Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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Murder, Suicide, And living in fear 3 Replies

I don't even know if I can do this. My mind is weary and my thoughts are scattered. And death is all around me. In fact it consumes me as I still search for answers and try to understand them all. My…Continue

Started by Janet Shores Hoogendyk. Last reply by Belle Merc Jun 23.

Why do we think we have more time with someone? 1 Reply

I always felt I should have said more about how I felt about them, did more for them or did more with them. My youngest sister and I lived together, she had OCD and I have ADD so most of the time we…Continue

Started by Babz Worel. Last reply by JO B Nov 7, 2016.

I can relate in so many ways 2 Replies

My name is Emma I lost so many family members in my life , my grandma was my everything she died when I was young, than all my uncles passed away than my aunts , my last aunt passed away in sept of…Continue

Started by emma. Last reply by emma Oct 6, 2016.

I havent started grieving the others 3 Replies

My dad passed away last year. Im suffering from ptsd from it. A few months after i lost my grandpa. This year i have lost my uncle and grandma. But i only think about my dad. I havent let myself even…Continue

Started by katie dion. Last reply by Copper "Charlie" Aug 15, 2016.

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Comment by Moira Lynch on August 10, 2017 at 6:45am

Hi group. Reaching out in desperation. Lost my job in June, my brother in July and my best friend just moved out of state a week ago. Call this the summer of sorrows. Also in the past 5 years have lost my mother, my Godmother and Godfather. Was divorced a year ago in June. It is complicated by earlier losses that went ungrieved. Feeling overwhelmed and close to despair but trying to find some light in everyday. Question: how do you keep moving through grief? 

Comment by King on May 30, 2017 at 2:47pm
I'm 40 and have buried 2 babies and a teenager it has to be the most unatrealthing a parent can do.
Even sadder that i can tell you losing the twins was a lot easier then losing my teenager.
It's been 4 years and my family has fallen apart I actually feel detached from others around me
Comment by B.Windsor on May 30, 2017 at 2:12am

Honestly, i don't know what to think/believe at this point.  My daughter died a few months ago and we're still waiting for the autopsy results.  We got the toxicology results back and she had several types of opiods in her system.  *sigh  A couple hours ago, i decided to do another online check, to see if there was anything different in my searches for different people i'm associated with--since i'm out of the country, most people don't bother to let me know anything--and found out that my late daughter's fiancee's mother died ten days ago!  i don't even know what the circumstances were, as of yet, but she died in the same home that my daughter died in!  This is just becoming a heavy load....and i have to get to NC to make sure my grandson is safe!!!!  

Comment by silvia maria on April 23, 2017 at 2:45pm

I´m picking up my own pieces after multiple loss stroke me in the head like a brick wall.

Comment by karen stephenson on April 23, 2017 at 10:10am
I just lost my very best friend this week to sudden passing. She was only 58 years old. I am also 58 and going through a horrible divorce right now. Married 30 years. The worst possible time to lose someone I loved and needed so much. I am grieving so much right now. I don't know if I can go on without her. I have no support system right now at all. I'm lost and trying to find a reason to go on. Any help I would be so very grateful. Thank you.
Comment by Jeannette Cox on January 13, 2017 at 9:37pm

I lost my 47 year old son and 26 year old grandson 6 weeks later. I got help the GriefShare and personal counseling. It's been 11 months and I'm finally starting to feel somewhat normal. The pain is still intense and I'm sure it always will be. It is nice to have a place to talk about these things with people who understand. If someone has not been through it they may say they understand but they really don't.

Comment by JO B on December 13, 2016 at 10:10am

so sorru sasha had multi loss 2 sisne 2012 u cud say lst 1 wz abot 3 wks go my 16 yr ol cat had be enutjnds she did on my dads funell we saed famlyf flowrs only dontat 2 stroee unit we did

evry funrell i go 2 i put in box for chrty insted of byon flowrs i  mony wil go 2 gud carz coz flowrs dnt st longg thy dnt 

Comment by sasha citino on December 13, 2016 at 10:05am

I'm 40, and there are a lot more people in my life not here than are here, all deaths occurred in the last 6 years with my Mom, Granny, Uncle all within 2 months of each other in the last 6 months of 2015. I donate to charities during the holidays because other than my husband, I have no one left....sometimes I feel I'd be better off wherever they least they would be around....

Comment by annjulie on December 3, 2016 at 12:24am

hello i am 26 and i lost my mom to suicide oct30 2016 and 5 days later my boyfriend got into an altercation with the police and they tasered him and he died nov4. About 7 months prior I lost my first love and friend to a drug overdose. Its been so hard and its hard to function during the day. I haven't been working for about a month. I'm not sure how I will go back to work when half the time I forget what I am even doing. My brain is having a hard time process all the details I am left with. I try to carry on but it is very hard with all the mental torment I experience. Thankful I found this site just to know there are other people like me although I don't with this experience or pain on anyone. 

Comment by JO B on December 1, 2016 at 3:59pm


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