Theresa
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  • Broomall, PA
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal and thinking of why did he not send her to the hospital when he saw her in the office on Friday, I guess she had us all fooled. My mom can come off as "I'm fine" and go about her business He should have sent her right to the…"
Oct 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal, please, my mom didn't feel well for two days prior to going in cardiac arrest, I was at work, did I go up to see her NO, her doctor, told her to go home and take a laxative, really?  I thought nothing of what was occurring,…"
Oct 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Luisa, the first year after my mom died I walked around in a haze a fog, it was awful I used to practice yoga five days a week and I recently just quit after ten years, I just have no interest I am not nice I tell people like it is even if it is not…"
Oct 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, I am so sorry, I know how horrible losing a pet can be, especially one as special as yours was to you. You and I both know your mom was right there waiting for her, calling her name. She is at peace, but I know it hurts. I am very sorry for…"
Oct 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi everyone, Bluebell I am glad that it is getting easier to get through the day, but you are right we will never truly move on. For some reason today was a bad one for me, my mom was on my mind alot.  I guess because I used to go there every…"
Oct 8
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Joy I miss my mom everyday morning and night I feel like a part of me has gone with her. She was my everything"
Oct 6
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I know the coffee cup sounds odd, but the girl that owns the small diner told me my mom would only drink out of the same ceramic cup and sit in the same seat everyday, who know what she was thinking!"
Oct 2
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I purchased a material box with a zipper and in it I put, moms handbag with everything in it just the was it was, the clothes and shoes she wore to the hospital the day she died, her coffee cup from the diner her and her friends used to meet at…"
Oct 2
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, thats right they live for the moment.  I wish we could do that, my dog gives me joy, he is such a good boy, he is ten :( I hope you are doing well, one day at a time,right."
Sep 30
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Well said Brett Thank you"
Sep 30
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I have been working so much that I am exhausted at night so I go right to sleep, I work as a buyer for an upscale jewelry store, and it gets super busy there.  It does occupy my mind for most of the day, I might feel anxious with my mind racing…"
Sep 30
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you are right I tried to wean off too early, the anxiety is back. Ugh I also have wonderful memories, some of going shopping some of going to the shore every year when I was a child, many more. I wonder how long it will take to find happiness…"
Sep 30
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you are so fortunate to have made your mom proud until the end. You should have not regrets, our moms still are the key to our happiness, they made us who we are, we are a part of them always. Each night I ask the same question, mom I know it…"
Sep 29
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, you are right."
Sep 28
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I don't know why but today I am anxious and sad, maybe its the change of seasons, making me think about my mom more. I guess this is how it will be for me."
Sep 28
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett I think they will always be a part of us."
Sep 24

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About my Loss:
Very sudden, Thursday mom said she felt constipated, Friday same to the dr, xray no obstruction, Saturday called dr he told her go to hospital, she called me I told her I would meet her there this was at 8:45am, as I was pulling in the hospital parking lot I got a call from them stating "your mother is in FULL CARDIAC ARREST" do you want us to do CPR.......that was it, I did not get there to say goodbye, I love you, nothing. We were very close I went there every Sunday, we talked at least ten times a day and every night before bed. There are no words to describe how I feel.....
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At 8:15pm on July 31, 2017, Joy said…

Theresa, I hope things get better for you. Don't blame yourself for not seeing that something was wrong. I'm sure you would've done everything in your power to help your mom had you known. The love between you and your mom will last forever and that love will carry you through. I cry everyday too. I hate the anxiety and the loneliness and that my life has been turned upside down but I have to get through it somehow. 

At 6:41am on November 16, 2016, Ann said…
I'm so sorry.
At 11:28am on March 26, 2016, Danny said…

theresa i had a sudden loss as well and it still hurts like hell care to chat ?

 
 
 

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