Stanley Ruiz
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  • Richmond Hill, NY
  • United States
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About Me:
I lived with a gay man 37 years and I cry every day..Home invaders came in the night at our vacation home shot me in my intestines and stomach
About my Loss:
HE WAS SHOT IN THE HEART AND DIED

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At 5:35pm on May 6, 2017, dream moon JO B said…

thnx stan got  a lot goin on coz of moms alz/dem iv arht witrs in my joms its why its hrfr 2 typ coz sum tim s i cnt feal jepypad i cnt

ho u r ok

At 1:52pm on March 2, 2016, dream moon JO B said…

im plesd diana let us join in 2012 i wud of bean wrse wors wt ort her stan we all wud of bean wra wrse wh ort her we all wud of 

At 12:20am on February 21, 2015, Sharon said…
Stanley, you've been through so much. Seeing your loved one die, and almost dying yourself. I spoke to a grief counselor that specializes in PTSD, and he said that families facing sudden death is very similar to PTSD. Our minds are racing and we feel anxious because we can't comprehend what had just happened. I'm so glad that the pain of your trauma is easing a little. I pray that mine will too.
At 5:20pm on March 24, 2014, dream moon JO B said…

hi stan bean 2 dentist 2 day dont hav 2 go bk till 6th mnths im lisnon 2 80s music on absulte radio 

hear is sm pics for u

hp u lk thm

At 3:40pm on December 3, 2013, dream moon JO B said…

stan ths pain is bad 2 day all coz of a sily falll i had ths yr i no iv bean tld by 2 drs wish i trusttt falllls can do damge 2 us thy can

dnt hlp wi grief pain as well on topp

At 4:10pm on December 2, 2013, Stanley Ruiz said…

JO.Sorry to hear about your shoulder and leg plus the weather does not help , Christmas will be here again and we are all memories and it is hard for all of us.This will be my second Christmas without ralph and I still cry.This house is full of his memories,I try to be strong but it is not so easy.I pray a lot and do not forget the candle Christmas Day..I always remember you in my prayers.God protect you and watch over you.Do not drink too much Ok.STAN

At 3:54pm on December 2, 2013, dream moon JO B said…

snap stan my sholderr is killng me evn my leg i hrt ths yrts mkng me wrk funny well lmpng a bit mre pain relif hlps for a bit thn it stoppps it doze thn ths pain cms bk 

now nxt holiday is xmas stan wish im not lkng fored 2 im not i usd 2 luv it wn my dad wz hear coz his bday wz 26th dec so we wud hav 2 selbratsons we did so we wud spnd 2 days drinking eatng 2 mush th on 27th dec we wud hav hangovrs or fealng a bit li heded 

At 4:00pm on November 15, 2013, dream moon JO B said…

thnxs stan i no sholdr pain u no wn i fell begin of yr wear i hrt my leg sholder if i had not fell i wud not hav set it off wors thn ever evn dr saed its easy 2 fall 2 do damg 2 us 

jst 1 of thm thngs

jo

At 3:30pm on November 10, 2013, dream moon JO B said…
  • plesed u r ok stan hpe u enjoy yore tm in forest had a bot of 1 of my wobly momnts 2 day i did i thnk its coz of evnts its cumng up it dose it 2 us
  • jo
At 3:48pm on November 9, 2013, dream moon JO B said…

thnx stan 

 
 
 

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