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CHAT feature is very helpful

Good folks, You might want to CLICK on the CHAT feature, and join us.  If you are on the site, just have the sound on (computer) and if you…

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Are you finding it difficult to eat right?

When you are grieving it’s important that you take care of yourself through difficult times. We’ve all been knocked off center and find it…

Started by Jarvis in HealthLatest Reply

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So few left

Hello.  To start I’m 33 currently.  I lost my sister in 2007, and that has been the most difficult loss.  My mother soon followed in 2008.…

Started by Carmen in Untitled Category

2 on Sunday
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So painful without my mommy

Hi my name is Patricia ,  I’m a new member.. I cared for my mom in my home for 15 years .. last year she started getting weak. I don’t spea…

Started by Patricia Chavez in Untitled Category

2 Feb 25
Reply by Patricia Chavez

mad at god

i am mad me for bean mad god  i am so mad at god for stuff he has put us thru  if i sea him or her im worid in i say horble stuff 2 him or…

Started by JO B in Untitled Category

1151 Feb 23
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Has anyone on the site use alcoholic to cope with Grief.

I would like to know if I am the only one on this site who uses alcoholic to cope with spouse's death.

Started by Linda Engberg in Untitled Category

10 Feb 23
Reply by Linda Engberg

The Worst Pain of all

As I approach the 3rd year without my lady, I thank my God for the gift of the 24 years I had with her in marriage and then sti down and le…

Started by Mel Royer in Untitled Category

2 Feb 23
Reply by Dennis C.

It really was my fault **CONTAINS TRIGGER**

I will try to be brief, feel free to skip to the end if you want. 2006 - age 19 met my hubby Dave. Everything moved fast and we moved in t…

Started by Donna in Untitled Category

2 Jan 17
Reply by Joann


How do you get over a loss of a baby? To never hear their heartbeat. I was 6 weeks pregnant, and I lost the one thing I wanted so badly. I…

Started by Chelsea R in Untitled Category

1 Jan 12
Reply by Dennis C.


Today is Tuesday, September the 5th. My birthday is tomorrow, Wednesday the 6th. It is the first without my beloved wife. The agony and lon…

Started by Richard Rivera in Untitled Category

6 Jan 10
Reply by Kelley J Lopez

Love and laughter

How do I have a death discussion with My sister ? I am bipolar and struggle To survive myself and now I am losing The one person who actual…

Started by Sophie shea in Health

2 Jan 10
Reply by Kelley J Lopez

Christmas mean nothing to me.

This will be my 5th Christmas without my beloved husband Julian, the pain in my heart will never let me enjoy life again.

Started by Linda Engberg in Untitled Category

3 Dec 23, 2017
Reply by Linda Engberg


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Sharon Stolp replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
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Maxey replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
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Alice Thompson replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Maxey, Thanks for your honesty, and I feel the same. Personally, I hate it when people say it is our choice, to look forwards or back, etc, partly because that sounds like they are blaming the bereaved for feeling sad and missing their loves, and…"
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Marjorie Willcox replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Maxey, How I feel for you and can empathise so much.I ask myself that question How can we have been loved & cherished all those years and then be expected to move on within our lives. I too read inspirational stuff & have a psychiatric…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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joe kelly replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Maxie, Word for word I could have written what you did.  I've have the very same thoughts, all of them that you have.  I feel the same way.  I wish I could give you some positive outlook but I can't.  My wife died…"
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Maria panettieri commented on Marjorie Willcox's blog post Loss of my husband
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Maxey added a discussion to the group Lost My Spouse...

Has Not Happened

Hi, everyone,I have been going to a grief group since I felt I needed some direction to "get a life".The leader is a great guy and has some wisdom that for the moment I consider.  He told us that it is our choice of how we spend the rest of our lives without our loves.  We can either look forward or backward.  Well, it all sounds good until I get home to an empty house, an empty life, no friends I really like, a family who thinks I am doing "better", and a husband who is gone.  All the things…See More
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Maxey commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi,  i have'nt been around for a while.  I had the ridiculous notion that over time I would get better, but that has not happened.  I think, if anything, I am getting a bit "insane" thinking of how meaningless my life…"
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joe kelly replied to joe kelly's discussion In agony in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you for sharing Sharon and sorry you lost you're true love, best friend and lover.  What I'm finding out is that everyone wants to fix me somehow, just like when you went for therapy.  From what I read and hear is that we…"
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Linda Engberg replied to joe kelly's discussion In agony in the group Lost My Spouse...
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Sharon Stolp replied to joe kelly's discussion In agony in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello Joe. I am so teribly sorry for the loss of your beloved. My dear husband died 2 years ago. Unlike your wife he would never go to the doctor, just worked 6/7 days a week waiting for the day he could retire. He died 2 weeks before his 64th…"
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