Ruthie
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I had the most amazing experience with Sunni Wells at SunniWells.com.  She has a gift from God as is able to here her angels.  Everything she does is for the Glory of God, and as the bible says there…Continue

Started Mar 19, 2017

Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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Wow, I just noticed that this is the biggest group.  How hard for all of us to deal with losing one so quickly.  I talked to Kevin an hour before the accident and then the Sheriff showed up and my…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by ShingingLight1967 Oct 15, 2016.

Holidays coming
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Our 27 year old Daughter is dreading our first Thanksgiving and Christmas with out him.  Our little family of three always celebrated holidays together. Any suggestions on how to make it easier for…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ruthie Oct 20, 2016.

GUNS AND DEMENTIA
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My husband, Kevin, was hunting with his dad on 1-7-16 and his dad accidently shot Kevin, but being prideful and having dementia, he lied and the Sheriff closed case EVEN after coroner said no way he…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ruthie Nov 18, 2016.

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About Me:
Now questioning my belief in Christ. Trying to get justice for beautiful husband, who passed at age 51.
I now support the belief of a Loving God and realize justice will not be served on this earth and it is ok.
About my Loss:
husband at age 51 years old when his father accidently shot Kevin while they were hunting
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At 8:55pm on December 28, 2016, S.a.m. said…

Thanks Ruthie. I hope you're doing okay with the holidays. It's been up and down for me. Yes, as you said, everyone is different in terms of what they decide to do in terms of dating. It's been two years, and I can't imagine dating--but I believe this is something that has no rules and every person has the right to make that choice for her/himself in their own time. And so rather than thinking about that I have been working on doing what I need to do to go forward as best I can.

Maryland is actually quite a bit more mild than Ohio...I forgot how cold it gets up north!

At 5:01pm on December 19, 2016, Alina Salesky said…
Hi Ruthie thanks for the note. I am so sorry for your loss and know exactly what you are going through. It will be a year Jan 30 for me and I'm finally eating normally again. I still don't sleep well and I haven't gone back to work. I know this sounds chliche but time really does help along with a support system. Please try to have a nice holiday even though I know it will be rough.
At 4:22pm on December 6, 2016, S.a.m. said…

Hi Ruthie,

Thanks for the note. I'm so sorry to hear what you have been going through.I moved to Ohio after my husband was killed (He was 42).  I could not stay in Maryland where we were living. I've been here for about two years now. I am also in the sudden loss group.

At 12:22pm on November 18, 2016, Melanie said…
Thank you Ruthie.
At 7:39pm on October 3, 2016, Jeff C said…

Wow, Ruthie!  Incredible!  And I'm glad the book helps you.  I can't remember if I told you, but they refer to the Forever Family Foundation, who, in turn, have the fabulous course "Love Knows Know Death."  It's the best $10 I ever spent.

I am sorry about what you're going through.

 
 
 

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