"You had half your soul ripped out... basically. Of course you're going to struggle.
Most folks just don't get that because they are still fine. They have not been so deeply wounded and have nothing to compare your struggle to.
When I…"
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- About Me:
- I live by myself now. I lived with my mother for 9 years before she died. I have two cats who belonged to my mom. My two cats died. One died two weeks after my mom died. I have good friends and family who are very supportive. I work full-time, mostly at home.
- About my Loss:
- I lost my mother in June and am having a very difficult time. I am in therapy, but still feel I need people to talk to about this. My family and friends are great support, but they don't understand how difficult this is, and why after eight months, her death affects everything I do everyday.
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Christopher replied to Betsy's discussion I am looking for people who have been widowed over two years to talk to"I have a rollercoaster. Some days I am fine alone, others I simply need a wife to love on and make stuff for and ask her opinion. That's just how it is. I don't get a choice and folks who constantly tell me "get over it, it's…"
Christopher replied to Betsy's discussion I am looking for people who have been widowed over two years to talk to"I have the same experience and have talked to others who experience likewise, so it's a general fact regardless of age or gender. That's just how it goes.
We'll be here, off and on. Hopefully."
Christopher replied to Betsy's discussion I am looking for people who have been widowed over two years to talk to"I have to look forward or I just want to lay down and die. My son needs a dad. He needs a mom too but I can't find a woman who will step up and do that for him.
She died when he was 5 so he didn't know her well. He has not had a mom since…"
Christopher replied to Betsy's discussion I am looking for people who have been widowed over two years to talk to"Make something new. Marvel at it.Do it again.
Repeat as necessary.
It helps."
Christopher replied to Betsy's discussion I am looking for people who have been widowed over two years to talk to"Just got here. Widowed at age 28. It took 18 hours from healthy wife to no more wife. That was nearly 8 years ago. She wanted me to move on and I wanted the same for her if I went first... strange that we had the conversation mere months before her…"
Christopher posted a status"Need a wife, preferably one that has a place and isn't a workaholic.
It's time to start again. No more loneliness."
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The dr from the hospital talked to my therapist. I didn’t get any more answers. I am convinced they gave up on her and since I did nothing, I’ll never know if she could have been helped. I can’t fathom why I acted…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I feel for you Brett if you are fighting all this alone. A big hug from India.
Last few days were really guilt stricken for me as I was at my hometown and all memories of my mother's treatment were refreshed and it really pains.
I…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"It only rains here when I want to go to the pool.
I am worried about Bluebell as well. I think she would have chimed in by now if she was feeling well.
I had a selfish moment today. I actually have a lot of those. I was at the store and I started…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I hope everyone is doing well still have not heard from Bluebell it’s raining here today I hate weekends when it rains very depressing and boring hope to hear from everyone soon"
M Adams left a comment for Shari Darling"Dear Shari,
strange, I had and continue to have similar problems regarding what to say about myself in this context, but somehow I stumbled here after my husband's death and it has been helpful. Just reading of bereaved people's…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Morgan,
As you always do in your posts, you take the words right out of my mouth.
Linda"
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Before this nightmare I myself would never have imagined how debilitating the loss of a spouse is. Tracy B 2014
I thought I would be able to focus on my career to help me heal, but I don't even like going to work any more. At home, I can't…"
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