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I miss my Mom!

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Comment by Theresa 5 hours ago

Bluebell, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
My brother called me the other day and he said are you ok? There is a twenty year age difference between us, so we are not that close and he lives five hours away.
I said to him, yes I though you would have forgotten, the 14th was 18 years since my dad passed and I said to him you know next week on the 19th is two years for mommmy and he said I know, I just wanted to make sure you are ok.
I said yes, but I cry still, of course I miss her so much.
I have busy with work and will not have a day off until Christmas day, which exhausts me, but keeps my mind busy.

Comment by BLUEBELL 6 hours ago

Another bad day. I was shopping for Christmas cards and gift bags when without warning, I broke down in tears at the register. Thank goodness the cashier was a sensitive caring person and did not just blow me off. She said "Your Mom will always be with you". There are good people in this world and I was fortunate enough to have been in the presence of one when I became overwhelmed with emotion. 

I pray you all are getting through this hard season okay. It is a hard time. For me, it is the first Christmas without my Mom. I am just feeling my way through it and doing the best I can.

I miss you Mom with all my heart.

Love,

Your daughter Pam

Comment by BLUEBELL on Wednesday

I wish I could reach out and touch her again. I miss her.

Bluebell

Comment by Theresa on Wednesday

She is right beside you Bluebell.

:)

Comment by BLUEBELL on Monday

I do not feel very peaceful today. Lots of tears this morning because my sister and I are going to decorate Mom's Christmas tree for our get together at Mom's home on Christmas. But the sadness is mixed with good memories of when she was still with us. I am grateful for that. I guess I am grateful for the tears too because it means I loved her very much. 

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on Monday

They have peace, yes. It's up to us to try to follow suit.

Comment by Theresa on Monday

Thank you Bluebell.  You are right they have peace.  

Comment by BLUEBELL on Monday

I read your post again Theresa. What a shock. I am so sorry.

Bluebell

Comment by BLUEBELL on December 10, 2017 at 10:00am

They do have peace now and that does give me comfort on the bad days.

Bluebell

Comment by Theresa on December 9, 2017 at 6:24am

Bluebell that was very touching.

I would be more at peace with my moms death if only I could have gotten to the hospital before she went in cardiac arrest, it was like someone turning the lights off, when they called me when I was pulling in the hospital parking lot, my mom could not have been there more than 20 minutes and they said to me your mom is in full cardiac arrest, I was like huh, what, I though oh maybe a heart attack, but for what I was about to see was not what I expected.  From that point on I remember very little, I called my brother, my husband, my work to tell them I would not be there, my cousin who she was close with to please come, I feel bad for my brother he had a long ride and when I called him at 8am he said I know this couldn't be good news.

I almost forgot to call a priest, I was numb.

I cry still alot and tell her I miss her, then I try to think of all the things we did together, most of them she did for me.

Can I just say after CPR did not work, and the dr asked me do you want us to continue doing this, I looked at him and said is she breathing he said no, I said stop it.  

Her face had a peaceful look so calm she looked beautiful just like she saw what she believed she would, even my husband commented he said look at her face, not a wrinkle just a glow.  At 92 years old.

I tried to tell my brother but I couldn't describe what I saw.

 

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