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Comment by Theresa yesterday

You also Heather...thank you.

Comment by Heather yesterday
Hi Theresa,
I hope you know you are in my thoughts...and am sending you ((hugs))...
Take good care

Heather
Comment by Theresa yesterday

Hi everyone, I am coming up on 10 months, time has gone so fast, I am still having a very difficult time.

I stopped the meds to sleep the dr gave me because they made me more anxious.

I really am still so very lost.......my heart aches everyday.

Comment by Theresa on September 17, 2016 at 5:52am

Jessie so sorry for your recent loss.  I get so much anxiety my face feels like it is tingling its awful.

I keep trying to say to myself this is life I have to learn to live without my mom, I don't want to, but I have no choice. 

I cry everyday still and its been nine months, sometimes I am at a loss for words, I just miss her terribly.

I surely hope as time goes on my sadness dissipates.

Sometimes when I cry I say, I am not crying for you mom because I know how happy you are with God, I cry for myself because of course there is a few things I wanted to do or say before you left so suddenly.

 

Comment by Heather on September 15, 2016 at 7:42am
Jessie I am so sorry for your loss...what you said about questioning everything and not having a passion for life is so true! I am so tired of everything and wish someone would care enough to say, " how have you been doing?"... feel like no one cares about it because they don't want to talk about such a significant loss....
Hugs to you, Jessie... I know exactly how you feel...
Comment by Jessie Maghrabi on September 15, 2016 at 7:28am

How can anyone cope with loosing a mother, i have lost my mom 4 months ago for breast cancer and i dont want to realise it till now that she is gone.

It's like i am in a bad dream a really bad one and i cant wake up, i was the one taking care of her, going to all her chemo sessions and discussing her case with her doctors and she was fine she was getting better and suddenly she had a stroke and went into 22 days of coma before she passed away...i told her when she was in a coma to let go to leave to go home but now i cant let go of her.

Life has been tasteless, i cant find a purpose anymore since she is gone..i cant work, i cant find my passion anymore.

I feel this sharp pain when i suddenly realize she is gone, i hate holidays and events, i cant deal with friends on the same level like before, i want to stay by myself most of the time.

I miss my mom.

Comment by Gregory on September 14, 2016 at 4:03pm

Yes, it is very hard David.  I don't think our mothers go away forever.  Their spirit is always around you, it's just not in her body like you were used to seeing it.  Look in other places and you might find little things that reassure that she is still there watching out for you.  

Comment by David B on September 14, 2016 at 3:08pm
My heart goes out to all that have experienced the trauma of loosing their mother. It is by far the most traumatic and life changing event in my life and it has been 13 yrs and I still have not found peace. I still cry when I really need her and I have nobody to comfort me and reassure me this too shall pass. I realize that I may never get over this loss and that really is hard to live with. Being alone is so hard when you need love to survive and there is nobody there. I love you and miss you Mom!
Comment by rosa on September 14, 2016 at 2:52pm

Hello,

I came across this website and decided to join. I read some posts and found others are going through the same emotions as me. I just lost my mom on February, 2016. This is my first loss. I never imagined it to be so painful. Today is my birthday and wished my mom would be here. It feels like part of your life is gone, especially when you are very close to your mother.

Comment by Monica on September 13, 2016 at 8:32am
Good question Theresa! Im at 10months now and ive wondered the same thing. Ive heard the 1st year is the hardest,,but it still feels like just yesterday she was here with me, and still i find it hard to navigate life without her love and guidance. I sometimes feel frustrated when i feel people expect me to be moving forward...i mean,,,ive had NO choice right? But this pain still cripples me and i cant apologize for that. Im still getting to know this NEW and grieving ME..without my beloved Mother.
 

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