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Bluebell"
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Lost my Mom
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I am new here. I lost my Mom on Valentines Day. There is a void in my life that I need to figure out how to fill. I have been her caregiver for the past 3 years and she has been the center point of…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Jennifer Mar 12, 2017.
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BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I understand how you feel Virginia when you say nothing makes sense anymore. It is like a puzzle that once fit together. But now pieces are either missing or have changed shape.
Bluebell"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I just want to check in and let you all know I am slowly recovering from the bleed in my brain. Today is the first time I have had the desire and courage to go through my e mails since the beginning of July. I consider this as a sign that there is…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. It is very scary. What I do not like the most is the lack of motivation and being so easily fatigued. I am also frustrated with the lack of support from the Doctors. I keep asking it it would be dangerous to increase a certain…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I am asking for your prayers please. I am very afraid of having another bleed in my brain. I am so depressed and so very easily irritated, that it is hard to live with myself. I am not feeling positive about my future. I know this is not related to…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The ICU doctor has no right to speak with your therapist unless you give permission. Personally, I do not know why he would want to do that. How would it help you?
I wish I could say or do something that would click with you Virginia that would…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTBTBj8NEcw
Above is the song " In the Arms of an Angel."
Bluebell"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I do not think my parents would be very proud of me. I worry too much and I do not have faith and the child like belief that everything will be alright. I wish I had them of my parents back both back. My Mom would have been 100 yrs old in June and…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The hanging hummingbirds were one of my Mom's favorites. She loved cats, birds and butterflies.
We will get through this Theresa. If nothing else, I think it will eventually teach us to have more patience with those who are unhappy or grumpy.…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I was happy and laughing in this picture. I want that person back.
Bluebell"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I am so weary of not feeling well and laying around like a slug on the couch most of the day. If this was the way my Mom felt before she passed away, I am glad she is now free of her physical body.I pray she is happy where she is and has no worries…"
BLUEBELL replied to Jarvis's discussion Would you like to own this site?"I am also temporarily disabled with a brain bleed. I am sorry for your troubles and hope you do have a quality of life that is acceptable to you.
Bluebell"
BLUEBELL replied to Jarvis's discussion Would you like to own this site?"This is a sad thing to learn about. Unfortunetly, I am not in a financial position to take it on or any additional responsibilities
Bluebell"
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- Loss of mother as an adult
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- At 12:54pm on August 25, 2017, Brett Bowman gave BLUEBELL a gift…
You may be on the other side of the country but I know that a prayer can reach that far. God Bless you.
- At 4:46pm on August 15, 2017, Joy said…
Bluebell, your post is identical to my feelings and I'm sure others. I try to stay extra busy, distracted so I don't think about my loss. But as you say, grief always catches up. It caught up with me at 2am this morning and I couldn't go back to sleep right away. It caught up with me again while I was sitting in my office at work, it caught up with me again while I'm in my car driving home. My heart is broken too and I don't think anything can fix that.
I hope you find the purpose you are seeking. I haven't found it yet.
- At 5:32pm on July 25, 2017,
Panda said… - Hi bluebell I'm so sorry about what happened. This will be the first Christmas without my mom too but you can get through this. I know it's hard but I know you can get through it. Stay strong. She's watching over you and she's in a better place now out of pain. Hugs <3
- At 7:06pm on July 24, 2017, Heather said…
- Bluebell could you check my comment wall? The young girl that posted today, panda sounds really distraught and am concerned about her. She commented that she didn't want to be here anymore and said that no one wants her. Not sure what to do since she lives somewhere in Cranston, USA and I live in Canada. Can I contact the administrator of this site? Can't get her words out of my head and am worried about her:(. If you have time can you let me know your thoughts? Thank you
Heather
- At 10:10am on May 2, 2017, Tasha said…
- Thank you for such kind words. God bless
- At 6:12pm on February 28, 2017, Heather said…
- So sorry for your loss of your Mom...please know that you are wished much strength always. Take good care of yourself...
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Avi, I am so happy for you. And you are obviously doing better with women than I am..."
Chanel commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"I'm sorry to hear that you're still going through a tough time, Rain. I feel like some days I'm okay and others I'm struggling. I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to."
Susan Dee Leatham posted a blog postWhile I was sleeping
It has been 4 years since my mom died. I still think about it every day, and can't seem to look past it. I know I need to go grocery shopping. I know I need to entertain my 4 year old but before I do anything today I want to share what has helped me tremendously in making my mom's death easier to live with.The first thing that helps is remembering her and being stubborn about NOT letting her go. I don't have to let my mom go. She already went. The thing I do have to do is admit how I feel…See More
Susan Dee Leatham posted a status"It has been 4 years since I lost my mom. I never got "over" it. It has remained the most traumatic terrible thing that has ever happened."
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thanks a lot Theressa.
For 4 days it was a roller coaster ride as we were in hospital but now as I am at my home I again get sad feeling my mother's absence. My wife and daughter is at my wife's place as there is no lady at my place…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Congratulations Avi!!!!! You have many happy years ahead of you!!!"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi All Guys
I was away for few days as I am blessed with a baby girl on 10 Aug 18. Both mother and baby doing fine.
I planned my baby only as my mother wanted to see her grand child but destiny had other plans. But I hope she has still blessed…"
Rain commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"It's been almost two years for me. It doesn't hurt any less. Some days I push it away but then all of a sudden every bit of it hits like a ton of bricks. I did tell a few of my best friends and I mostly regret it. Now I feel it's just…"
Frances Koonce replied to dream moon JO B's discussion mad at god"Awww- I’m sorry about that! It must make you feel really terrible that you can’t just take her home.
The same thing happened with my mom after her heart attack. She couldn’t just live by herself anymore. We had to empty her…"
Losing a spouse and dating again
I lost my spouse 16 months ago. Have gotten into a new relationship but he lets me grieve openly. I have a2 year old daughter. Also I am 26See More
dream moon JO B replied to dream moon JO B's discussion mad at god"iv bean to day to sea her iv hadto liee to her wish i feal bad
wen can i go homee wen drs says so
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why am hear coz dr says so i anserd it for abot 40 mins i did
evry tim i leabee i feal dranedd i do
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Jeff Tice commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Thank you bluebird. My kids have been a huge comfort for me. Making me laugh even when I don't want to and giving me someone to occupy my time and energy with. I am working my way through this slowly and they help…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Jeff,
So sorry for your loss."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Anxiety/panic is awful, I had it so bad after my mom passed I was walking with my legs shaking, it was awful I though I this how I have to live the rest of my life in a state anxiety/panic?
Just awful I understand what you are going through."
Crystal K commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The indifference is hard. I hate it when people ask me how Zim doing or how lifw is... I just want to scream at them “how do you think it is!” My boss constantly asks me and everytime I just respond with a “fine” or…"
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