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Comment by Brett Bowman on Monday

Lia, losing your mom is hard enough. When you also lived with her that takes it to a whole different level because you didn't experience the natural separation that other adults do. That's sure what happened to me. I lived with my mom and she was my whole world. The sicker she got she even became like my child. For you, starting over goes to a whole deeper level than most. My brothers and sister were able to go back to their lives. I had to start over. I am still starting over.

Comment by Lia Lynch on Monday

Thank you everyone. My mom had refused to see doctors for seven years; she feel ill, finally went, was diagnosed with Stage IV metastasized cancer in her throat, lung, and liver, went directly to hospice, and died less than 4 weeks from the initial doctor visit.

My daughter and I lived with her for the past eight years.  I am devastated.

Comment by Avi on Monday

Hi Lia, 

So sorry for your loss. 

Similar to others, I can understand your pain. I wish comfort to you but I know it is not easy. Please take your time. 

All people, I was travelling so could not post for long. This is to tell that I visited by dream location Prague on 15 Sep but could not enjoy much. I feel like not enjoying at all and everything just happens. 

Also, finally I got the promotion guys. 

Comment by BLUEBELL on Sunday

Lia

I am so sorry for your loss.

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on Sunday

Lia, I am so sorry. It's been almost three years for me and my heart is still broken. We understand. Please feel free to share with us. We will help you all we can. In some ways I wish that I had found this board so soon after my mom's death. It's just good to know that there are people who understand what this feels like. You are still in shock right now and I'm sure the feelings are raw and intense. I will walk with you, buddy. God Bless You.

Comment by Theresa on Sunday

Lia I am so sorry, can you tell us your story?

Comment by Lia Lynch on September 15, 2018 at 5:44pm

I just lost my mom two days ago. My heart is broken.

Comment by Brett Bowman on September 5, 2018 at 9:44am

Douglass, I'm sorry. Grief is agonizing enough without having life kick you in the teeth. We went from having so much unconditional love to seeing the worst in people.

Comment by Theresa on September 5, 2018 at 5:55am

Avi I am so sorry about the promo, something else will come up.

That just wasn't meant to be, that is how I look at something that did not work out for me.

Yep still missing mom, and having my friends mom pass on Friday, was no help either, I am dreading going to the funeral, I do not go to funerals, a small mass is sufficient is my belief, the soul has left the body and its just a body in a box and more drawn out agony for the family, just my own belief.

My friends mom had dementia, she stopped eating, I said to my friend at least you were there with her and you got to say whatever it was that you wanted to say.  

I did not....

Comment by Douglas on September 5, 2018 at 1:45am

I am so sorry everyone.

You know, it is amazing what can bring on memories and therefore grief. I see places DAILY where my Mom and Dad went and near where WE lived and I STILL would be living if my siblings hadn't overruled me and sold the house that I loved SO much! I know I could not afford it, but we could have worked SOMETHING out! That's a whole other story.

But I am an extremely sentimental person and I remember dates, times, locations and everything. I am glad to be here because there are a lot of happy memories. Yet, I feel so lonely here! Only one aunt living here. It is me and my beautiful  female Black Labrador Retriever, who my Mom loved SO much and I do too! I am also facing serious financial issues, which is causing more depression. Most days I do not want to get out of bed. I am tired of all this! Yet, I thank God for my dog and all I have!

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