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Loss of spouse… 2 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Susan B May 30.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 5 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Wendy Apr 7, 2020.

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Comment by Susan B on May 29, 2022 at 10:49am
My dog (tiny Pom) has been a tremendous help…
Comment by bluebird on January 4, 2021 at 3:35pm
I know what you mean. I hope fostering helps you; I'm sure it will help the dogs.
I did receive the e-mail about Zoom, but I am not interested in participating. If you are, I hope you find it to be good/helpful.
Comment by Linda Engberg on January 3, 2021 at 6:58am

Hi Bluebird, 

Losing Babie J broke the other half of my heart. I know I can never replace her just like Julian but in her honor I will be a foster mom. BTW, did you get an email from Diana at this site with an invitation to join their Zoom meetings?. It should be interesting.

Linda 

Comment by bluebird on January 2, 2021 at 9:31am
I want to be clear, I am not suggesting another dog as a replacement, just saying that maybe having another furry little one to love might help. Entirely up to you, and there's no right or wrong choice, just the choice that's best for you.
Comment by bluebird on January 2, 2021 at 9:28am
Linda,
I'm sorry about Babie J. Our cat Benny died a few years ago, and it was bad both because I love him and because he was a link to my husband. So I do understand how hard that is. As for me, I'm the same as always. Sad, angry, wishing I had died with my husband. This will never change, for me. I hope you are able to get back to some peace, though. Have you thought about adopting another dog? For some people that helps, for others it's too painful.
Comment by Linda Engberg on January 2, 2021 at 9:23am

Hello Joe & Bluebird,

Happy New Year.  I haven't been on the site since September. My Sweet Babie J was declining with dementia and she needed all my attention. She passed away 5/20/20. After 8 years since Julian died, this past year got a little easier, Losing My Sweet Babie J was a big blow. She saved me after he died and now I have lost her. I know I am not alone in thanks to The Rainbow Bridge website. It is a place I can go to for support because my family & friends just a Dog to them. She was my heart dog and no other will ever replaced her. How have you two being doing??

Comment by Joe Kelly on January 1, 2021 at 9:09am
I'm still here Linda. Have trouble with some sites but it's in the settings on my end. I had to turn off a privacy setting to get here which I never had to do before. A wee or two ago, I posted on losing someone to cancer with no problem. Now I have to fiddle with settings just to get to this site, and fiddle more to sign in. Has to do with HTTP vs. HTTPS. In the past it just gave a warning but now won't even connect to the site unless I allow tracking.

Nothings changed with me except worse. Joe
Comment by bluebird on January 1, 2021 at 8:28am
Well, I'm still here.
Comment by Linda Engberg on January 1, 2021 at 5:59am

Hello,

Is there anyone around from our old group, Morgan, Joe, Trinia and others. 

Comment by Jan Leslie Abrohms on August 25, 2020 at 5:01am

Oh Joseph, I am so sorry!  It’s been less than three months for me, and I still find it hard to accept. Be good to yourself!

 

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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"You're welcome, too.  As for me -- same as it has been since my husband died. I don't expect it will ever change. I know what you mean about being over the shock, and I suppose it's usually/mostly that way for me as well, but…"
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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"You're welcome, Bluebird.  Thanks for asking.  Just dealing with this awful reality 6 years later.  I'm over the shock and and am just dealing with the way it is.  How are you, otherwise?"
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"Thanks, Jeff. How are you doing?"
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"The 4th of July is my husband's favorite holiday -- mostly because of all the cookouts/barbecues/food, but also because of the fireworks. So, as with so many other things since he died, I find that I can't celebrate it. There's simply…"
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