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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

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Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

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Comment by dream moon JO B on December 17, 2013 at 3:39pm

i cnt get over it i jst get sic of bean tld 2 get over it it rely p@@@ss me ff wn thy say it 

it mks me feal sad coz of xmas i wish i cud sleep thru it or disper s wear 

sory if im rantng 2 mush

Comment by Danny on December 16, 2013 at 5:05pm

indeed you do not have to get over it.

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 16, 2013 at 4:15pm

missy on hear u can say hw u feal on hear it hlps

blog discus forom join grps cretat grps lk a lot of us did 

never let any 1 tell u 2 get over it coz thy mk it worse iv bean tlold ths a lot of tms never let any 1 tell u 2 get over it

jo

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on December 16, 2013 at 4:03pm

Missy, you can write all you want and hopefully it helps you cope.  That is a horrible way to lose your son and Mom.  And how is your Dad doing with all of this?  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Comment by anne on December 16, 2013 at 3:55pm

Oh Missy you can go on all you want. The whole thing makes no sense at all. How could this possibly be your fault? You weren't even there. This really is a hard one. Anyway you can write all you want. Maybe there is a lesson here for everyone.

Comment by anne on December 15, 2013 at 3:35pm

Hopefully one day Missy you will know what happened that day. Peace to you.

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 9:44pm

So what would possess her to do this awful deed?

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 8:36pm

Was she suffering any dementia, or dellusions? Sorry I'm so nosy, but I have never run across something like this ever. You don't have to reply to me. It's none of my business, but I am curious, but it's your choice. I guess I have always wondered about my own mother. I always had a hard time understanding her growing up. I still do sometimes, but she's now 83 so any getting her to talk to me like a grown up is not going to happen. She's a bit of a martyr, and I never really know how to take her.

I think you should concentrate on you right now. You have suffered a double loss. This won't be easy at all. If talking about it helps I'm here. I'm a pretty good listener, and I have been through a lot in my lifetime, but not what you are going through, but I do have big shoulders.

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 5:13pm

Conflicted truly is an understatement. If you don't mind my asking, was your mother ill?

Comment by anne on December 10, 2013 at 5:35pm

Oh my gosh Missy. The police have to tell you what happened. Heck I'm shocked for ya. You are welcome here. You just go ahead and write all you need to. My heart hurts for you. That's a lot to handle. You have my support, and comfort.

 

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