Theresa
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  • Media, PA
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Lesley Woolfstein left a comment for Theresa
"Hello Theresa its Lesley here my mum as brought me up all of my life I I didn't have a dad he left my mum to bring me up its so heart breaking for me my mum as always told me I have to live my life now thats what im trying to do I know it will…"
Sunday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"No you do not need a push, in time you will carry on. Life will go on and you will adjust to the new one, but at your own pace. I think about my mom every single day and night and its been 1 1/2 yrs., she was my everything and I miss her every…"
Sunday
Theresa commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"It just gets "softer" he will always be in your heart. I think about my mom every single day and its been 1 1/2 yrs I call it my new life"
Sunday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, how are you?"
Saturday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell I guess I'm doing the best I can I'm trying to not make every moment one that I think about what should've been what I could've done I'm just trying to go forward I guess when I start to get really upset I say this…"
Jun 14
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell how are you doing I know tomorrow the 14th will be four months. my thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow :)"
Jun 13
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell I feel the same way my dad had cancer from asbestos, they told us he would only live for 6-12 months after his diagnosis, I did not want him to suffer.  He passed on December 14, 17 years ago. I accepted it because I knew he was…"
Jun 7
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"the 29th. it is my second because my mom passed away December 2015 so last January was my first year for everything and the whole year was nothing but a blur"
Jun 7
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, my moms birthday is also coming up it will be the second one without her, last year when the day came I just kept busy, went to the cemmetary and before I knew it the day passed. Everynight I wake up in the middle of the night and she is…"
Jun 7
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell thank you so much for caring I have been working a lot we are very short staffed so it's been taking up a lot of my time and when I get home at night I'm so tired I don't even check my emails how are you making out"
Jun 5
Lesley Woolfstein left a comment for Theresa
" I cant stop crying ive Been to the doctors to see if he can help me with this grieving process he says he cant atthe moment I just want to stop crying will this get any better "
Jun 4
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Lesley, I am sorry for your loss. I lost my mom December 19, 2015 and it seems like yesterday  "
May 29
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes thats right do the best you can."
May 25
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell do you know how many times in a day I say mom I wish you were here I need you or say mom do believe that if something happened it's hard very hard I also try to distract myself with work when I'm there and busy I'm OK when I…"
May 24
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, how long is it now? Take your time, I went in my garage last night and looked over in a box that i have some of my moms stuff and there was her cooking pot that she used to use to make us stew on Sundays, I broke down in tears horribly. I…"
May 24
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, next month will be 1 1/2 years...saying years seems not right. Can I tell you that I believe she is seeing more beautiful things now than she ever did... I guess my life is now different and will be until it is my time to leave the earth,…"
May 23

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About my Loss:
Very sudden, Thursday mom said she felt constipated, Friday same to the dr, xray no obstruction, Saturday called dr he told her go to hospital, she called me I told her I would meet her there this was at 8:45am, as I was pulling in the hospital parking lot I got a call from them stating "your mother is in FULL CARDIAC ARREST" do you want us to do CPR.......that was it, I did not get there to say goodbye, I love you, nothing. We were very close I went there every Sunday, we talked at least ten times a day and every night before bed. There are no words to describe how I feel.....
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At 6:36am on June 18, 2017, Lesley Woolfstein said…

Hello Theresa its Lesley here my mum as brought me up all of my life I I didn't have a dad he left my mum to bring me up its so heart breaking for me my mum as always told me I have to live my life now thats what im trying to do I know it will get easier for me in time my mum was my rock always there for me thanks for your message 

At 3:19pm on June 4, 2017, Lesley Woolfstein said…

 I cant stop crying ive Been to the doctors to see if he can help me with this grieving process he says he cant atthe moment I just want to stop crying will this get any better 

At 6:41am on November 16, 2016, Ann said…
I'm so sorry.
At 11:28am on March 26, 2016, Danny said…

theresa i had a sudden loss as well and it still hurts like hell care to chat ?

 
 
 

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