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Hi Carrie, I lost my mom a few weeks ago to Pancreatic Cancer. I miss her terribly and the pain is so bad. I am sorry for your loss also. I wanted to join your discussion group. I like this online…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jayne Sep 5, 2012.

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Jayne commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I miss my beautiful mom every day. I cannot take when people say to move on. it is so hard."
Jul 9, 2015
Jayne commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"my mom had Pancreatic Cancer. The pain of seeing her suffer was horrific. My mom was and will always be my bff. I wish someone could relate to how a moms passing affects day to day life. The pain I feel is incredible. Keeping busy is a quick fix to…"
Jul 9, 2015
Jayne commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Lost Without My Mom
"everyday without my mom not physically here is heartbreaking. I try to enjoy everyday , it it so hard. keeping busy helps for a temporary fix so I try and keep as busy as I can."
Jul 9, 2015
Jayne left a comment for Debbie
"Hi Debbie, I just saw that you had responded to my post. I too lost my beautiful mom to cancer. My mom had Pancreatic Cancer. If you would like we could email one another. I too am a mom I have 4 children. My email is jaynelr2002@yahoo.com. I would…"
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Jayne commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I cannot believe my beautiful mom passed away 2 yrs. ago from Pancreatic Cancer. It has been a devastating time. The pain never goes away. I love her still the same as always."
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Jayne commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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"Hello. Im hoping this group will help me! I just lost my mom to lung cancer on 3/28 - she was only diagnosed 6 months ago! My mom was my everything - We talked everyday at 8:30am, when I needed advice, call mom....when i wanted to brag about my…"
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daughters who have lost moms. I lost my mom a few weeks ago to Pancreatic Cancer. I would like to talk and also support others.See More
Apr 9, 2015
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"sad about my mom"
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Jayne commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"my ,mom, passed away 8 months she suffered from pancreatic cancer I am devastated. she was and will always be my bff."
Oct 18, 2014
Jayne commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"i would love to talk to others who have gone through the passing of their mom. I am  so sick. I lost my bff."
Oct 17, 2014
Jayne commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"any cancer stinks"
Oct 17, 2014
Jayne commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"cancer is the worst my mom had pancreatic cancer,  jayne"
Oct 17, 2014
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Susan V replied to Jayne's discussion support in the group Helping Others through Grief Recovery
"When my mother died, I felt I had lost the anchor that had helped me through the storms of my life. It has been hard to realize I am now the oldest in my family and no longer have her here. I do believe she is with me in spirit though, and that…"
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Compounded grief with existing anxiety and depression.

During the tragic loss of a loved one or having gone through several tragedies , be it death of a loved one, divorce , personal health issues, or getting older , ect. Sometimes the stress and depression compounded by grief can be debilitating and it may have us feel as if we are mourning our own deaths while we are grieving the loss of our loved ones , We feel as if our own lives are over , Being in this mode can make recovery a longer more confusing process for some. It can be uncomfortable to…See More
Dec 12, 2013

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I just lost my mom, my best friend to Pancreatic Cancer. I am devastated and so sad. I would like to have and offer support to others who are going through this too.
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missing my mom

It is so hard day to day . I think about my beautiful mom and wonder why did this even happen to her. we should not question things like this but sometimes that is all we have. I miss her terribly and can't stand the fact that I can no longer speak to her or see her. I feel bad for everyone experiencing a loss. It is so hard to just go on and try to function. My mom and I were the best of friends. no one will ever come close to her and her understanding. I feel so empty and lonely even…

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Posted on September 21, 2012 at 10:07pm — 1 Comment

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At 8:22am on June 21, 2013, Cynthia Gee said…

I'm sorry for having to bail last night.  I enjoyed talking to you- maybe we'll find we're in the chatroom together again sometime.  Hope you have a good day today.

At 7:21am on May 27, 2013, Cynthia Gee said…

Thank you so much for your kind words and offer for support.  I am so sorry about your mom and sad you are.  If I can be a support to you as well, that would mean a lot to me.  

At 10:34pm on January 15, 2013, Emily said…

Hi! I also lost my mom who was my best friend on Dec 27, 2012. Reading your comments reminds me that I felt like my mom was the only person in the world who truly understood me. Cancer is such an awful disease, I hope someday there is a cure for all forms of cancer. I've been told by a childhood friend who lost her mom, that time does heal, but that doesn't mean you don't miss her, because my friend misses her mom as do I.

At 8:08pm on January 1, 2013, Eliza said…
Thanks, Jayne, for your comment. I think I'm still in shock over my mom; I was looking at photos from two Christmases ago, and she looked so happy and healthy, and now she's gone, and that is hard to believe. This is such an awful, awful cancer. I hate it so much.
At 7:27am on December 23, 2012, Anne said…

Drop me a line and let me know what time you are going to be on.....

At 9:29am on October 13, 2012, jennifer wickham said…

havent been on here for a few days, how are you?

At 10:29am on September 25, 2012, joni miller said…

jayne

I lost my mom to  acute pancreatitis which  necrotized.  it came out of nowhere and she went into the hospital on July 24 and was in the hospital until she died of septic shock w multiple organ failure.   I am not only grief stricken but am confused as to what happend and how.   is is in the ten percent of cases which are deemed unknown cause.   she was taking blood pressure medicine which has been linked to acute pancreatitis but impossible to prove.  I just dont get why it necrotized in her case.    I saw that you  lost your mom to pancreatic cancer.  I am so sorry for your loss.     

At 1:35pm on September 23, 2012, sharon said…

I  am  sorry  4 your loss,  it  will get easier  one foot in frount of the other little steps   there is family  and freinnds who care about  you.  its  been 3 years   for  me  and  i am  still struggling with the death  of my mom  everyday.  and the most of  things  are  going  to  be  the hadest  is christmas.  thank you for accpeting  me  as  your freind on here , prayering for you.. sharon

At 11:04am on September 2, 2012, Jennifer Blackwood said…

Hey Jayne, Yesterday was the beginning of football season, and that was considered one of the first 'holidays' that I must go through. Mom loved Alabama football so much, she was the biggest fan I've ever met. She started counting down for the next season, as soon as the last game was over with. So I stayed by myself at my house and didn't watch the game..it was just too hard for me! I wish things would get a little easier but it doesn't seem to!:/

At 10:25am on September 2, 2012, Mark said…

Hi Jayne.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I know this loss and wish no one had to carry it.   It's unbearable.  I'm shocked at how many are dying of pancreatic cancer these days.  It's a cruel disease that can take down the most vibrant fighting spirit.  If it helps any I'll ask my mom to introduce herself to Jayne's mom.  ;)  She's a pretty cool lady.  They can take turns looking out for you and me down here.  If you ever need someone to vent or talk to who understands please feel free to contact me.  I won't lie my emotions are all over the place and I tend to keep most of them bottled up inside because as you already know those around you want to quickly go back to "normal life"  while we are sitting here stunned asking.. just what is normal now?  Please take and write any time you'd like.  -  Mark

 
 
 

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