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"Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne"
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About my Loss:
I lost my mom March 21, 2012. She died just 21 days after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. She was my best friend and losing her has been devastating.

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At 8:01pm on August 11, 2018, Jayne said…
Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne
At 5:42pm on March 26, 2014, dream moon JO B said…

so sorry 2 hear abot yore sister 2nd anversy still dont feal real thy dont so soorry abot yore sister

( a big hug fmr me)

At 1:32am on March 26, 2014, Danny said…

It's real tough Mary, just hang in there.

At 7:46pm on May 29, 2013, Elissa said…
Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her lungs and they found small lesions in her brain. This all happened in a three week period. She was fine one day and then died three weeks later. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. I feel as if this is a terrible dream that I will hopefully wake up from. Thanks again for your post!
At 8:04pm on January 1, 2013, Eliza said…
Thanks, Mary. Christmas was so hard. Today was hard, too. I miss her so much. Does this ever get easier?
At 2:40am on November 3, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

squeaky wheel ?? haha whats that about ?

At 3:12am on November 2, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

thank you for taking some time to write me to you im am truely sorry for the loss of your mom  i just hate that in order to get  some attention round here you half to rant /rave/  in genaral being a bigg pain in the butt  i'll remember about the time zones thank you joe

At 5:31pm on October 30, 2012, dream moon JO B said…

i no how u feal abot bdays my dads bday is boxing day we all used to go out for his bday som times for a meal 1 or 2 days later but we allways made a nite of it and hang overs the nxt day 

At 5:26pm on October 22, 2012, RUTH said…

Hi Mary aka Momma Bear...hope you doing ok and hope to catch up with you soon!

At 6:59pm on October 20, 2012, joni miller said…

Im sorry Mary :(  I know how you feel,   it just washed over you  sometimes,  and you are right you cant  control it,  all you can do when it happens is  put a positive thought in there  ,  and  let it pass,   it really hasnt been  that long for us,   and  I just think  its going to take a lifetime,  and  it will just get easier in time to bear it.  I wont use the word "get over"  or anything like that, because we have all  heard those things.   I  am  walking around the house  crying  and then  i am ok for an hour and then cry in the car,  etc.   I dont have the words other than to say,  I know how you are feeling.    There was  a sign posted in grief class that goes something like this :  The degree of grief you feel  when someone passes is directly proportional to the level of love you felt for them,  so in other words,  when  i knew my relationship with my mom  was so, close , on some level I always knew one day I would have my "enormous" loss,  and I do.   I think you feel the same.      Sent me a note and let me know how you are doing when you get a chance.   Ruth is out of town but will be back on Sunday. 

 
 
 

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