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Jayne left a comment for Mary
"Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne"
Aug 11, 2018
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been 2 years since I lost my mom and I sure hope the rut I am in is not my "new normal!"  I'm not anything like my old self.  I kind of miss that old me  but don't know how to get her back or if it is even…"
Mar 31, 2014
dream moon JO B left a comment for Mary
"so sorry 2 hear abot yore sister 2nd anversy still dont feal real thy dont so soorry abot yore sister ( a big hug fmr me)"
Mar 26, 2014
Danny left a comment for Mary
"It's real tough Mary, just hang in there."
Mar 26, 2014
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been so very long since I have been on here.  My mom passed away in March of 2012.  I just got through the second year anniversary but this year I had to get through it alone because I lost my only sister this past December and her…"
Mar 25, 2014
Mary joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
Mar 25, 2014
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am so sorry to hear of you loss Kristin.  Please don't blame yourself, as I know that no mom would want their child to feel they held any blame in their passing.  There are always going to be those "woulda, coulda,…"
May 30, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Cynthia, I truly believe our moms can hear us and talk to us.  My mom and I had agreed on a sign long before she passed away, after another near death experience she went through and I received the sign the day after she passed away.  I…"
May 29, 2013
Elissa left a comment for Mary
"Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her…"
May 29, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Elissa, I am so sorry for your loss.  Mine was similar.  My mom passed away March 2012.  I was having lunch with her and my sister on Monday and on Thursday she was diagnosed with brain cancer and did not know our names and was…"
May 28, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Maybe it is just the day..I've not really broken down and cried for a while now, but I did today.  I have my moms laptop and had to do an update and found a picture of her and I just broke down crying.  It's been about 14 months…"
May 15, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Maddy, I can't speak for you, but I don't think there would be anything wrong or that you would be selfish if you just had a quiet day with your husband on Mothers Day and I really don't think anyone else would be upset if you did not…"
May 10, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"A friend of a friend wrote this to her about grief she was going through and everyone kept acting like she should be "over" her grieving and I really liked it and decided to share here. "There is no prescribed time to grieve, only…"
May 10, 2013
Mary replied to Maddy's discussion Not sure how much more I can take.... in the group I miss my Mom!
"Oh never fear you did not make your husband sound horrible :) Anger is normal.  I personally took my anger out on God.  I felt guilty being angry with God but everyone reassured me it was normal and ok and that he understood. I used to…"
May 5, 2013
Mary replied to Marie N's discussion Feeling so sad in the group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Marie, my condolences to you.  I lost my mom a little over a year ago-March 22,2012. It is totally normal to feel extreme sadness. I did fall into a depressed state and it affected my health and my psychological well being-I became…"
May 5, 2013
Mary replied to Maddy's discussion Not sure how much more I can take.... in the group I miss my Mom!
"Maddy, I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my mom a little over a year ago.  Although I was not pregnant, she was everything to me and the grief I experienced unbearable at times.  It has only been 2 months and I honestly believe you…"
May 5, 2013

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About my Loss:
I lost my mom March 21, 2012. She died just 21 days after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. She was my best friend and losing her has been devastating.

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At 8:01pm on August 11, 2018, Jayne said…
Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne
At 5:42pm on March 26, 2014, dream moon JO B said…

so sorry 2 hear abot yore sister 2nd anversy still dont feal real thy dont so soorry abot yore sister

( a big hug fmr me)

At 1:32am on March 26, 2014, Danny said…

It's real tough Mary, just hang in there.

At 7:46pm on May 29, 2013, Elissa said…
Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her lungs and they found small lesions in her brain. This all happened in a three week period. She was fine one day and then died three weeks later. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. I feel as if this is a terrible dream that I will hopefully wake up from. Thanks again for your post!
At 8:04pm on January 1, 2013, Eliza said…
Thanks, Mary. Christmas was so hard. Today was hard, too. I miss her so much. Does this ever get easier?
At 2:40am on November 3, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

squeaky wheel ?? haha whats that about ?

At 3:12am on November 2, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

thank you for taking some time to write me to you im am truely sorry for the loss of your mom  i just hate that in order to get  some attention round here you half to rant /rave/  in genaral being a bigg pain in the butt  i'll remember about the time zones thank you joe

At 5:31pm on October 30, 2012, dream moon JO B said…

i no how u feal abot bdays my dads bday is boxing day we all used to go out for his bday som times for a meal 1 or 2 days later but we allways made a nite of it and hang overs the nxt day 

At 5:26pm on October 22, 2012, RUTH said…

Hi Mary aka Momma Bear...hope you doing ok and hope to catch up with you soon!

At 6:59pm on October 20, 2012, joni miller said…

Im sorry Mary :(  I know how you feel,   it just washed over you  sometimes,  and you are right you cant  control it,  all you can do when it happens is  put a positive thought in there  ,  and  let it pass,   it really hasnt been  that long for us,   and  I just think  its going to take a lifetime,  and  it will just get easier in time to bear it.  I wont use the word "get over"  or anything like that, because we have all  heard those things.   I  am  walking around the house  crying  and then  i am ok for an hour and then cry in the car,  etc.   I dont have the words other than to say,  I know how you are feeling.    There was  a sign posted in grief class that goes something like this :  The degree of grief you feel  when someone passes is directly proportional to the level of love you felt for them,  so in other words,  when  i knew my relationship with my mom  was so, close , on some level I always knew one day I would have my "enormous" loss,  and I do.   I think you feel the same.      Sent me a note and let me know how you are doing when you get a chance.   Ruth is out of town but will be back on Sunday. 

 
 
 

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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"You are a good person. I'm sorry you are gong through this."
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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"thnx  i no 1 day thy will get loss we got but i will not treet thm way did me "
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
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dream moon JO B replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"so sorry on yore loss i no u soon lern abot frinds familyy wen it cums to a loss  u soon lern abot real frindss u do evn famllyy 1s it dont trun bac on u wen u need themm "
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"You said everything I am feeling right now. I am doing and thinking the same. I know it doesn't help but I am so sorry. "
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Jazi replied to Elynn m's discussion Lonely
"I am new  here and don't really know how to navigate so forgive if I make a mistake. I am drowning in pain and have been ignored by friends. I have only two left and both have many things of their own. I sit at night and hurt until the…"
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Billy Jo Colt commented on Kelli Auerbach's blog post New York Times essay I wrote about orphanhood
"Thank you Kelly for a genuine and bright yet deep insight into how berievement has affected you. Children are resourcefull and it isn't till in later life that the death of a loved one creates a new reality. I've written a song about the…"
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New York Times essay I wrote about orphanhood

Hi everyone, I am new to the group, but not to loss. Thanks for adding me.I wanted to share an essay I wrote, "Welcome to the Freak Show: Becoming an Orphan in My 20s", that is in the New York Times today. Even though all of our experiences with grief are unique, I hope it resonates in some way.Best, KelliSee More
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Elynn m commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Everyone sounds a little down today.   And that's OK.   I do the same thing.   I am learning how to move on with life.  I know that there will never be another Joe.  He was my life, my love.  I miss…"
May 15
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Over the last couple of days, I've had some real negative thoughts, scary to say the least.  I know I'll never see her here with me again, which I know but can't accept, but today I questioned is she here with me in spirit? …"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Marita, not that I am glad to  hear you suffer from anxiety and fear but thank you for at least sharing that you too are overwhelmed with living.  At times I want to scream that the way I feel is not some cry for sympathy but more I am…"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, You were the original poster who made it real for me that telling the truth about our pain was ok.  That it was how this grief was going to be no mater how I might be told otherwise.  And to know that your truth is that pretty…"
May 15
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, yes, I too have the recurring thoughts my brain sends me that my husband is dead.  It's not possible for me to accept it either.  I know it as fact just as I know the sun shines, but when it appears in my brain I simply cannot…"
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"As much as we all suffer, some may have an additional burden of having to go out into the real world and deal with people in business to survive.  The impact of that makes it all that much more unbearable.  While I'm not in that…"
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