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I'm sorry to see more members. I lost my mom 5 months ago today. I wonder if my siblings count each month as I do. I am not sure where to go visit my mom, part of her is with my dad, and the other part of her was disbursed over a mountain someone in my hometown. It makes it harder for me to recognize the reality of her passing. I know she is gone from this earth because I saw her but my siblings had their idea of what she happened after she passed. I didn't ever think this pain could lead me to a site to divulge my biggest heartache. This pain is huge, most of the time I can't breathe or hear. Tidals waves over and over again. I pray for us all, they say if you want someone to listen to you, to pray.
I lost mine on October 8, 2015. I agree, Victor, it is really hard to continue living without mom. I miss her every single day of my life. I feel empty. Manisha, my mom also cooked my favorite dishes when I visited her. She enjoyed cooking them for me. I miss her so much. I talk to her every day. I wish she were here right now. Love you mom.
I lost my mum on the 9th November 2015, almost 6 months ago, and I think of her every day of my life, I have flash backs of conversations, being together, her making my favourite dishes.
The hardest part is realising now and not understanding when she needed me most.
I wish I could turn back time.
lost my mum on the third of january earlier this year after a long battle with stroke, its my final year at varsity and everything that i did i just wanted to make her proud being her last born we shared a very special bond and i keep on remembering how she cried in pain and prayed i prayed too everyday beside her but it wasnt enough to save her i wish she could come back .....never felt so much pain so lost and hopeless mama was my everything and i miss her so much just her presence its hard to cope with school work and life .....so sad
Helen, your story touches me. I was married once to an addict and I learned a lot about the disease of addiction by going to a self help group called Al-anon. I went for 7 years and I found so much peace, hope and answers there. Al-anon is a group of people who live with or love an addict and learn how to not blame ourselves for the addicts actions but still love the addict. Al-anon is nationwide. Google it and go to a meeting. They are anonymous and this group truly kept me from losing my mind. Having that last little bit of time before your Mom passed, is such a blessing. My mom was on a vent for five days and never woke up. I wanted so badly for her to open her eyes and have the ability to communicate with us but it didn't happen. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you are able to find peace with your siblings somehow through this process because family is the most important thing especially when we lose one. May God Bless You and all of us who are suffering this incredible pain of grief.
I am sorry everyone.
I don't know if this happens to anyone else, but sometimes I feel like this is surreal.
I watched my dad suffer 16 years ago from asbestos cancer and take his last breath calling my moms name, reaching out for her and now my mom goes in cardiac arrest from a simple visit to the hospital, she was taken suddenly and unexpectedly, I go over and over that day in my head.
I try to remember all the days she said to me you know we all belong to God. I know in my heart she is happy and at peace, but I used to say to her, but mom those who passed are at peace the ones they left are now suffering. She would say you have to live your life, I lived mine....Its hard, I cry a lot.
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