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Comment by carla willhite on May 11, 2012 at 4:49pm

im here today because may 7th i lost a very amazing friend and person in a head on car crash less than 8 mi from my house after he brought me home. i was the last person he saw or talked to. he was 23 and didnt deserve to be gone.

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 11, 2012 at 3:35pm

wen i go to churc wen father s dose his service those who bleve in me never die i no im not the brainest person but wot duze it mean

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 10, 2012 at 3:36pm

im sory abot yore son robin you r rite abot never geting over people we hav lost its worse wen yo r close to thm like i woz with my dad even sum of my cuzins who died at a young age it the moment i feel like my heart has been ripit out the same for mum and evry body els in the family wen my nan died i woz at that funny age i did go off a littl a bit

Comment by Robin Jone on May 8, 2012 at 10:19pm

JB I am so sorry you are hurting so much right now. I have lost many loved ones in my life. My mom, my dad, my brother, nephew, and so many others but the latest was my son. He died on September 3rd from a fall. I don't think we ever get over the loss of a loved one, some how in time it gets a little easier. I admit tonight has been a very painful night, it felt like I had a hole in my heart and it was hard to breath. I hold on to the hope that someday I will see my son, and all my loved ones. Sometimes I just have to let myself cry and feel the pain. I have to remember though, that at least for me, the pain is not always so intense. That this too shall pass, that I don't have to worry about tomorrow, I just have to do this today. I pray we will all be able to get some relief from our pain, and someday be able to hold on to the happy memories to help us through. Hugs and prayers to all. Robin

Comment by Collin Bentley on May 8, 2012 at 4:23pm

I agree JB a broken leg is much easier to heal than a broken heart.  I don't think that we get over things totally.  I know that I will always have a pain in my heart from my brother and this will not completely heal till we meet again.  I hope you start to feel a little better, death is such a hard thing to deal with and it sounds like you had a really great father.  I can't imagine lossing my father, he and I are best friends as well as father and son.  sounds like this is the case with your father and you.  If there is anything I can do to help you please do not hesitate.  You and your father are in my prayers.  Take care and hold on tightly to the joy that your father brought you.  Be well.

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 8, 2012 at 3:36pm

they say broken bones r easdy to fix thy told me yrs ago wen i tore all the ligments in my foot but you cant fix a broken heart wen you lose people you lose it seams to hurt more evry day its bean abot 8 weeks peopl say get over it but i cant just yet iv got to do that in my time mite be never i cant even eat a full plate of foood just yet a few bites and i am full but i can say i had a dad who loved his family he woz sush a loving man my mum says to me evry day i tark to his foto evry day and say why did you hav to go why dont you com bac coz we r hurting so mush

Comment by Collin Bentley on May 6, 2012 at 10:22pm

JB sounds like you had a wonderful and caring father.  I think how hard things are really depend on how close you are to the person and their feelings.  I know when my grandmother passed it was hard but nothing compared to my brother.  Every situation is different and everyone is different.  The one good thing we can all look to is the grace of the Divine and how we can harness those graces to heal our wounds and to help others recover from traumma.  My the Grace of our Lord be with you JB and may everything be as it aught to be.  Be strong and realize that the Lord takes us when we are ready and when it is most likely that He is able to guide us and when our energy is most in tune with the Will of the Divine.  You and your family will be in my prayers.  Tears sometimes can be medicine to the soul. As I said earlier, we are blessed with this line to discuss how we feel and what we are going through...

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 5, 2012 at 3:17pm

people say its easy wen you lose a parent or grand parent i dont think its easy i think it is very painfull me and my dad and mum wer very close and wen he died me and mum aret still hurting i cry my self to sleep every nite and so dose mum wen my nan died i cryed alot i woz at skool then but got my self a bad name with the teachers then but now im older it hurts more if id had a page like this yrs ago it wood of helpt wen my cusin died yrs ago he woz like a brother to me and like a son to my dad and mum he had canser in the stomic but evry tim he went to th dr he woz chaset by the time he got help it woz to late like my other cuzin we played together haz kids she died of brain canser my dad used to take us out to te park my dad woza like a angel so kind and loving

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 5, 2012 at 8:42am

im pleased we have this plase to taek i wish they had is yrs ago wen my nan died and pets who died yrs ago and thanks for yore advise collin

Comment by Collin Bentley on May 4, 2012 at 7:10pm

JB it might be good just to be there for your mom.  I know my parents have been terribly affected by my brother's death and I simply try to listen to them and comfort them when they are sad.  I know the first three or four weeks after my brother passed I was tearful all the time.  I think once I saw the grave and realized that he really is gone, at least physically, I came to terms with the fact that he is in a much better place and that we will see each other again in the glory of the Divine.  It was really hard, I do think that if you can just hold your mom, give her as much love as you can and cry with her that would be one thing that will be helpful.  My parents and I shed a lot of tears together and it did seem to be therapuetic. I still walk up to my folks house and if there is someone in the front chair I will think that it is my brother and am saddened and distraught when I realize it is not my brother.

You certainly will be in my prayers and I hope that you saddness is lessened as time and grace flow.  It is so good to be able to chat with other folks out there that have similar situations and we can encourage each other and lift each other up.  There is hope for humanity.  Take care and be well.

In Christ

Collin

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