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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

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Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle 3 Replies

Hello everyone, my name is Brittany. I am new to this and not quiet sure how this works. My therapist pointed me in this direction so i thought i would give it a try. I am 24 years old from…Continue

Started by Brittany. Last reply by Denise D Jan 31, 2021.

New to the Group

Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family.  I…Continue

Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.

Struggling 2 Replies

Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue

Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.

My "Little Brother"

Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

Tags: violent, death, loss, sudden, friend

Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.

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Comment by dream moon JO B on September 7, 2012 at 3:36pm

i font that test its grief berevament and mournining quiz medicine  fogive me if iv spelt it wong just hope it helps

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 7, 2012 at 3:21pm

there is lots just white grief test theree is loads u can do it dose help a bit even tho it did upset me a bit wen i find it again i will try to post it on hear 

Comment by Kitty Peine on September 7, 2012 at 3:11pm

Where did you find the test? i havent seen that one.

You are right about being able to vent here because we understand that everybody's journey is ok. Nobody grieves the same way.

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 7, 2012 at 3:07pm

it least on hear kitty u can get yore fealings down on hear and sum 1 else is going thru what we aree on hear and no 1 judges u on hear on hear we all going thru our griethh in difrent ways i seam to be stuck at the 1st wall i did a test on line a few weeks ago at wat stages at greith im at i got stage 1 dennal not acsepeted it yet ther is lots of test u can do

Comment by Kitty Peine on September 7, 2012 at 11:41am

My dad told me that once. "He's gone, Kitty. Forget him." I simply said "Not gonna happen, Dad." He was kind enough to drop it.

I feel so bad for you. She was/is here. She is very special. She is very real. They obviously dont know how to deal with your pain or theirs. Too bad they don't know ignoring it will not make it go away.

I have so many thoughts going through my head right now, too many to jot down here.

I am trying to figure out what they are trying to do. I am sure your family loves you and are trying to do what they think is right and it just isn't.

Death messes with everyone. I am so sorry they are choosing this way to handle it. I am going to pray for peace for you and your family.

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on September 7, 2012 at 10:48am

Yeah, it was her family. My friends have said that too but it's mainly been her family! I just don't get people sometimes!

Comment by Kali Grainger on September 7, 2012 at 9:17am

We always hear "Life is Short"... which is true for those who die at a young age or before they have reached old age... But for those of us who are left behind life seems so long...

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 7, 2012 at 8:47am

iv had the same tng my self jennifer my nease told me and mum u both hav to foget he ever exsisted and get over it its easy that woz a few month ago and im still upset with her for saying tht i no people say turn the other cheak but sum tims u cant i just hope 1 day she will lern sum human fealing before it is to late mamby god give me to mush i dont no i no shes allways braging abot sacking people for taking time off funralls but thtat nothing to be proud of wev all told her that

Comment by Kitty Peine on September 7, 2012 at 7:04am

Her FAMILY??? I thought you were talking about your friends!

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on September 6, 2012 at 9:24pm

I don't know if anyone is interested in this but I found this website, that makes bears or pillows out of loved ones clothing..highly considering having a bear made out of one of my mom's scrubs!

http://www.holdingmemories.com/

Kitty, I couldn't agree more! I am very happy for her, that she is no longer hurting anymore and is happy and peaceful..just sucks that her family pretend that she didn't exist or something..it's like a hush hush, don't talk about it type of thing.

 

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