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Comment by Kitty Peine on August 31, 2012 at 7:44am

 

Kali,

My grandson is now 6. His daddy, my son, passed this last January. We have asked everyone we know to write down funny, interesting, any kind of stories/memories they can think of about Kevin. We also asked them to write down what kind of man he was, how he impacted their lives. We are going to put it in an album or 3 ring-binder to give Preston when he reaches a certain age or even read to him now....depending on the content of said memory :). It most definitely does not take the place of his daddy, but at least we can give Preston a sense of him. This actually has a win/win aspect to it. Those who are remembering and writing are benefiting, we benefit by receiving just a bit more of Kevin that we didn’t have before and Preston gets to know his daddy better.

Just a thought.

Comment by Kali Grainger on August 30, 2012 at 6:42pm

Still can't believe I am a widowed single mom at the age of 27... Or that my baby girl will never get to hug, kiss or play with her daddy.

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 30, 2012 at 4:20pm

i no how u feal a buyten wen i hear a balled song wot my dad liket tears start to cum in my eyes iv even sed its hayfevea so peple dont sea me upset i hate lying  i try to bottel thngs up and keep it to my self but i cant do tht lately but thy all ways seam to play thm songs in th shops i go in 2 iv even bort thngs thn left th m on the contea and the staf in th e shop runing afta me

Comment by A. Buyten on August 29, 2012 at 7:39pm

I am nearing the passing of the love of my life too. I haven't been able to listen to music for some time (anxiety attacks). It brings me to tears, but when i'm home i can and think the grieving is somewhat therapeutic. It is not easy when in public places that I hear a song that we liked together. I have to leave those situations immediately (don't want to be crying in the middle of the grocery store aisle). I feel that this is healthy, but I have to be a bit sheltered with my life. I can't go to most places that we had our great times together without panic attacks. Should i go these places and try to work through it? 

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 28, 2012 at 3:38pm

i no how u feal david hospitals give me nitemares the last bad exsperanse woz the way the tret my dad lazy nurses watching my dad suffer and other people suffer espesely the familys watching i had a bad expreanse my self a few yrs ago dr trying to take blood out of me cudnt find a vain but she stuck in me like a syco dr blood shot up like a fouten but this time with my dad woz worse it woz like watching  a nite mare film but worse coz me and mum wer part of it

Comment by David H on August 25, 2012 at 9:28pm

I get flashbacks ,that sometimes stop me in my tracks

Comment by Nicole Moreno on August 21, 2012 at 8:16pm

Michelle,

I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 16 year old and I can not imagine loosing him - especially not now that we have lost my husband... I understand your hurt that your son will never enjoy all the hard work and accomplishments - it hurts me everyday that my husband will not get to enjoy in all that our son will accomplish. That my husband will not be able to enjoy any of his own hard work...My heart hurts for you! *hug*

Comment by emma on August 20, 2012 at 2:36am

Jb that's awful :( I'm so sorry too I'm really not sure how I am ment to cope I feel I'm loosing my mind I miss her so much :( x

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 19, 2012 at 3:55pm

hi emma i didnt relize how many peope i lost till i cum on hear i lost my dad in march this yer wish woz very painfull wen i woz a kid id follow him all ovwer then i didnt relize this month woz my granmother kates anaversery for her death my dads mum my cuzen and the beging of this month she died 2 yrs agp to brain canser my cuzen stevo to pancrates canser my anti flo to bonre canser my andy marey to ling canser and edi to kidney canser and anti ann to breast canser great uncle h to old age my dad used to wite all the death anversry dorn so we woodnt foget the pepel we lost sory abot yore loss to

Comment by emma on August 19, 2012 at 1:07pm

Hi to every one I feel your pain and sorry for your losses ... I lost my older sister who was my Everything 4 months ago tragically and I just can't cope I'm also 8months pregnant so was 5 months when this all happenes so suddenly I am in denial shock im angry scared devertsated everything I just feel ao lonely I dont no how to carry on :( we were soooo close almost like twins .. My mum is completly broken and I don't know how to help her .. My dad is also heartbroken but can seem to cope a bit better than we can ... I try to eat for the baby but find it hard .. I hardly ever sleep and I won't see my friends or even speak to the
She has a 4 yr old son too :( I love her and miss her so much it's getting worse xx

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