Don't grieve alone.
I lost my mom February 10, 2008. And now I just recently lost my father February 16, 2013. Even though I'm technically an adult. I still feel like a child who just became orphaned. No matter what…Continue
Started by Amanda. Last reply by Jessica Jun 3.
It's so hard to begin.....I am almost 31. Mother of two sons (ages 9-11) I had a beautiful life without sadness until October 4th 2007. I lost my grandma to emphzemia. Then January 9th my Niece was…Continue
Started by Ellen Selfridge . Last reply by marilynne j May 27.
Aug. 11, 2011 was the worst day of my life. I lost the love of my life after being married 39 years, Rick left us behind, 13 months I lost Rick's sister, and on Feb 14 2013, I lost my beautiful,…Continue
Started by kathy bishop. Last reply by Angela Scott Apr 26.
I don't really know how to begin to talk about loss or how i feel about it, i suppose in my life i'd been very lucky in my 19 years i'd never had to experience the death of someone close to me. Then…Continue
Started by Nadine Peters. Last reply by Mark Feb 10.
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Comment by jb (jo) on May 18, 2013 at 4:12pm i no whot u mean lynn th losses iv had aftr my dad lst yr thn 2013 i woz hoping for grt strt to 2013 woz wong iv had a lot of death of peple i no i keap on thnking thes silly nmorbid forts of my own life lik is th grim reaper aftr me
i juts wish th death o f peple i no wud slow don a bit i no now evry funrell iv bean 2 brings it all bac to my dads funrell it brings bac all th painfull memrys
thn iv had silly coments off som of th family or frinds get ovr it its easy
iv asket thm how do u no u hav nevr lots any 1 all thy say its easy all i no its not easy its to painfull
all i no iv bean drinking hevy on off to numb th pain i no its not th anser iv cut doon for a bit thn i slip up thn start drinking hevry again not meaning to
Comment by Karlene on May 18, 2013 at 12:34pm In Aug of 2007 I lost my husband, in 3/09 my mom. Then my sister was re-diagnosed with breast cancer 7/09 and fought the brave battle until 11/10. Just over 1 year later on Nov 22, 2011 my brother unexpectedly passed while visiting his daughter and grands. Some days my grief is so heavy I can barey get up from the floor.
Comment by anna l. on May 17, 2013 at 8:56pm Karlene, Im very sorry for the painful loss of your dear friend. Yes, new losses bring up old grief. Try to be good to yourself as you go through this time.
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Comment by jb (jo) on March 27, 2013 at 4:34pm yes i no tht fealing s savoie lozing my dad lst yr an his best mate my surgate uncle bill thn all deaths in jan brings the painful memri bac of lozing my dad its jus gets to us som days som days r worse thn othr dauys thy r
Comment by s savoie on March 27, 2013 at 9:05am Today I am feeling completely overwhelmed by sadness. I know that everyone else in this group is also overwhelmed. I don't know how to get past the history: my dad died 12 years ago. I am at peace with his death. Feb 1 2012, my husband died 6 months after diagnosis of colon cancer. March 25, 2012 his father died under very similar conditions. April 14, my best friend's husband died after a 3 year battle with cancer. at that point I was numb. Maybe the numbness is wearing off. In January, my mom became ill, had her 83rd birthday under hospice care in February, and died March 4, 2013. Her death in the words of hospice "was a good death" -- no pain, no tubes, monitors or machines. Now I am at home by myself wondering how to go on. I have been to see my doctor who thinks my adrenal glands are out of whack. I can't find a local grief group.. don't want to just depend on the meds.
Comment by Judith Brandl on January 18, 2013 at 3:39pm I've endured multiple losses over my entire lifetime. My father committed suicide when I was eleven years old. After that, I lost my mother, not to death but to the bar life because she couldn't handle her grief (understandable). When I was twenty one my husband was ran over by a van, which drug him a considerable length and then ran over him again. Then I had a reprieve of over twenty years until my mother actually passed from emphysema in 2006 and I still miss her terribly. A year and a half ago my beloved pomeranian of fourteen years was attached and killed by a bobcat in my back yard. Lastly, my husband of fourteen years died on October 12, 2012 of a massive stroke. It hurts, it more than hurts. But, I take a deep breath and I have to go on. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger I've found. I think although we feel loss on many different levels depending on what we've lost, loss is loss at the end of the day and can leave us feeling depleted and empty if we don't fight to hang on so that's what I intend on doing. Now acting on that thought, that's the hard part. We all have to keep trying, day by day, one moment at a time. My heart goes out to every person that's had to endure loss in there life. None of us escape it really.
I'm part of this club..sadly...I don't come on very much lately because I am to the point of giving up..I am so lonely...that I can't breath sometimes.....I have lost my dad, 21 year old daughter, only sibling to suicide, one close friend of 30 years, and another of 48 years.....and lastly my husband 2 years ago to lung and bone cancer...all of these people were very young...I can't stand the pain anymore...God bless all of us...
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