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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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Latest Activity: Aug 30, 2023

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I've been here before 1 Reply

I just wanted to let everyone know that I've been here, on this website and in this group, before. My name was Pennywyze. I stopped coming to this site because I became busy with writing my first…Continue

Started by Penny Caywood. Last reply by dream moon JO B Jun 16, 2022.

So many losses 5 Replies

I am so depressed. I've had so many losses. My parents, my husband, many cats, now I've moved to an apartment that doesn't feel like a home. No friends, no family, no furniture. What I wouldn't do…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz Nov 17, 2021.

Too many in a short time.

Hey everyone,  since May of 2020 I lost my birth mother with whom I had established a good relationship.  In June my stepmother who raised me passed away. July was a break. August they found my…Continue

Started by Nina M Helme Mar 21, 2021.

Lost dad an wife within a month. 2 Replies

On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He is the greatest man ive ever known. He loved us all unconditionally no matter our mistakes. He was always honest and to the point and…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Penny Feb 7, 2021.

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Comment by Pam on August 30, 2023 at 12:44am
I thought celebrating my mom birthday would make it easier. It was fun to celebrate but I still feel the loss. Downs are not as bad as they use to be but I still have them around anniversaries dates.
Comment by Erin on April 24, 2023 at 6:56pm
I lost my only brother, my only sibling,4/14/23. I am the sole survivor of my family of origin. Our father passed away in 2010 and our mother passed away in 2020 (non-covid related), I am grateful that my brother was able to help me grieve those losses, I am really struggling as to how I grieve his loss without him. I am “only” 52 and to think of the rest of my life without anyone left who remembers me as a baby, or the stories we shared with and without our parents, to not have one of the 3 left if I need to talk, need help, or guidance or just to share joy with anymore. Not many people truly understand where I am coming from, because most people my age still may have both parents, or 1 parent, all of their siblings or some of their siblings. There’s just some solace even as a 52 year old woman to know there was one person on the planet that knew my back-story and would always have my back no matter what, in a way only a parent or sibling can. Sometimes when I think about the gravity of this loss, the pain and loneliness take my breath away. Most of the information I can find on-line is geared to elderly people who have lost their last sibling. I haven’t been able to find much coping info on mid-lifers or younger who find themselves as the “last ‘man’ standing” of their family of origin, so to speak. I hope more people will join that I can connect with, no one really understands what this is like.
Thank you,

Erin
Comment by dream moon JO B on February 4, 2023 at 4:09pm

loss so mush famly frids friends o line i did class on i did 2 

Comment by Pam on October 11, 2022 at 7:42pm
I loss my mom in 2020 and my dog. We continue to have losses in the family since my
mom died we had five deaths in the family. Just when I feel better another death comes.
Comment by Carol Sue Tracy on September 24, 2022 at 9:16pm

Is this group active?

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 2, 2022 at 4:49pm

i get my ok days my off days bit i need my mom coz i feal so loss sisne i los her in 2021 i loss preseus timess coz of f//////////////////////////king cov 19 samee on my unlcee coz of f.........................g cov 19 both ad 2 die alone coz of cov 19 i poromsed i wud be ther for thm on her final momnest but cid not coa of f....................kin cov 19 i promsd 2 hand thm over 2 funrell home but cud not coz of cov 19 pormes d thm id be ther to hodl ther hand c but cud not coz of cov 19 

i got to say gudby 2 frindss i did it funrelsss but 202020 2021 wz hard only got to say gudby 2 mom my unlce it funrell eslpp chapplee of rest wear i spokee to thm bth i did me frind promsd we wud se easch othr in cr if eirt of u goze

but cov 19 dun a lot pepp metal h issie it has islonss not getin 2 sy gudby to lovd 1s

i wz lucky i got to say gudby 2 my o in cr plus s my unlcee coz fo few frinds it wokrss int funrell hoem werim abit to wokr in soon

but civ 19 fun a lot of pelless weell bean 

but i wz luckky i hot to say gby in cp bu in 20202 pepe did not no if wz goin 2 right funrell or cremason coz of cov 19 but 21 i got to say gudby mad sure it wz right body coz i no ther spirtt will be ther 2 no i wz ther 

Comment by Penny Caywood on August 2, 2022 at 4:33pm

I'm just curious, how is everyone doing?

Comment by Pam on July 27, 2021 at 4:47pm
Hi Sapphire Girl,
Welcome to the group:-)
Comment by the sapphire girl on July 27, 2021 at 3:10pm

hello this is brinda, I lost my father 3 months ago and currently in my 20's, I lost my mother years ago, and now I can't help but asking that is this supposed to be my life, tormented by pain and memories.

My sister in law does not like my crying and me breaking into sudden outbursts, and my family is orthodox about mental health issues, and this life at this moment feels like mid sea, only water to drown.

Comment by Pam on July 1, 2021 at 9:47pm
I'm so grateful to find you all. Sorry for your loss. I lost both parents and pet in the last two years and others close ones to my heart in the last three years. I never thought I would miss them like this but God has blessed me with feeling them so close. I know they are still with us. Peace to All
 

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dream moon JO B posted a blog post

i miss the family its no longer here

i miss the family so much its no longer here mom dad uncle sister  aunites pets frineds its like family i miss them all im woried im going to have no body soon i am iv being on this forum since 2012 dont get on much thease days i dont iv saed a lot of goodbyes from people from my church im a spirtalest  but its still hard saying goodbye See More
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Walter Craig posted a discussion

...both parents

I lost my mama to cancer after her 10 month battle with Vulvar Cancer and I had to witness some very horrific days. She suffered so much and I tried to be there with her as much as I could but she did not survive this monster and passed away.my dad was also battening lung disease and he passed away 7 weeks later. I am 32 and no siblings and no family of my own.some days I feel lost and I don't know if I can carry on...See More
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The Wheels on (My Grief) Bus Go Round and Round...

New Year - 2025!At the start of the year I returned to Thailand for another medical mission.  This was my fourth trip for this and I was somewhat ready/prepared for the heightened emotions.  Not sure why...no real connection to Jen or her accident, but in the past these trips offer some extended alone time, away from others, away from people that speak the same language and as such seem to bring the thoughts back to the forefront.  Strangely, the same levels of emotionality were not there.  Not…See More
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Speed Weasel commented on Dottie's status
"Dottie, do you find the anniversary dates to still be as emotionally difficult as the first couple times?  I find that some years, it is very fresh and raw, others almost (almost) slip by without fanfare."
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Speed Weasel replied to Mabel Murphy's discussion My husband passed away
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