"I'm glad that I was with my mom when she passed over. I was the last person that she saw and I was able to tell her that it was okay, but you bet I was haunted by all that I saw. There is no good way."
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ShingingLight1967
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Signs from Our Loved Ones
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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Multiple Losses Group
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You're too young to be a…
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ShingingLight1967's Discussions
My intro and my pain
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I wanted to give an intro and say "Hello" and say while I am grateful for stumbling upon this site, I am angry and heartbroken to have stumbled upon this site.It's coming up on 10 months since I lost…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by ShingingLight1967 Oct 15, 2016.
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- About my Loss:
- December 11, 2015 my life changed forever. My soul mate and best friend collapsed at work from a heart attack. He had multiple heart attacks before I could arrive in the hospital. He never regained consciousness and on December 15, 2015 after several discussions, I made the decision to take him off of life support. He passed instantly.
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I miss my Mom!
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Lost My Spouse...
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Being the Other Woman/Ot…
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Losing a spouse and dati…
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Losing a sibling
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BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Actually, I am glad you did not see your Mom pass from this life to the next. I was there for mine and it haunts me that I watched her struggled for breath. There are other things that happened before they took her away that I will never…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"No she always used to say to me “you never know when it will be your time” I’m mad at myself for not being there and the reason was that I stopped at her house on the way to the hospital thinking they will have to get her settled…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I can relate. There is no definite diagnosis whether my Mom passed away from her heart condition or respiratory failure. I will never know. But there was nothing I could have done to prevent it. That was out of my control.
I pray that you feel your…"
Butterfly left a comment for Avi"Hi , I lost my mother on April 14, 2018. Was with her when she passed. Love if her life. It was hard watching her go and seeing the fight in her face and her knowing that was it as far as being with me again in physical body. She is now a gorgeous…"
Joy left a comment for Frances Koonce"Thanks for your message Frances. I just saw it. I appreciate your kind words. God bless you. I don’t post on this site likebI did when my mom first died. It’s still hard adjusting to her not being here. Her death has helped…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Bluebell, so glad for you
I so wish I could have the same experience
I finally after much though realized what it is that I am having a hard time with about my moms death.....why did she go in CA, I cry and realize that I will live with not knowing…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I have made a decision to take baby steps to recover from the trauma of the bleed in my brain. The first step I am working on is thinking of myself as a whole person who has the desire and courage to return to living a life without thinking of…"
Ginger commented on Susan Dee Leatham's blog post While I was sleeping"Thanks Susan,for this very inspiring post, I lost my daughter on Feb. 18,2018 and reading this has given me so much more peace as I talk to her everyday."
Elynn m replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely"Thank you bluebird for the kind words. That's a great idea to write to our friends. I still send Christmas cards, and birthday cards, but I should send a card once in awhile too. Thank you for the advice."
bluebird replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely"I'm sorry you're feeling so down. It's good that you have your children and your sister-in-law, but no one can take the place of your husband. As far as your friends, it's quite possible that they just don't know…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Elynn and Monty
I have this picture right by my computer. It really helped me accept the fact that I will never stop grieve fro my Husband. I find no comfort with family and Friends, just my sweet little dog Babie J."
Elynn m commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."thank you Monty for your comments. I try to remind myself that friends don't know what they r doing, and they don't know what to say. I know that everyone will face this at some time, but I cannot say that to friends,…"
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Elynn
sorry so to hear of your loss and how your feeling.
My wife passed December last year and i have also found that people have stopped calling and don't come around. I too am feeling isolated and alone.
Luckily for me i have my sister…"
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