mercy
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  • Antioch, TN
  • United States
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mercy left a comment for Jayne
"I’m sorry that its taken so long for me to respond. I’ve had a bout of depression for month so things slip out of my mind easily. I will be praying for you. I’ve lost 3 brothers myself and I know the pain you are going through. Its…"
Apr 8

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About Me:
Mid thirties, engaged mother of one.
About my Loss:
Lost my brother in JUNE OF LAST YEAR TRAGICALLY, JUST LOST My mom on May 28. I'm totally devastated. Living is torture right now.

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At 9:47pm on March 4, 2015, Rachel Lynn Schuler said…

mercy how the heck are you, we havent talked in a long time....send me a message hun, i miss you....im on facebook too....look me up....maybe we can play some games or something... my mom's birthday is coming up, a hard day for me....I MISS YOU!

At 3:49pm on November 19, 2012, Rachel Lynn Schuler said…

i miss you girl, and the anniversary of my  mom's death is coming....hard times....but im trying to move through it....i love you and when my phone works up and running i will talk to you on the phone if you want....my email is RCHSCHL6@AOL.COM....I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!

At 10:03am on March 27, 2012, Sue Waxman said…

Dear Sweet Mercy,

When I read this I thought of you. You have been suffering for so long. I am so sad about your brother. Remember to have faith in your God! Sometimes it is all we have. You are a wonderful, loving woman. You have been such a wonderful compassionate friend to so many of us here. I am sending you my energy and my love to carry you through one second at a time. Love Sue

We learn so much about ourselves on the road to recovery after loss.  Not all of it is good, but all of it is important.  I don't think there is a more important lesson that the souls can teach us, than to learn how to forgive ourselves for whatever we have done to ourselves and those around us because we are in pain.  We can't hope to move on to a perfect world if can't see the importance of setting ourselves free from guilt, from anger and from pain.  To forgive ourselves is to fix the soul, and lighten the load here just enough to be able to continue our journey of hope. – George Anderson

At 8:30am on March 14, 2012, Rachel Lynn Schuler gave mercy a gift
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love you girl, here is a small gift so you know how much, i dont know what the gift means but i didnt have the credits lol...talk to you real soon
At 8:27am on March 14, 2012, Rachel Lynn Schuler said…

mercy honey you dont have to thank me, we have gone through similar stuff and you are a very very sweet and good person and im sorry you've been sick.....you dont have to send a gift....i think the wedding is going to be in June....but my address is 256 third street, 2nd floor, hanover, pa 17331....rachel schuler....my phone is 717-634-2050 so you have it when things get bad, thanks for thinking im such a great person so are you and we can support each other and be the best of friends....love you girl....write me

At 9:29pm on March 13, 2012, Tammy B. said…

Hi Mercy, thank-you for your kind comment.  I'm so sorry that you lost both your mom and your brother.  That's a double whammy, but it sounds like you're making great strides with getting through it.  I'm so happy to hear you have a daughter.  I have a feeling the two of you will be best of friends and she'll be the source of so many wonderful days ahead.  She's definitely one great big reason to be alive and well.  I also live in the Nashville area and I was seeing a grief counselor for awhile and she's the one who told me about the Alive Hospice, so I hope you'll try it.    Anyway, I hope you're having a good day and hang in there!  You've got so much going for you already and I feel a lot of positive things are coming your way!

 

At 7:40pm on December 27, 2011, Cynthia Horacek said…

Thank you, Mercy for your kind words, in the midst of your own suffering.  I'm so sorry you are so alone in your grief and that your husband is no help!  Maybe you can find a support group, or some people who at least have been there and can understand.  My issues aren't with my parents, but as I told you, my sister in law and brother, but I know this too, shall pass.  

Life goes on.  My grandmother always said things have a way of working out in the end.  So be it.  
Take good care of yourself; you are loved and needed.
Cynthia
At 7:31pm on November 20, 2011, Kirstine Rushing said…

Hi, I saw your comment about Thanksgiving and can totally relate.I lost my mom to cancer almost 2 years ago and that whole spiel people say about time healing is BS. As long as I am living, I will miss my mom who was my best friend. You have a lot of connections that are the same as me. I lived in Antioch as a little kid and my sister's birthday is May 28. The positive thing I focus on is my children, but even that makes me sad b/c I think of all what my mom is missing  out on!

At 9:01pm on October 17, 2011, Rachel Lynn Schuler said…

hey baby, its been awhile, i have not been up to being on the computer or doing much of everything, but i think i told you that i found a guy, and he is great, but we have yet to meet in person....i hope all goes well, it could be "it"....im excited....wish me luck...i think of mom, but she would be happy for me....have had alot of hard times recently, and wished she was here, but she is, in spirit....i carry her with me always....hope you are good, let me know how you are, you can email, even yahoo me baby, anytime you want, im on there alot too....would love to talk one on one sometime....love, rachel

 

At 6:58pm on August 26, 2011, Rachel Lynn Schuler said…
hang in there
 
 
 

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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you friends for sharing your thoughts. I don't know what I do, if I didn't have this place to come to. We are all suffering and the real world just doesn't understand what we are going through. I miss the tender touch of my…"
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I have nothing that I want to or have to, to keep me busy except doing what I'm doing which has to have something to do with Her.  Like yesterday, I found a small  3/4 X 2 1/2 inch bottle with a cork when I went to the dollar store…"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Trina, Check your inbox for a message from me. Joe,  So true.  That's exactly why I post here too.  I keep thinking if I get it off my chest and out into cyberspace at least I know I wont be suffering alone.  That consoles…"
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Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello All, I am sorry that I have not posted here for a while now to show my support for you. On August 4th it was the fifth anniversary of Joseph's passing. I just don't have the strength or energy anymore to keep pushing to survive each…"
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm in the 19th month and don't know what to say, except that the only time I'm not living this horrible nightmare is when I sleep and don't dream at all.  Even when I post in a way to try to console anyone here, in a way,…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, Once again I want to Thank You for sharing you thoughts with us. You put into words the things I don't know how to express."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I don't mean to be a downer, but I am not sure there is an end to our grief. I know mine is still going strong. I wish the good things in my life were as consistent as this is. We have to keep moving though. Keep taking baby steps. Assay…"
Sep 8
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"John T,   I saw your post late late last night.  I see you are still doing your best to cope. I remember a time that I wasn't even coping. I was barely standing.  After six years seven months I have become anesthetized.…"
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi All, Today I suddenly had grief all over the day. I miss my mother a lot and it seems that there is no end to this grief. Hope I meet her someday when I leave this world.  Just wanted to share my feelings here because people around me…"
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