passing. She was only 58 years old. I am also 58 and going through a horrible divorce right now. Married 30 years. The worst possible time to lose someone I loved and needed so much. I am grieving so much right now. I don't know if I can go on without her. I have no support system right now at all. I'm lost and trying to find a reason to go on. Any help I would be so very grateful. Thank you.
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Comment by Jeannette Cox on January 13, 2017 at 9:37pm -
I lost my 47 year old son and 26 year old grandson 6 weeks later. I got help the GriefShare and personal counseling. It's been 11 months and I'm finally starting to feel somewhat normal. The pain is still intense and I'm sure it always will be. It is nice to have a place to talk about these things with people who understand. If someone has not been through it they may say they understand but they really don't.
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Comment by JO B on December 13, 2016 at 10:10am -
so sorru sasha had multi loss 2 sisne 2012 u cud say lst 1 wz abot 3 wks go my 16 yr ol cat had be enutjnds she did on my dads funell we saed famlyf flowrs only dontat 2 stroee unit we did
evry funrell i go 2 i put in box for chrty insted of byon flowrs i mony wil go 2 gud carz coz flowrs dnt st longg thy dnt
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Comment by sasha citino on December 13, 2016 at 10:05am -
I'm 40, and there are a lot more people in my life not here than are here, all deaths occurred in the last 6 years with my Mom, Granny, Uncle all within 2 months of each other in the last 6 months of 2015. I donate to charities during the holidays because other than my husband, I have no one left....sometimes I feel I'd be better off wherever they are...at least they would be around....
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Comment by annjulie on December 3, 2016 at 12:24am -
hello i am 26 and i lost my mom to suicide oct30 2016 and 5 days later my boyfriend got into an altercation with the police and they tasered him and he died nov4. About 7 months prior I lost my first love and friend to a drug overdose. Its been so hard and its hard to function during the day. I haven't been working for about a month. I'm not sure how I will go back to work when half the time I forget what I am even doing. My brain is having a hard time process all the details I am left with. I try to carry on but it is very hard with all the mental torment I experience. Thankful I found this site just to know there are other people like me although I don't with this experience or pain on anyone.
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Comment by JO B on December 1, 2016 at 3:59pm
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Marine Marietta replied to Crystal K's discussion Its hard accepting my mother's death in the group I miss my Mom!"Hi everyone. Thank you all for your sharing,I dont feel alone because I identify with you all. I am deeply greatful.
My dear mother passed 20th September. I was angry with my sister because of how she treated my mother. I begged my mother to live…"
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I miss my Mom!
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Cheyenne Steffen left a comment for morgan"Thank you for writing Morgan. I appreciate it so much that you reached out. I have an appointment with a grief counsellor on Monday. I'm looking forward to that and hoping the Dr. Can help. It's very difficult for me not to look ahead too…"
Carlyn Jorgensen commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"Tomorrow would have been my honorary little brother Rick's 30th birthday. It's going to be a very difficult day for me. However, I will honor his memory by going to a local bar with some friends and toasting his life. I'd love to be…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank goodness my baby dog is doing well. To be honest, I still stay at my Mom's house even though I own a condo close by. I kept my dog there because my Mom's cat Charlie tried to attack him one time. I recently introduced my pup and…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa,
I'm glad your medicine helped you some. Talk to your doctor if it's not helping a lot. They may be able to adjust the dosage or even the type. There are several available and everyone's body is not the same. I look at it like…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lisa Everything you said is right I also had to go on something for anxiety of course I wouldn’t take the proper dose because I was afraid it helped a bit but I’m still having anxiety and yes I’m learning to live as hard as it is…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. I took Abby to see Dad last Saturday and it was such a nice reunion. He was not as excited as I thought he would be but that's ok. Abby sat right beside dad the whole time and dad rubbed her head and talked to her some. He…"
Sopa Brown posted a status"I look to you, it's where my help comes from. Thank you Lord for your lovingkindness and fathfullness."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My heart is broken. A part of me has died. My eyes swell up with tears.
This too shall past."
Sopa Brown posted a status"I have the hope of expectation of seeing him again on the new earth as it is in heaven."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My son's birthday just past. He would have been 27 years young. Now, he's been gone for 2years."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, I hope you are handling everything as well as can be, that is my fear losing my dog, he is my strength
But hopefully time will heal.
It is coming up on two years for both of us, I'm still heartbroken, people just dont' understand…"
Maxey left a comment for Cheyenne Steffen"Hi, Cheyenne,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will face this Saturday with dread as it is the second year of my husband's death. I think in the beginning, you feel a sort of numbness, you cannot believe this is real. As time goes by, you realize…"
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