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About Me:
A seasoned professional looking to regain his mojo after a tough time.
About my Loss:
Have lost my anchor and unconditional support. Looking to survive and at some point, learn how to live with this.

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At 8:55am on November 16, 2016, Theresa said…

have to leave for work maybe in the evening?

At 3:05pm on July 3, 2015, Nancy Dynes said…
Hi Danny,
Are you a math major? I noticed a couple comments with math references (infinite numbers between zero and one, and another regarding your math prof).
The reason I ask is that my son is a math major (along with computer engineering). Math is his one true love. He will be a senior at university this year then going on to his phd in mathematics. His focus will be a very specific area of number theory.
You don't run in to high level mathematicians every day, so I thought I'd ask.
I hope you are getting through the day okay today. Losing my mother has been devastating for both me and my son. My son deals with it by throwing himself into his research. I just take it day by day.
Sincerely,
Nancy
At 9:44am on May 9, 2015, Amy said…
Hi Danny I'm new to this site so Im not sure if this is the private area you spoke of.
At 2:00pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

Hi,Danny ,sorry about your loss.It was my mom's 1st death anniversary on 2nd March.You are right, there will be no history of the month in the previous year.It shatters me to realize this.What do I do now?

At 10:29am on December 28, 2014, Angela Y said…
Thanks for the encouraging words. We have to find the blessings in the heartache. It's tough sometimes but they are there if we just pause and allow ourselves to love again
At 10:14am on November 18, 2014, Lynn Boyd said…

Thank you for your comment and concern Danny.  Yes, it has been very difficult to digest this loss, but moving back to the old neighborhood?  I have more friends now Here than I ever did back in the "old neighborhood".  I have more support, I now have a church family, the grief support group family, and I've bonded with many of my neighbors here more so than before.  It's been a year of firsts....first time his birthday passed without him in April, first time my birthday passed without him, all the activities we used to do yearly like going to fairs and festivals and theme parks and the beach trips.  Dreading the holidays, but that's what my new group is helping with.  New Year's Eve will be the worst, because that was our Anniversary.  So far I've learned to make my own new traditions, my sister is treating me to a Carnival Cruise Thanksgiving week (next week!), and will be with me for 3 weeks during Christmas and New Year's.  2 years ago he gave me an exclusive oil portrait of Princess Merida...he said it was to "make me Brave".  I had no idea how Brave I would have to be. God is telling me he wants me to be happy and live my life.  It's not easy, certainly not pleasant, but I'm getting through it.  Nothing worthwhile is easy, and none of us is promised a Tomorrow.  Live for today.  That was my beloved's motto.  I have to move on to honor his memory.  There was even more sadness this September....I had to have our beloved 14-year-old dog Daisy put to sleep.  Besides her illness, I truly believe she was dying of a broken heart because Daddy never came home again (and she was a Daddy's girl.)  I just hope 2015 is a better year.  For all of us in this grief community....I wish everyone Peace in your heart.

At 1:21am on November 9, 2014, Casey said…
My bf doesn't help. Grief is an extremely lonely feeling
I missed being my moms child, all of that is now dead and gone
At 6:36pm on September 17, 2014, Wendy (Boabie) said…

Thanks for the gift Danny. You are right, I should not refer to myself as an orphan. Although I feel like one sometimes. Hope you are well!

At 3:23am on September 17, 2014, Madeleine said…
Thanks Danny for adding me as a friend. You are right the cycle of good and bad days will probably continue. Think the trick is learning to maximize output during the good days and minimize collateral damage during the bad ones.
At 8:48am on August 22, 2014, Rachel said…

Danny, Thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss.  That anchor and unconditional support is alot to lose.  How is it possible for us to recover from all this?  My heart aches to know how many out there hurt as much as I do.  And I would never wish this kind of pain on anyone.  I'm so fortunate to have stumbled upon this site.  Otherwise, I don't know what I would have done by now.  I send you tight hugs from across the world. 

 
 
 

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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"thnx.............."
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"You are a good person. I'm sorry you are gong through this."
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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"thnx  i no 1 day thy will get loss we got but i will not treet thm way did me "
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"Thank you. I am sorry people have abandoned you. "
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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"so sorry on yore loss i no u soon lern abot frinds familyy wen it cums to a loss  u soon lern abot real frindss u do evn famllyy 1s it dont trun bac on u wen u need themm "
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New York Times essay I wrote about orphanhood

Hi everyone, I am new to the group, but not to loss. Thanks for adding me.I wanted to share an essay I wrote, "Welcome to the Freak Show: Becoming an Orphan in My 20s", that is in the New York Times today. Even though all of our experiences with grief are unique, I hope it resonates in some way.Best, KelliSee More
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"Everyone sounds a little down today.   And that's OK.   I do the same thing.   I am learning how to move on with life.  I know that there will never be another Joe.  He was my life, my love.  I miss…"
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"Over the last couple of days, I've had some real negative thoughts, scary to say the least.  I know I'll never see her here with me again, which I know but can't accept, but today I questioned is she here with me in spirit? …"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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