"Hello Melissa, I'm so sorry for your loss. My son took his own life on August 25th. He was 20 yers old and the pain is almost unbearable. He was a wonderful human being and I miss him every day."
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Lost my Mom
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I am new here. I lost my Mom on Valentines Day. There is a void in my life that I need to figure out how to fill. I have been her caregiver for the past 3 years and she has been the center point of…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Jennifer Mar 12, 2017.
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Maria replied to Melissa's discussion I am new here and hoping that I can talk to someone who lost a child to suicideEileen replied to Melissa's discussion I am new here and hoping that I can talk to someone who lost a child to suicide"Thank you !! Feels good knowing I have someone I can chat with and understands. Have a peaceful night."
Melissa replied to Melissa's discussion I am new here and hoping that I can talk to someone who lost a child to suicide"I’m sorry for your pain also!! I’m always here if you ever need to talk!! Your friend melissa"
Eileen replied to Melissa's discussion I am new here and hoping that I can talk to someone who lost a child to suicide"Hello Melissa, never lost a child to suicide. However lost my mother, father and husband. So my heart goes out to you. Stay strong because it's not easy. Your friend Eileen."
Eileen posted a status"Thanks for accepting me into the group. I am finding it very difficult to move forward so I decided to reach out for online support."
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi to everyone,
I am sort of a broken record when it comes to how I have managed to cope with my husbands death. I can honestly say that for the first four years looking back I was pretty much in a stupor. The shock after sharing…"
"Hi Fran,
So sorry for your loss. It's been 7 years since I lost my Beloved Husband.
I have and never will be the person I was. I have accepted that and just go through the motions. There are no good days for me.
Since the day he died, I died…"
Fran commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."5 years ago tonite I lost my Love. Since then I check in here periodically to see how others deal with the passage of time. Apparently, pretty similarly. We do what we must. We have "good" days and worse days. Our memories blindside us yet…"
"Jonathan,
So sorry for the loss of your Wife.
All the friends on this forum are just waiting to join their spouse again.
It's all we can do. "
Jonathan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."It has been about 16 months since I lost my beloved wife. Still as painful as though she just "sleep in Christ" on 10th July 2018...
Life has been aimless and without any objective since then. Everyday has been slow but to me, everyday…"
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Linda, I've been thinking about you wondering how Babie J is? I just started feeding a feral cat here where I live on the woods and though I refuse to get too attached these little critters also get a piece of our heart. I…"
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Bluebell, your post is identical to my feelings and I'm sure others. I try to stay extra busy, distracted so I don't think about my loss. But as you say, grief always catches up. It caught up with me at 2am this morning and I couldn't go back to sleep right away. It caught up with me again while I was sitting in my office at work, it caught up with me again while I'm in my car driving home. My heart is broken too and I don't think anything can fix that.
I hope you find the purpose you are seeking. I haven't found it yet.
Heather