"Nicole, I'm almost 4 years out(next month). At this point the pain is generally duller. Every so often, and it doesn't have to be a birthday or anniversary, something triggers a sharper pain. My life with my husband almost seems like it…"
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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 3 Replies
I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue
Started by Nicole. Last reply by Fran 3 hours ago.
Lost my wife 6 Replies
It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue
Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Monty 18 hours ago.
FAILING 9 Replies
next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue
Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Oct 4.
Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 3 Replies
I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue
Started by Nicole. Last reply by Nicole Sep 28.
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Comment by Linda Engberg 4 hours ago -
Bluebird, Trina & Alexis,
Thanks for your thoughts. Life will never be the same again.
I am so glad to have such wonderful friends on this forum.
God Bless You All.
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Comment by ALEXIS 14 hours ago -
Linda and Bluebird I have been feeling the same way. At work I am getting in all sorts of holiday items and it is hard for me to look at it or think of the holidays. This will be my first without my husband. I'm not quite sure how to do this as some days I still forget that he is gone and then I wake up. I just keep putting one foot in front of the other because I don't know how to do anything else but it somehow just seems wrong. Sometimes I just want to stop doing anything but if I do, I'm afraid that I will never get started again.
Hugs to you both
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Comment by Trina Mamoon 17 hours ago -
Alas, time DOES NOT heal all wounds. Perhaps it heals most wounds, but not the loss of one's soulmate, the love of their life. Those people who say this, don't know any better. Either they don't understand what a soulmate is, or they never experienced the death of their precious spouse/partner.
Hugs to you, Linda and bluebird.
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Comment by Trina Mamoon 17 hours ago
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Comment by bluebird 18 hours ago -
I understand, Linda. It's the same for me. ((((Hugs))))
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Comment by Linda Engberg 20 hours ago
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Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years ago and it will never get better for me. All I do is hope that I will never awaken again and join him. Most people just don't get it.
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Comment by Linda Engberg 20 hours ago
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Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years ago and it will never get better for me. All I do is hope that I will never awaken again and join him. Most people just don't get it.
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Comment by Linda Engberg on September 27, 2018 at 3:05pm
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Hi Alexis,
Loved reading her book, after 5 years found this book more down to earth that the grief never goes away
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Comment by ALEXIS on September 27, 2018 at 12:05pm
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Linda,
I am currently reading that book and am finding it to be helpful. I feel like I can identify with the author and appreciate the fact that she acknowledges that this sucks.
Alexis
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Comment by Linda Engberg on September 27, 2018 at 7:33am
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Hello Everyone,
I just finished the book "It's OK that your're not OK by Megan Devine. It really helped me to realize that this forum is the only place I find where I can share my grief with others and not be criticized. I am so thankful for everyone of you.
God Bless Everyone One of You.
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Fran replied to Nicole's discussion Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . in the group Lost My Spouse...
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Bluebird, Trina & Alexis,
Thanks for your thoughts. Life will never be the same again.
I am so glad to have such wonderful friends on this forum.
God Bless You All."
ALEXIS commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Linda and Bluebird I have been feeling the same way. At work I am getting in all sorts of holiday items and it is hard for me to look at it or think of the holidays. This will be my first without my husband. I'm not quite sure…"
JenShep replied to Nicole's discussion Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . in the group Lost My Spouse..."Some days, yes it does. And some days it’s worse than the day you lost him. I’m two years out."
Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Alas, time DOES NOT heal all wounds. Perhaps it heals most wounds, but not the loss of one's soulmate, the love of their life. Those people who say this, don't know any better. Either they don't understand what a soulmate is, or they…"
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."I understand, Linda. It's the same for me. ((((Hugs))))"
Monty replied to Kyle McKay's discussion Lost my wife in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Kyle
Im so sorry for your loss and the pain your going though.
its hard at the start, especially if you don't feel you have any one to talk to.
you have a sympathetic ear in here any time you need / wish to talk, i know its not the same as…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I would say that your mom was fortunate that she did not suffer that way. Sometimes a person will suffer for years before they die. I am certainly glad that I got to be with my mom at the end and tell her that I loved her every day, but it was…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I know you know I did not mean it in that way, but of course not, my question, should I be thankful she did not suffer and lay in a bed and me have to watch her suffer and be able to do nothing as so many had to do on this site. But as you…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa, I don't know if we can be thankful that our mom's died under any circumstances. "
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"True Brett
Should I be thankful? My mom died in an instant she was herself until the last minute. Some say I’m lucky I didn’t have to watch her suffer. But my mom used to always say we suffer everyday in this earth.
I would have been…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"No, she didn't everyone, good or bad, dies. Few people have an easy death."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Wow Avi I believe in karma but I’m not sure that your mom has done anything wrong present or past that would make her have gotten that disease"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thanks Theressa. Yes hope the questions will be answered. In my country, lot of importance is given to Karma and it is believed that whatever you sow and you will reap the same. Not sure how this karma cycle is analyzed and who decided if this was a…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Yes Avi That’s what we all have to do we have to go on with our lives it’s so much easier said than done I cry sometimes uncontrollably I have hope that one day every question or any uncertainty we have will be answered"
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