My dear younger sister passed away almost 4 weeks ago and I could not cope with the pain and the yearning of her return.My life stops at the day of her passing. I have seen grief counselor and…Continue
Started by Hope Lowe. Last reply by Hope Lowe Sep 24.
My younger sister died unexpectedly Sept 8, 2015. She was 56. I had a feeling she was ill, but never would of dreamed, she would just drop dead. She hadn't been looking too good, the last 2 years or…Continue
I`ve just lost my younger sister on Dec 30th 2014 aged 37, i see pictures of her and it hits me all over again, i`ll never get over her death , sometimes it feels like shes still here and then it…Continue
Started by Carl Lloyd. Last reply by Hope Lowe Sep 15.
"I have not been on here for a couple of years. I have suffered many losses in my life as well. When I was 8 years old I lost my mom (who was only 35) from a heart attach. At the age of 18 my dad died (47) of bladder cancer. My brother died at the…"
""I miss our adventures. They weren’t too grand, but being with you made everything feel like the world’s greatest adventure."
So beautiful. So very, very beautiful. Exactly. Yes, exactly. All the beautiful colors and small…"
"Nadin, I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. Please know you are not alone in your grief. You and your family are in my prayers. One second at a time. Deep breaths. I have hit my knees and asked for help so many times. I hope…"
"Good funeral people totally get that grief makes us feel stupid. It makes it very hard to plan.
Call a local funeral place, and just notice if they try carefully to help you with each step of the process. They should be kindly to you, and checking…"
"They're in a slightly fresher state of shock than you are. You might go with silent hand squeezes.
Words can be so very hurtful. I've most appreciated the people who showed me love without saying anything."
"They may not help, but the what ifs and what should I have done differently's have inevitably played out in my thoughts.
I have one helpful friend who lets me what if, and she answers "if that, maybe then this would have happened,"…"
"There is nothing wrong with keeping your mom's belongings and her ashes in your home. I will always keep my husband's ashes with me, as well as the ashes of our cat who died a few years before he did. With me is where they belong."
"Many of us feel that guilt. My husband died of a massive heart attack at age 40. I had tried to make him go to the doctor to get a physical, just because he should at his age. We didn't know he had a heart problem, but we…"
"Nadin I don't know what to say except we are hear to listen. You can cry, scream, yell whatever you need to do. We are here.
It will be a year December 7th that I lost my precious son. Thank goodness for my youngest son as he keeps me going…"
"The what ifs and what should I have done differently will not help.
I did everything to help my mother and her doctor told me that I did everything right but I still felt like a failure and still do some/most days. He said they all watched me care…"
"Yes. Chris it does make you wonder. So true the love for your mom is like no other, and their love for us the same, thats why i think its so hard, when we lose that unconditional love, i know they still are with us , but its not the same. And thank…"
"My daughter took her life on Thursday she was 18. Guilt is what eats on me right now. I know how you feel because it's so painful. I wake up at night and whish that everything is just a bad dream but it isn't. My daughter was not able to…"
"I was fan of Supernatural, too.
I was planning to get D hooked on it this year. He was enjoying the genre but that particular show is I think the best of them.
I actually know that I will never watch it again. Or any of our shows. I can't…"