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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Jan Leslie Abrohms on August 25, 2020 at 5:01am

Oh Joseph, I am so sorry!  It’s been less than three months for me, and I still find it hard to accept. Be good to yourself!

Comment by Linda Engberg on August 24, 2020 at 8:14am

Dear Joseph,

I am so sorry for you loss. My Husband has been gone 8 years and I still miss him everyday. The folks in this forum really helped me through my grief and I pray it will help you too. God Bless 

Comment by Joseph Dubin on August 23, 2020 at 1:16pm

I just lost my wife Mary Jane suddenly last Friday.  We were married for 43 years.  I am devestated though feeling a little more acceptance .  I never expected this to happen.

Comment by Linda Engberg on August 19, 2020 at 3:19pm

Dear Jan,  I will be truthful with you. I have not moved on, just learned to live with it. Best of Luck to you in your counseling. 

Comment by Jan Leslie Abrohms on August 19, 2020 at 1:36am

Thank you, Linda!  I’ve been getting grief counseling twice a week, and participating in a support group.  Dealing with a pandemic during this time makes it that much more difficult. It’s a pretty lonely existence. 
That’s why I added another counseling session during the week. I realize it’s necessary for me to try and move on, but it’s way too soon to imagine that. I’m still working on being able to go in the backyard. I appreciate you responding!  I wish the best for you! ❤️

Comment by Linda Engberg on August 18, 2020 at 6:37am

Hi Jan,

So sorry for the loss of your Husband. I lost mine 7 years ago and I found this website to express how I felt. The people are very supported and kind. Since the COVID there hasn't been many posts. 

This is just one of many forums. If you look at the different forums they show how many people are members. If you read the past posts on this one you will see read how they coped with their grief.

I know we all grief different but I can relate to most of the posts. Myself, I had a grief therapist for 12 months which helped to get through losing him. 

I pray that you that you find comfort here and again I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless.

I hope you fine some comfort 

 

Comment by Jan Leslie Abrohms on August 18, 2020 at 2:24am

On June 6, 2020, I came home and found my husband in the backyard, without a heartbeat. He was 69. I’m not sure how to use this grief support site, or post comments. I’m especially interested in how others cope when there was no “good bye” .  

Comment by Alice Thompson on July 29, 2020 at 2:56am
Thanks Joe and Linda :-)
Comment by Linda Engberg on July 28, 2020 at 2:52pm

Welcome Back Alice, For myself, it has been 8 years since I lost my Husband, Julian. My loss will always feel the same until we are united again.

Comment by Joe Kelly on July 27, 2020 at 3:05pm

Thank you for sharing Alice and welcome back.

Joe

 

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