"I would say that your mom was fortunate that she did not suffer that way. Sometimes a person will suffer for years before they die. I am certainly glad that I got to be with my mom at the end and tell her that I loved her every day, but it was…"
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ShingingLight1967
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ShingingLight1967's Discussions
My intro and my pain
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I wanted to give an intro and say "Hello" and say while I am grateful for stumbling upon this site, I am angry and heartbroken to have stumbled upon this site.It's coming up on 10 months since I lost…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by ShingingLight1967 Oct 15, 2016.
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- About my Loss:
- December 11, 2015 my life changed forever. My soul mate and best friend collapsed at work from a heart attack. He had multiple heart attacks before I could arrive in the hospital. He never regained consciousness and on December 15, 2015 after several discussions, I made the decision to take him off of life support. He passed instantly.
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I miss my Mom!
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Grieving Teens
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Losing Someone to Cancer
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I know you know I did not mean it in that way, but of course not, my question, should I be thankful she did not suffer and lay in a bed and me have to watch her suffer and be able to do nothing as so many had to do on this site. But as you…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa, I don't know if we can be thankful that our mom's died under any circumstances. "
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"True Brett
Should I be thankful? My mom died in an instant she was herself until the last minute. Some say I’m lucky I didn’t have to watch her suffer. But my mom used to always say we suffer everyday in this earth.
I would have been…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"No, she didn't everyone, good or bad, dies. Few people have an easy death."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Wow Avi I believe in karma but I’m not sure that your mom has done anything wrong present or past that would make her have gotten that disease"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thanks Theressa. Yes hope the questions will be answered. In my country, lot of importance is given to Karma and it is believed that whatever you sow and you will reap the same. Not sure how this karma cycle is analyzed and who decided if this was a…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Yes Avi That’s what we all have to do we have to go on with our lives it’s so much easier said than done I cry sometimes uncontrollably I have hope that one day every question or any uncertainty we have will be answered"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Guys it is completely 1 year when my mother's cancer was detected. I hope I can go back in time and change everything but I can only live with it. "
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Same Brett, yesterday out of the blue driving home from work I burst into tears saying mom why didn't you wait for me to get there before you went in cardiac arrest, well now isn't that stupid on my part.
I feel that I am a…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I'll keep going though. I'll keep praying. I'll keep putting one foot in front of the other, but I do not seem to get anywhere.
I will always pray for a wink or a nod. Just something to let me know that the Lord is walking with…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Guys, my heart is just broken. So broken. It's not because of some kind of change. It's just three years of sadness that continues to pull me down, and makes me feel that there is very little hope. I am a very spiritual person. When lie…"
bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him."Joe,
Thank you for your response, and for providing the link to your post about your NDE as well as describing it in more detail here. Although it's terrible that you were in that accident, in a way it was a blessing for you, in that it allows…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lia, your post made me cry because I also feel similar.
I wish you all strength "
Bern commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"2012 September 30th. This fight is real. My only son was shot in the head. The girl and her brother were in the house when it happened. The told police that they were playing with the gun. Well a sister and brother will die and go to hell or heaven…"
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Judy sometimes I feel the same way...why do some who don't deserve to live get to while our kids didn't. And sometimes when I hear others use that word, "miracle" it upsets me too."
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Connie forgive me if I screw this up but the line, "Don't cry for me, cause I live in eternity" runs through me head all the time."
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Connie what a beautiful gift!!!!! That was Daniel, letting you know he's there. "
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Ginger I left all my sons pictures right where they were I need to see them. "
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