Losing a Sister

For anyone woman who has lost a sister.

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I lost my 18 Year old Sister to Cancer on May 14, 2014. This day has changed me forever, I wasn't and still aren't the same person I was. When we first found out that she had cancer - we knew that…Continue

Started by Amber O Jul 26.

My younger sister passed away 10 Replies

I`ve just lost my younger sister on Dec 30th 2014 aged 37, i see pictures of her and it hits me all over again, i`ll never get over her death , sometimes it feels like shes still here and then it…Continue

Started by Carl Lloyd. Last reply by HollowHeart Jul 5.

Rest In Peace, Little Sister! 4 Replies


Started by Raj Kriti Sinha. Last reply by HollowHeart Nov 8, 2015.

My Beautiful Younger Sister 3 Replies

My dear younger sister passed away almost 4 weeks ago and I could not cope with the pain and the yearning of her return.My life stops at the day of her passing.  I have seen grief counselor and…Continue

Started by Hope Lowe. Last reply by Hope Lowe Sep 24, 2015.

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Comment by Yetzy L. Diaz on July 9, 2016 at 2:15pm

It's been a while since I entered this community, ever since my sister died everything has been my responsibility. My sister and me were the only two kids my parents had. Once my sister dies my mom is diagnose with cancer and today 4 years after my sisters death I sit here mourning my mom deaths and feeling absolutely alone.  I lost two important people of my life.  I feel so lost.... 

Comment by Karens sis on June 1, 2016 at 2:12pm
It has been a year now. Sometimes it feels like yesterday, other times I want to remember the sound of her voice and can't. nothing is the same, everyday I wonder why this had to happen. I Am glad to be through the first Christmas, thanksgiving, birthday. I am hoping the ache lessens but the memories bring more joy.
Comment by HollowHeart on November 5, 2015 at 4:29pm

It's been a little over 2 weeks since I lost my older sister and I can't even believe I'm talking about her death. I am still in shock/disbelief and am numb. I can't move forward, can't go back. I have nothing to look forward to anymore as any plans always included her. We were best friends, she was always there to help me and now I'm alone. I just can not believe she is gone. I want to die, because I don't think I will ever be able to lead a productive life alongside this heartbreaking grief. So for me, it's like life is worth nothing now. I just miss talking to her so much. I feel like I"m suffocating with the need to see and and talk to her again. It doesn't feel real, yet it is my waking nightmare forever. 

Comment by beth on November 5, 2015 at 10:24am
I lost my sister on April 23 2015 and it kills me I am so sad all the time and I miss her so much it is like a nightmare for me I wish I could wake up from it R.I.P joy she was 36 I wish I could turn back time and help her and she would be here and not gone
Comment by Danielle McEwe on August 18, 2015 at 6:18am

My sister will be gone 2 years on Saturday. It is surreal to think that it has been 2 years since i heard her laugh, saw her smile, and talked to her. She was killed in a head on collision at the age of 21 and every day my heart breaks that she did not get to live her life. She had just been married a couple weeks earlier and it devastates me on a daily basis. RIp my dear little sister...I miss you every day.

Comment by Gabrielle on March 2, 2015 at 4:38pm
My sister died 3 weeks ago. I can't even believe I'm writing those words. How on earth does anyone move on from grief this intense? She was 22 years old and my world. I think I'm still in shock/denial. I cry for hours at a time and am numb for hours at a time. Waking up every morning is horrific. If anyone has any words of comfort please share them with me. x
Comment by Ashlee Lopez-Garcia on December 2, 2014 at 9:24pm
I lost my only sister almost three years ago. And the pain is still like it was yesterday. I can't seem to come to grips with it. It's like everyone has moved on, but I'm stuck. Everything reminds me of her. I don't ever want to forget her, but I do wish I could learn to cope with it.
Comment by Kim on July 31, 2014 at 12:01am

I don't know how to express this so that it is meaningful and respectful but after reading several posts I want to say I am jealous of what you all have lost.  and I'm suggesting that you try to avoid taking for granted that you ever had it in the first place.  there were no guarantees, every day you get with someone you love and loves you back is a gift.  everyone assumes it's a given to quarrel but underneath it all, to be tight with your family. but it's not a given. my younger sister never considered my feelings or needs, she couldn't, she was too broken to. we have had a one way relationship for all of her life where she has caused me more emotional and financial pain than anything else on this earth could have. But I still feel the grief of her pain.  So even though I never received anything but torture from her, I still have the pain associated with her suffering. So that is why I hope you recognize that even if your sisters were your worst nightmare you would probably still be in so much pain. So the fact that they were your closest friend, etc, is something to be celebrated completely aside from your grief.  At least she gave you those memories, albeit cut short.

Comment by Kendra on June 3, 2014 at 4:56pm

I recently lost my baby sister. June 7th will make a month. She was only 22. My entire world ha been torn apart.  

Comment by Yetzy L. Diaz on March 4, 2014 at 6:02pm

It's been almost two years since my only sister is gone and the pain is still the same. 


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