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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by joanne on February 25, 2016 at 10:08am

Bluebird,I too prefer the cloudy, rainy dreary days , the sun does nothing for me now, I'll never walk again with Andy in the park or on a beach like we did when the sun was shining, So I just want to stay alone in the dark now xx

Comment by Robin Quinn on February 24, 2016 at 10:32pm

5 weeks today.  I still can't comprehend that he's gone.  I can't function at work.  I haven't worked a full day of work since he left me.  I'm so tired of hurting and knowing there's nothing I can do about it.  I can see why people hurt themselves when something like this happens to them.  I'm not at that point, but I sure understand.  I feel like starting to drink and not quitting.  I miss him so much......

Comment by bluebird on February 23, 2016 at 9:56pm

I want my husband back too.  Failing that, I want to be with him wherever he is.

I prefer the cloudy, rainy, dreary days though -- the sunny days just piss me off, because there should be no sun when my beloved is dead.

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 23, 2016 at 7:37am

I hate dreary days with no sun, it makes my days without my wonderful husband harder.

Comment by George H on February 23, 2016 at 7:20am
Mary will be gone one year tomorrow my life hasn't gotten any better this is truly a f credit way to live still living in my room don't care if the world axplods
Comment by O.L. Cato on February 23, 2016 at 6:54am

I want my husband back.

Comment by Marjorie Guthrie on February 18, 2016 at 7:33pm

I'm so sorry Robin that was so quick. I know how your feeling.I only hope time will make us stronger.

Comment by Robin Quinn on February 18, 2016 at 7:07pm

Marjorie, my husband was diagnosed on December 17 and passed away on Jan. 20.  I am still in shock with how fast he went. I'm sorry for your loss.

Comment by Robin Quinn on February 18, 2016 at 7:06pm

Hi everyone. I survived 4 weeks without my husband.  I still cry every night.  trying to stay busy so I don't think.  I hope you're all coping with your loss and I pray for all of you.  We are so broken and can never be whole again.  Hopefully we will learn to live without our loved ones in a way that we can at least function.  I write a note to him every week on the day he passed away, I talk to him, I ask him to help me cope with his passing and ask him what do I do now?

Comment by Trina Mamoon on February 15, 2016 at 1:49am

Valentine's Day is one of the many difficult days to face when you are bereaved and are missing the love of your life terribly. As always, it was a huge struggle this morning to wake up and face another day without my darling Joseph. I spent a lot of time today pacing around the house aimlessly and asking over and over again why my wonderful darling had to go so early. But suddenly, I found myself giving thanks for having being granted 19 years of true love, happiness, and having the most amazing person I've ever known as my husband!

So as this difficult day draws to an end, I am thankful for sharing 19 years of my life with my wonderful husband. I just wish we were granted 19 more!

Sending good wishes to you all for peace, and for finding comfort in the memories we have of our beloved spouse/partner.

 

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