I have two grown up children. My son at home and my daughter in Melbourne. I have two dogs and three cats (some are mine and some are my partners) .
About my Loss:
My partner died suddenly on the 25th September 2009. I found him and had to do CPR but he had probably been dead for a while. The coroners report is still not back as yet but it is not going to bring him back any way. He was my best friend and soul mate.
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It's nearly been 4 months since all this happened :(. It's unbelievable it has been that long, still feels like September to me. I definately know what you mean about wondering if your heart will ever heal again. I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone, but cant imagine spending it with anyone else. A few months ago I was talking to a lady who lost her parnter unexpectedly and 6 years on she has meet a new man who she wants to marry, she was an inspiration but I can't help but think that it's not going to be the same for me. My email address is lizbug_25@hotmail, if you would like to email me through that
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