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The Holiday Season and my loss 1 Reply
This Christmas Season this year is very hard.Family gatherings are wonderful but l feel my husband not being so much more.Seeing everyone makes it more real that Ron is not here.The tears are in my…Continue
Started by Denise Lavoie. Last reply by Linda Engberg Dec 24, 2018.
Lost my wife 14 Replies
It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue
Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Nov 12, 2018.
Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 3 Replies
I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue
Started by Nicole. Last reply by Fran Oct 19, 2018.
FAILING 9 Replies
next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue
Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Oct 4, 2018.
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Comment by joe kelly 6 hours ago -
It's been a little bit since I shared but it seems like I'm just stuck, out of sync with everything included myself in a way. It's been like one long endless day. I don't know how to explain it even. I'm waiting, waiting, waiting. Hoping, hoping, hoping. Longing, longing longing. Praying, praying, praying. When? When? When? I know She wants me with Her. I know She wants me to help our children. I know She is waiting for me. I am resigned to and accept to continue any an all suffering I must endure to go to where She went. I will not relent. The same as She never relented with Her unconditional love for me. As painful as it is, I'll have it no other way. I don't look for relief nor want it. All I want is to go to Her and adore Her for all eternity. I will suffer for as long as it takes for our reunification. That's all I can say right now.
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Comment by Linda Engberg 9 hours ago -
Monty,
For some of us, we will always remain out of sync with the rest of world.
We, like myself. live in our own universe.
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Comment by Monty 12 hours ago -
i feel like telling the world to go FOXTROX OSCAR !!!
dam auto corect..
sorry
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Comment by Monty 12 hours ago
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some days it seems so hard..
my life seems to have become so disjointed and out of sync with the rest of the world that we live in
even when your father believes that its harder to lose a partner to divorce that to lose you partner to death.
I feel so cross and upset that i feel like i want to play heavy rock very loud to make other people aware of how much pain i feel every day.
i feel like telling the work to go FOXTROX OSCAR !!!
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Comment by Linda Engberg yesterday
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Monty,
I m sure everyone on our forum had a very bad day. I just kept myself very busy all. Since I live in Florida and it is in the 70's I worked outside all day long. I feel Julian is with when I am outside. He knew I just loved the outdoors and I do find some peace.
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Comment by Monty on Thursday
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Hi All
i dont know why but this morning for no reason i got very sad and begain crying.
i had to pull over..
its not going to great day
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Comment by Linda Engberg on Thursday
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Trina,
It is so true, my Julian and I celebrated everyday of our life together like you an Joseph. We were Blessed.
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Comment by Trina Mamoon on Thursday -
Linda, thank you for the post. The words ring very true.
Today is Valentine’s Day, but fortunately for me, Joseph and I didn’t always celebrate on this day. We didn’t feel that we had to show our love and devotion on a specific day of the calendar. We showed our love for each other everyday. But hearing everybody making plans for Valentine’s Day makes me a little sad.
Hope everyone has a good day today in spite of everything else going on.
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Comment by Linda Engberg on Thursday
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Comment by Linda Engberg on Thursday
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Thanks everyone. I was upset that we couldn't share our posts, now I am fine. Thanks
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joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."It's been a little bit since I shared but it seems like I'm just stuck, out of sync with everything included myself in a way. It's been like one long endless day. I don't know how to explain it even. I'm…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Monty,
For some of us, we will always remain out of sync with the rest of world.
We, like myself. live in our own universe."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett you are right that is the "dark" side, it scares me too
That is so great about the phone call from the directors at the center, that must have made you feel like a million bucks.
You are making a positive impact, I know…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Avi, I actually looked up the EquoVox. I couldn't find an English link for it. I'll keep looking. I'm just really curious how it works. And I want you to make your own decisions. I just want you to be happy."
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"M, I'm half Catholic, and Theresa is 100% Catholic. This is a huge part of Catholicism. Ouiji boards just scare the crap out of me. I listened to a lecture series from a Vatican exorcists. There was a question and answer period. Someone asked…"
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, it gives me such a lift to hear about your new gig — sounds perfect! Lucky kids too, great when they can connect with an adult who also makes them laugh.
Your comment re the spirit world app that Avi came across brought back a…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Avi, things like that scare the crap out of me. I mean, how do you know that you are actually communicating with your mom, and not something bad? I believe that you may open yourself to something that may attach itself to you. That's just…"
Brenda Ann left a comment for Lisa"Dear Lisa,
I send you my heartfelt condolences as well as a welcome to our website. It is a safe place to come and talk or vent about your loss. Talking is very helpful in sorting out how to move forward. I would like to share a paragraph from what…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"No we should not, God is the only communicator Avi, you are right.
We should not disturb the deceased, they are in peace, it is us who are not in peace.
I still struggle everyday, I just have come to recognize that this is my new life. "
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Monty,
I m sure everyone on our forum had a very bad day. I just kept myself very busy all. Since I live in Florida and it is in the 70's I worked outside all day long. I feel Julian is with when I am outside. He knew I just loved the outdoors…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi Friends,
Few days back I came to know an app EquoVox which can help you communicate with your loved ones who are deceased. It seems be fake to me but have seen some videos on you tube people claiming its real. Did anybody on this group…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Trina,
It is so true, my Julian and I celebrated everyday of our life together like you an Joseph. We were Blessed."
Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Linda, thank you for the post. The words ring very true.
Today is Valentine’s Day, but fortunately for me, Joseph and I didn’t always celebrate on this day. We didn’t feel that we had to show our love and devotion on a specific day…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Thanks everyone. I was upset that we couldn't share our posts, now I am fine. Thanks"
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