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Kevin Bailey
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- Reading, PA
- United States
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- About Me:
- Nice, fun loving guy who just loves God, family and people.
- About my Loss:
- I lost the love of my beautiful wife to this horrible disease called cancer. We fought so long to beat it and she tried her best to stay as long as she could. It hurts my heart to have seen what this disease did to my beautiful wife, she or nobody on this earth deserves to be put through that pain. I honestly don't know how I'm gonna be able to go on from here. I feel so lost.
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I miss my Mom!
691 members
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
933 members
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I love my Dad.
382 members
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When will the ache subsi…
77 members
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Lost My Spouse...
318 members
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Elderley Abuse Mum died
1 member
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Widowed with young child…
24 members
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Losing Someone to Cancer
578 members
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You're too young to be a…
121 members
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Losing a spouse and dati…
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Marine Marietta replied to Crystal K's discussion Its hard accepting my mother's death in the group I miss my Mom!"Hi everyone. Thank you all for your sharing,I dont feel alone because I identify with you all. I am deeply greatful.
My dear mother passed 20th September. I was angry with my sister because of how she treated my mother. I begged my mother to live…"
Marine Marietta joined Karen's group
I miss my Mom!
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Cheyenne Steffen left a comment for morgan"Thank you for writing Morgan. I appreciate it so much that you reached out. I have an appointment with a grief counsellor on Monday. I'm looking forward to that and hoping the Dr. Can help. It's very difficult for me not to look ahead too…"
Carlyn Jorgensen commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"Tomorrow would have been my honorary little brother Rick's 30th birthday. It's going to be a very difficult day for me. However, I will honor his memory by going to a local bar with some friends and toasting his life. I'd love to be…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank goodness my baby dog is doing well. To be honest, I still stay at my Mom's house even though I own a condo close by. I kept my dog there because my Mom's cat Charlie tried to attack him one time. I recently introduced my pup and…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa,
I'm glad your medicine helped you some. Talk to your doctor if it's not helping a lot. They may be able to adjust the dosage or even the type. There are several available and everyone's body is not the same. I look at it like…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lisa Everything you said is right I also had to go on something for anxiety of course I wouldn’t take the proper dose because I was afraid it helped a bit but I’m still having anxiety and yes I’m learning to live as hard as it is…"
Lisa Green commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. I took Abby to see Dad last Saturday and it was such a nice reunion. He was not as excited as I thought he would be but that's ok. Abby sat right beside dad the whole time and dad rubbed her head and talked to her some. He…"
Sopa Brown posted a status"I look to you, it's where my help comes from. Thank you Lord for your lovingkindness and fathfullness."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My heart is broken. A part of me has died. My eyes swell up with tears.
This too shall past."
Sopa Brown posted a status"I have the hope of expectation of seeing him again on the new earth as it is in heaven."
Sopa Brown posted a status"My son's birthday just past. He would have been 27 years young. Now, he's been gone for 2years."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, I hope you are handling everything as well as can be, that is my fear losing my dog, he is my strength
But hopefully time will heal.
It is coming up on two years for both of us, I'm still heartbroken, people just dont' understand…"
Maxey left a comment for Cheyenne Steffen"Hi, Cheyenne,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will face this Saturday with dread as it is the second year of my husband's death. I think in the beginning, you feel a sort of numbness, you cannot believe this is real. As time goes by, you realize…"
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Saw your name come up and thought i'd say hi. Hope you are having a decent day (ive had maybe 2 so far). See you in person one day i hope. Take care pal.
Kevin, the first year tears you apart. It doesn't seem real in some respects. You survive(willing or not) thru the first birthdays without your soulmate...the first anniversary, the first Thanksgiving and Christmas, etc. People may not know what to say to you, but they more or less check in periodically. After the first year is over, most people kind of forget your situation. They feel you should've moved on. Unfortunately, this is when you could use their help the most because you really come to the realization that your loved is well and truly gone and that NOTHING is as it was and life SUCKS! I have gotten to the point where I don't do anything I don't want...or see anyone I don't want to see. I know I'm stuck. I miss having my playmate, my confidant, my cheerleader, my sounding board...I'm sorry we are all in this together, but, this site helps me a lot.
So sorry for your loss. Your wife was beautiful. Im 30 days in, and it is the toughest thing i've ever had to deal with.