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Comment by andrea M on April 14, 2011 at 6:31pm

hi my name is andrea annd i lost my husband nov 22, 2010 to a trailer fire. It has been very hard losing him and i miss him daily. we have a child that is 3 and he misses his daddy too. my son and i left to go to my parents house and we came bac k home and i was told my husband had died. it was the worst feeling ever and felt like i was dying inside. i lost a part of me that day.

Comment by Kathy Saylor on April 12, 2011 at 9:11pm

I lost my unmarried husband of 22 years to a glioblastoma, an agressive brain tumor on March 30, 2011.  It was diagnosed middle of January and we spent the 2 1/2 months in surgery, and trying to recover from pneumonia. It seems sudden and traumatic, He was well and active until the surgery, though his personality was changing.  I have ricocheting between numbness, emotional pain and anger that this has happened.  I miss him terribly.

Comment by marlene lovell on April 12, 2011 at 8:47pm

Melissa, I too have smelled the unique scent that was my husband and this has made me believe that he is still present and I find that very comforting.

Comment by Karen R. on April 12, 2011 at 8:42pm

Greetings Linda, sorry you feel that way, the members are very supportive on this site. Sorry for any pain that you may be feeling.

Comment by marlene lovell on April 12, 2011 at 7:01pm

I would like to know if there are any amongst us that are believers in the afterlife and that your loved one is still present in your life even after death?

Comment by Linda Gabrial on April 12, 2011 at 4:59am

hi  any one out there i am new in here. but noboby want to talk to me

Comment by anne on April 11, 2011 at 10:05pm

Dear Shelia, I am so sorry for your loss. I have found that time and writing has been a great help to me. My youngest son was killed in a car accident. I was told that the boys were goofing around in the car when they hit a semi. My oldest son was driving. It's much to difficult to try to understand why. Now they are both gone due to car accidents. I feel your pain. I wish there were answers to it all for all of us. Take care.

Comment by Kandi Broussard on April 11, 2011 at 9:06am

Dear Kelly,  I am so sorry to hear this.  I lost a friend to suicide many years ago and it was tough but I was young and able to move on pretty quickly.  I do not know what it is like to go through what you are going through but knowing my own situation, be aware that you will not just "get over it", as some people might say.  It takes a LONG time just to learn to cope with death not to mention the trauma which just makes it harder.  You just have to get through it somehow.  I am a believer in Jesus Christ and I must tell you that I do not think that I would have made it through the past 8 months if I was not.  Cry whenever you need to and talk about whatever you are feeling with anybody willing to listen.  If you come across someone who can identify with your situation, I bet that would be helpful.  One of the hardest things is feeling like nobody really gets it or understands.  Your son is graduating!  That's a great achievement!  Focus on that.  You want to make sure that he knows that even though, you are hurting horribly, you are still his #1 fan band will be there for him no matter what.  Sending prayers, Kandi

Comment by Kelly on April 11, 2011 at 6:49am

I lost my husband two months ago to suicide. I found him hanging in our shed. I am traumatized. I feel like I have no future and don't want to get out of bed in the mornings. I have a son who graduates next month; he is my only child. I hate being this way because my son has already suffered so much. How long will I feel like this?

 

 

Comment by tammi sue maczorowski on April 10, 2011 at 10:48am

today would of been our twelth wedding anniversary. it is hard knowing we will have no more anniversarys. i don't take anything for granted. i love all those around me. i try to never stay angry at anyone. i miss jeremy very much he was my sole mate. he was very proud we made it into double digits into our marriage. i feel for anyone who is going through grief. it is one of the hardest or is the hardest thing we face on this earth. i couldnt do it without god in my life.

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