"Amy,
I am so sorry for your loss. The journey of caregiving is extremely difficult. The loss of our especially loved dear ones is unspeakable.
There are so many different ideas about what happens to us when we die. Religion teaches many different…"
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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend .
I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him and my kids asking or saying daddy when they hear the doorbell kills me but i have to make it every day for them they keep me breathing. I know the pain never goes away but does it ever get easier to deal with?
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Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on
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Hi Nicole,
I would have to say after 5 years that the pain is easier to deal with.
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Permalink Reply by JenShep on
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Some days, yes it does. And some days it’s worse than the day you lost him. I’m two years out.
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Permalink Reply by Fran on -
Nicole, I'm almost 4 years out(next month). At this point the pain is generally duller. Every so often, and it doesn't have to be a birthday or anniversary, something triggers a sharper pain. My life with my husband almost seems like it was another lifetime or a twin of me lived it. Time moves on and we get swept along with it.
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