"I miss my mom still, but its getting easier.....I saw a pic of her last night and it was actually sweet.....she was doing some crafts....I miss you mom...love you, im not wallowing in it"
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Rachel Lynn Schuler
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- Hanover, PA
- United States
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Rachel Lynn Schuler's Groups
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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How To Deal With Loss Ov…
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I love my Dad.
283 members
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When will the ache subsi…
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Losing a Sister
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Rachel Lynn Schuler posted a status"not much going on....just trying to hang in there....health problems"
Rachel Lynn Schuler posted a status"I haven't been feeling well, not a whole lot going on other than that....happy easter to everyone....hi michael"
Rachel Lynn Schuler replied to Billie Steffen's discussion nearing the 2 month mark and the pain gets worse every day in the group I miss my Mom!"im so sorry, imSO sorry....that's so hard....that's right around my birthday....I feel so bad for you hun....this group is great, but don't let it get you depressed....I don't use it much as when I first used it was helpful,…"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"hi everyone....im having a hard time, ive been writing quite a bit lately....I have gone thru some of my mom's stuff today, but actually, it didn't upset me, I think im growing up....its more comforting...I did find a necklace of…"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I love you mom so much....I will never forget you....gosh this is so hard....."
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"hi everyone, today is particularly difficult, well, im having physical pain, but im real upset about my mom....she passed 2 years ago, but it was her birthday recently, and the pain is still fresh....gosh I miss her so bad....its so hard.....but I…"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"hi all, im missing my mom a lot today, im actually wearing one of her sweaters....its ok though....my mom's name was nancy....im thinking of her a lot....its been over 2 years since her passing, seems longer....I love you mom....hi Michael,…"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"mercy if your there, send me a message....I miss you and we haven't talked....rach"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"hello all, well yesterday was a hard day....I listened to my mom's memorial service on a tape, and it hit me hard....ive been missing her a lot, I know I needed to do it to get it out, the grief, but it was so hard to hear....I was on…"
Stacey Harmer joined Rachel Lynn Schuler's group
How To Deal With Loss Over Time
I am having a very hard time accepting the loss of my mother....I want to start this group to discuss how we can best cope with the loss of our loved ones as time goes on....it would be good to get ideas and to talk about
Nancy F. joined Rachel Lynn Schuler's groupHow To Deal With Loss Over Time
I am having a very hard time accepting the loss of my mother....I want to start this group to discuss how we can best cope with the loss of our loved ones as time goes on....it would be good to get ideas and to talk about
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"mercy if your there, i miss you, write when you can....i can email you my phone number and we can talk sometime"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"hello everyone, im having more than a hard time, ive had my share of health problems recently, and it has been scary....its hard to talk about, i just hope i will overcome them all.........i miss talking to you all and hope everyone is well :) …"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"if something were to happen to me tonight, i want to tell you all how great you have been with support over all this time....i hope to be ok....thats all i can hope for"
Rachel Lynn Schuler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"im too young for this, and even though i miss my mom and all that, i want to live my life, a healthy one...."
Profile Information
- About Me:
- I am a 41 year old female....love to watch tv, play games on the computer, sing, just so many different things...I am very kind and outgoing, sweet person
- About my Loss:
- My mother Nancy, god rest her soul, passed on December 8 of 2010 from cancer....I am having a more than difficult time dealing with her death, and its very unreal to me....the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with....I miss her so, my heart is breaking
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my mom
the story of my mom's passing is indeed a sad one....first of all, we were very close, probably closer than two people could be....especially in her last two years....anyways....she was to go in for minor surgery to have her ovaries removed, she had a cyst, and the dr. wanted to remove it because in older people the cysts can turn cancerous....I had talked to her a couple days before the procedure....she was in high spirits because she was looking forward to being out of pain, for the past year… Continue
Posted on February 8, 2011 at 1:00am — 7 Comments
Comment Wall (17 comments)
- At 3:26am on March 23, 2012,
Brenda Ann said… - Rachel,
Please don,t break... There is help and comfort... There are people that care like all of us. The greatest help though is from God. Throw your burden on him, he promises to help. Isaiah 41:10 & 13.
I care too! If you email me at mawmaw1591@gmail.com I will give you my phone number. I will keep you in my prayers.
Brenda
- At 1:19pm on October 24, 2011,
mercy said… - Hey Rachel, I hope things are still working out well for you with the new guy. Life has its own way of going on no matter how hard our situations are. I know you are so happy and that in itself makes me happy and hopeful that one day, I'll be able to smile with abandon and look foward to the little things life has to offer. God Bless.
- At 6:53pm on August 26, 2011, mercy said…
Hi Rachel; these are the times I wish I had your number. Is there any way we can talk? I'm so worried about you. I've had some rough days and been sickly but with my little one, I push myself. I'm now out oftown visiting a friend and trying to take it easy.
Please let me know if we can talk?
- At 1:07pm on August 15, 2011, mercy said…
- Hi Rachel; I'm so glad to see you posting again. I understand how hard it can be at times since I too get depressed reading other peoples experience with grief. I was just very concerned about you cause of your previous hosptilizations. Its good to know that you've been able to visit your moms grave lately. I've not been able to do that. I just want to believe that mom isn't there. So many times I wish she was cremated, its so hard to know her remains are in the ground, it just doesn't feel right. Maybe one day I'll have the courage to visit her grave. My yahoo id is kanyoni16; hopefully we can chat sometime.
- At 5:50pm on August 14, 2011, Susan Miller said…
Thanks for your response Rachel, it was kind of you to take the time to reach out. So nice to hear from someone who understands that one's Mom's clothes aren't "just clothes". When I told my husband that I had given away most of Mom's clothes, he said "oh, that's good." I think he was happy to have one less thing cluttering up the closet!
- At 11:51pm on August 12, 2011, mercy said…
- Rachel; I've not seen you here for a while and I'm starting to worry about you. Please post something so we may know you are ok. I've had a very tough time the last two weeks; my grief is so deep sometimes that I long for death but I know my time is not now and I'll try my best to hold on for now. Please my friend, let me know how you are.
- At 4:42pm on July 3, 2011,
Sue Waxman said… Thank you for embracing me into this community of such loving and caring human beings. I am so greatful to have found this website. That cancer...that damn cancer. I told God the other night that if he needed a soul to take..mine was his. If a mother is sick and her children need her..take me instead. If a father is sick and his children and wife need him..take me. I know this sounds like drama, but I really would give up my life in order to spare someone else of the pain of loss. I have no children and really no close family. I am completely alone. With the exception of my wonderful Golden Retriever Rudy and my 3 kitties Gerda, Will and Petrone. They cover my body at night like a blanket. They feel my pain. Make it through today...she what tomorrow brings.
- At 7:29am on July 3, 2011, Sue Waxman said…
Hi Rachel,
My mothers name was Nancy. Like you and your mom she and i were the best of friends. Shopping buddies, dinners together, movies, hanging out all of the time. My sisters are not talking to me - lots of drama. I feel completely alone. My dad left us when we were kids. Mom raised us alone. I am so glad to find this site. Sue
- At 12:20pm on June 19, 2011, mercy said…
- Hi Rachel. How long since your mom died did you start to feel any sense of well being? I just feel like my heart is in a million little pieces and my life is so empty. Its just an overwhelming feeling of loss and sadness. I don't know when the sun will ever shine in my soul. Its just so hard. Take care
- At 8:37pm on June 18, 2011, mercy said…
- Hi Rachel; thanks for your message. Weekends are a little crazy for me cuz I'm busy running around and not much time on the computer. You can add me to your yahoo messenger; it kanyoni16@yahoo.com. I look foward to chatting with you. You are a great inspiration to me, I feel like I've known you a long time. Be Blessed dear.
Groups
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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I miss my Mom!
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Losing Someone to Cancer
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I love my Dad.
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Missing my Son or Daug…
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Multiple Losses Group
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Lost Without My Mom
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Tattoo Memorial
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mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiE…
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I Miss My Parent(s)
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Latest Activity
Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"All very BEAUTIFUL scriptures.
I do find that the only comfort I get is from Gods word the Bible.
I look forward to this:
Revelation 21:4 — And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning…"
Kimberly Hamilton commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hello All,
I am so sorry for you all. And I know how you feel. I have been going through crisis and I want so bad to talk to Mom and ask her what I should do. I feel so stupid being a 50 yr old woman wanting her Mother. But I know there is nothing I…"
Amanda added a discussion to the group I miss my Mom!
Helping young children remember
My mom died suddenly on April 6, 2013. My 2 1/2 year old son and her simply ADORED each other. He lit up for her differently than he did for anyone else, and vice versa. I cannot adequately describe how much they loved each other, and how much I loved seeing it. My second son, who she will never meet, is due July 1.I am very bitter and sad that my children won't know this amazing woman. I know that because of his young age when she died, my oldest son probably won't remember her or how much…See More
Sofia A. Wellman posted a videoDeath as Life - Documentary Director Speaks on Death
Sofia A. Wellman speaks at her mothers memorial on death. She is the director of the documentary "Death as Life." See the trailer here: http://youtu.be/sk0-g...
Dennis C. replied to Kelli Bevel's discussion How to stop griefing"Kelli
Here is a link that takes you to a brochure entitled
"When Someone You Love Dies"
http://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/1101994007
It's very good information. Hope it helps."
Vasanthi S replied to Neil C's discussion New Member"Neil , I know how you feel. This shouldnt ever happen to anyone, but please take comfort in the fact that you are understood. My prayers and love to you."
Vasanthi S commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Teresa, am praying for all here. I had worked for one year without a stop after I lost Micks... then I found it all too much-- and 'took a break' since Jan 2013.. well now its time for interviews again and I find my self dreading the…"
Teresa Dimitri commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Vansanthi I do the same thing. I look for him even though I know I won't find him. I call his phone even though I know he won't answer. I asked God everyday, "Please just give him back.""
Teresa Dimitri commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Linda, It was your son that kept her protected. Thinking of you and your daughter today."
Vasanthi S commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Milt,I so totally understand what you are saying. My son too used to have a bike and later his car. The bike he loved cos it was there since he was 3 yrs old. Sometimes he would park it down and ask me to keep an eye on it. I would say ,why?'…"
linda hernandez commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter"my birthday was a couple of days ago and it was already tuff without my son.my daughter was on her way to see me and was struck by a car just 5 blocks from my home all i had was flashes of my son laying there dying and ask the lord not another one…"
Brenda Ann left a comment for Katherina Conley"http://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/wp20130201/jehovah-god-of-the-living/
The above is an article that I found encouraging, I hope you enjoy it too. I will keep you in my prayers.
Brenda"
Emily Elizabeth Marcus left a comment for Lisa Croatt"Hi! I'm sorry about the loss of your closest friend. I lost my mom on Dec 27,2012, today is one of the "bad" days, I'm crying at the moment. I also have a BA in Psychology. I would love to chat with you sometime.…"
Lisa Croatt joined Laura Rozier's groupLosing Someone to Drug Overdose
If you've lost someone you loved due to them overdosing on drugs, let's talk about it here.See More
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