"I had a relationship with someone for 5 years. I am married, and wasn't ready to leave my husband. So this man and I met infrequently (every month or 2) and talked a lot through text, but I felt like we had a very close bond. He finally told me…"
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Cathy Richardson
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Being the Other Woman/Ot…
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mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiE…
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Addie joined Cathy Richardson's group
Being the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Suzy commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Grieving alone is the worst part, not being able to share the pain with ppl who knew him, keeping it secret. I totally relate to everything you wrote. Know there are others experiencing the same, so we're here. x"
Amy R joined Cathy Richardson's groupBeing the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Dana commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"I'm sorry to hear that you're still going through a tough time, Rain. I feel like some days I'm okay and others I'm struggling. I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to."
Rain commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"It's been almost two years for me. It doesn't hurt any less. Some days I push it away but then all of a sudden every bit of it hits like a ton of bricks. I did tell a few of my best friends and I mostly regret it. Now I feel it's just…"
Dana commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Thank you Krista for your thoughtful comment. I'm glad that I have a place where I can talk to my fomer lover. I don't know who to turn to, as I'm lost. I have a friend who's involved with a marry man but she has no idea what…"
Krista L commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Chanel, I still check in every few weeks. I lost my guy a year and a half ago and I still talk to him every day. I miss him just as much as the day he died. I don't think there is any time line for grief. I don't think I will ever stop…"
Dana commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Is this group still around? I'm having a hard time with my loss. It's been a few months and I still miss him. I was involved with a married man who died in a sudden and horrific accident. I miss him a lot and I feel lost without him. I…"
Dana joined Cathy Richardson's groupBeing the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Maia joined Cathy Richardson's groupBeing the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Krista L commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Thank you Darien for the encouraging words. I have been talking to Veronica in the Discussion "Still crying". It has helped me tremendously just to unload some of my thoughts about being in a relationship with a married man. My memories…"
Darien commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"Hello Krista,I'm afraid this forum isn't as active as some of us would like. I remember when I first came out here two years ago, raw with emotion. I still have times when I find myself still grieving, although it isn't as painful now…"
Krista L commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"I relate to so many of your stories. I lost my lover a year and 4 months ago. My biggest problem is that I don't feel as if I can grieve him. I have to stuff it all inside myself and never just let go. I have to keep up the pretense that I am…"
Krista L joined Cathy Richardson's groupBeing the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Maggie joined Cathy Richardson's groupBeing the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
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- About my Loss:
- I lost my best friend and married lover to cancer. I miss him every day and have to grieve in silence
Comment Wall (3 comments)
- At 7:55pm on January 19, 2017,
Rain said… - Thank you Cathy I sent you an email.
- At 6:52pm on April 10, 2015, Daphne said…
- Thank you Cathy. I have lost quite a few people in my life. But this is the most heartache I have ever felt.Grieving in silence is the hardest thing I've ever done. Our whole relationship was a world wind. Fast and crazy from beginning till end. I love and miss him everyday. Thank you.
- At 8:41pm on February 8, 2013, Cheryl Heldt said…
Cathy,
Thanks for your kind words. I'm involved with Church and have started a monthly dinner meeting with the widows of my parish. Unfortunately the widowers aren't interested. My problem is I am starved for affection. I won't consider on-line dating until that feeling goes away.
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Losing Someone to Cancer
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Jennifer left a comment for morgan"Thanks Morgan for commenting on my profile page. Wow...What u described that u go through every day of every year is exactly how I feel. I lost my girlfriend/fiance of 5 years to suicide. I know without a doubt in my mind that she is my soul mate so…"
morgan left a comment for Jennifer"Jennifer,
If there was anything at all I could say, I would. No one who hasn't lost the love of their life can understand the amount of pain that stays with us for a very long time. I know at four years I was still banging…"
maria left a comment for Michael"sorry for your loss I lost my husband feb 2016 its been rough I was married 44yrs"
Linda Engberg commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer"I feel it all depends on the relationship, no matter if man or woman."
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi All,
Hows everybody doing? Theressa, Brett, Adams, Virginia?"
M Adams commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer"Have heard the same thing about men and loneliness, based on the assumption that women usually have richer and more developed social networks, a wider range of relationships, etc. Of course this isn’t true of all women, though it seems…"
M Adams joined Katherine Ellis's group
Losing Someone to Cancer
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
Michael Thompson commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer"In my opinion as a Widower by 4 and a half years, men find dealing with being alone and loneliness harder than woman, this is what widows I meet tell me. I strive on a daily basis to at least be less anxious, but I miss my right arm in my…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."This past week we lost a young man of 24 with three children, If there is a God why would he take this young man instead of me who's life is over.
I really question my faith."
Joe Kelly commented on dream moon JO B's group why me why us"Our suffering is unbelievable and unbearable Dream Moon. We just jave to believe that there is an afterlife where we will be reunited with those we love. That's all I live for now. To die to be with my Loving wife. I…"
dream moon JO B commented on dream moon JO B's group why me why us"wearss my mannerss gon joe sorry on yore loss 2"
dream moon JO B commented on dream moon JO B's group why me why us"i no so sad joe
loss dear frinedd few days go way she sufferdd coz of illness wz cruell coz she wz a veryy sweet kind lady "
Joe Kelly commented on dream moon JO B's group why me why us"Why I don't know, but everyone dies someday. There is a lot of evil in our world who do terrible things. I'm sorry for your loss. I too suffer the loss of my wife and afraid my daughter will die soon from cancer. …"
dream moon JO B commented on dream moon JO B's group why me why us"stilllasky why
moree loss siness i postedd on hear"
dream moon JO B commented on Anna-Marie's blog post When does the crying stop."it can go on/off for yrs it can
do not t not let no 1 tell u way u shud feal or mkee u feal baf bad for grieff or los loss
lst 7 yrs iv go thruu a multii loss of pepplee
evn a cat i had for 16/17 yrss i loss 2
peplee say or…"
dream moon JO B posted a blog postwhy do god let wong 1s die or sufferrr
i no iv askt stuff on off l hav for 7 yrs on hear on off sineses iv bean hearwhy duzegot let gooodd gud pepplee suffrwen u get bad pepplee it kill or hyrtt hurtt not suffr 1 bit in lifee suffrr gud peepplee i no suffr coz of god i ask why]wen bad pepllee do bad stuff lk kill rapee molestr peppllee go free not be punchessd ty do not i get mad wen i hear kids died peplee it do no harmm 2 no 1 die bad detahtss deathss y thy doSee More
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