My dear younger sister passed away almost 4 weeks ago and I could not cope with the pain and the yearning of her return.My life stops at the day of her passing. I have seen grief counselor and…Continue
Started by Hope Lowe. Last reply by Hope Lowe Sep 24.
My younger sister died unexpectedly Sept 8, 2015. She was 56. I had a feeling she was ill, but never would of dreamed, she would just drop dead. She hadn't been looking too good, the last 2 years or…Continue
I`ve just lost my younger sister on Dec 30th 2014 aged 37, i see pictures of her and it hits me all over again, i`ll never get over her death , sometimes it feels like shes still here and then it…Continue
Started by Carl Lloyd. Last reply by Hope Lowe Sep 15.
"Last week I had a very unfortunate argument with my stepmother, who I've only known for less than two years, about my grief. In the last ten months, I've lost my mother, separated from my spouse, sold my house, moved, and started a…"
"morgan, totally understand the killing yourself naturally, yep turned it a chain smoker nearly, constant cough that i should get checked but i dont care enough about myself to care, when my time comes , my time comes"
"hi margo, yeah we do ask ourselves alot of questions, i blamed myself for mike not going to the doc ( not sure why) we were unaware that he was sick he had one massive heart attack with no mini heart attacks prior and also blamed myself for other…"
"Tonight was the closest I've come to an ER visit since my hubby died. Sometimes, I just canNOT get a grip and the uncontrollable crying goes on for hours. I can't believe my heart hasn't dribbled out my nose, yet.…"
"It's been 95 days (ish) since my husband of 32 years died. One of the things that drives me crazy is that I don't remember the last thing I said to him. I know it was sweet, but I don't remember. What an odd thing to…"
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
It's just the intention of it has changed. It has become more real because the fog lifts enough to see that the same world we lived in with our husbands that was pretty crappy then was still tolerable because we shared the…"
"Tildyc- (part 1) I think I am killing myself slowly. Over the period of years I have had to trod this damnable path I have done everything I can think of to stress my biological body. At first I did a lot of dehydrating. As a…"
"Nichole- Financial issues on top of this loss is so unbearable. I've been going through this BS myself. All I could do was just work more and more. Which is exhausting. The grief takes so much of our strength and energy- it's damn near…"
"Angela- "Time alone perpetuates the pain". Agreed. But I can not bare to be around folks anymore. The meaningless conversations and those who do not realize how good they truly have it to live in the world of the "unaffected".…"
It has now been almost 5 years since the unexpected death of my mother. I have been really down and am thinking about going on anti-depressants. I am nervous about this though...I just feel like I need her so much for the things I am going through and will need her in the future. I am the oldest of four kids and have spent the most time with her out of my siblings, but I feel like we were not close and I constantly wonder if we would have been now. I am now 25 years old and just feel lost…See More
"hi all, i was going to ask how you were but that would be a silly question........ how are any of us! i thought i was starting to go ok there for a month or so but now at about the 5 mth mark, i am a total train wreck, once again crying very…"
"Tildyc, I hear your plea. I can relate in my own way. The pain is excruciating. The longing unbearable. I miss my Tom so much. I try to keep myself so busy In order to distract my mind....it doesn't always work. Time alone perpetuates the pain,…"
"Or run into an iceberg. Or an avalanche. Or a pack of wolves.
JEEZSUS- It's obvious I've lost my mind - gone totally crazy. This has been so GD hard . But honestly- I just want to go be with my Mark. And that is all I want."
"I dunno- I spend a lot of my time alone now out on the water in my skiff or in the woods hunting. Basically trying to escape reality.
Perhaps I'll get lucky and have a boating accident or accidentally piss off a bear? Ha-"