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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Danny 21 hours ago

its very tough and I am still often in a daze but going through the motions for now to survive. 

Comment by Helena Lopes yesterday

Although it's been almost 10 months I still feel like this is all a big nightmare, and that tomorrow I'll be able to see my mom again, to hug her and kiss her..  I still have my dad to care for, and most times I have to be stronger than I can...  Just so he doesn't break down.  Miss you so much mom!!!!  

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on September 24, 2014 at 10:50pm

So true Casey! Who else had that true unconditional love for us.

Comment by Casey on September 24, 2014 at 1:34pm

Hi ladies, I also call my mother whenever I need to talk about anything, it can be during work or on the way home. She was always there to listen, even if she was busy, she put my own life ahead of her. She would also tell me to be safe and come home soon. (we live together) i miss her so much, she is the only one who truly love us unconditionally.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on September 24, 2014 at 12:17am

Big hug Meggie! Sounds like you were close with your mom. I was too. I too would call my mom on my way home. Or if the weather was bad she'd call me and remind me to drive safe. Death seems so unfair. Because it takes away the ones we truly love and who love us. Crying is good. I cry still. Never hold our feeling in. If you are like me, you will have good days and bad days. It is just the way it is. Loss of our loved ones hurts so deeply, it is a pain I cannot even describe.

Comment by Meggie Meg on September 23, 2014 at 11:28pm

I completely lost my $#%! on the way home from work tonight. I called a couple friends just to chat. When no one answered, I realized when mom was alive I would call her on my way home just to check in. I freaking miss her. Cried. Big tears. Death is a heartless jerk.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on September 23, 2014 at 10:32pm

My mom's been gone for a year, and my dad two years. I tried counseling, and I think it helped somewhat. As all of you know our pain is so very real. Birthday's holiday's, constant reminders of our dear loved ones make it double hard. We all have our good and bad days. There is no one like mom--period. Our mother's cannot be replaced. Hugs to you all!!

Comment by Casey on September 23, 2014 at 8:20pm

glad to hear it but dreams are just dreams.

Comment by Danny on September 23, 2014 at 5:51am

I am talking to a counselor online now Casey and she's given me tips on and off.  Thats what I need right now just someone to talk a bit here and there while I do my thing. Yes dreams do come in so that is good.

Comment by Casey on September 22, 2014 at 5:33pm

Talking to a counselor does help, Danny..I dreamed about mother today. I was so happy, "mom you are back you are back, how is it possible, i asked?" and she said "I like to know as well."

 

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Zell replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
"totally agree Bluebird.  Nothing holds purpose for me in this life - nothing excites me, nothing to look forward to  in this life... I will never have the home he was going to build us.  I broke down and cried when I walked through my…"
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Carry on till tomorrow (written by Barbara Mason on Grief Toolbox)

I wanted to post this here and share it with all - it is poignant and relevant to us all, irrespective of who we lost....Carry on Till TomorrowSubmitted by dream1dancer  |  September 29, 2014 - 8:00am I don't listen to music anymore. Even the happy songs can make my heart sad. When I write though, it is because a song started running though my head and would not stop until I wrote what it evoked in my mind. I…See More
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louraniah commented on Diana Y's blog post After Death Communication
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Casey replied to Julie W's discussion The horror of a bad illness
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Lost & Alone replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
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Lost & Alone replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
"Amen, I have found that I have to try to be happy go luckie, as my mom is always saying that I was. Now it is a very hard chore but I found that it makes others feel better, which in a way makes me feel a little bit better. Hope that you find…"
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Lost & Alone replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
" I know how you feel to a point I do not think that showing any emotion (crying or any other type) makes some one weak. I have the  problem that I have three sons, and two of my sons were their dads shadows. I try not to let them see me…"
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Lost & Alone replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
"If that helps you then you should go, mabey you will meet some one who can help you. It is always worth it, if you can find a little peace. I hope that you will find a lot of peace. God Bless  "
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Lost & Alone replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
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L R, Jesse's mom replied to JO B alexio's discussion mad at god
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bluebird replied to JO B alexio's discussion mad at god
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Pauline Grutzeck Romano replied to Pauline Grutzeck Romano's discussion Loss of a Spouse
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L R, Jesse's mom replied to JO B alexio's discussion mad at god
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louraniah commented on Diana Y's blog post After Death Communication
"I do not own a camera that would let me get those kind of pictures. But I am sure you know what you see in the clouds just as I am sure. I have seen tops of mountains that look like a face with a forehead, eyes, nose open mouth and  chin... We…"
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