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Danny is right. Now that my mom is gone(5 weeks ago yesterday).
I realize that the person that loved me unconditionally is gone.
I have had trouble working and sleeping, because my "best friend"
is no longer here! I was a mess on my b-day, because it was just 2 weeks after mom's death. I don't want to even think about the up and coming holiday season.
Indeed, when the man I dated for years (we were still "friends") told me to get rid of all of my mother's things, but a photograph. Instead of doing that, I got rid of him.
It is indeed amazing to see how the spouses are just waiting so that the grieving person can become a bit 'better'. To be honest it is just ridiculous when I read this and is further proof of the fact that unconditional love is very hard to get even from the partner. It is not real security.
Great post by Martha. I love the statement 'watching over us' it makes me feel less vulnerable. So there is a gap yes and yet, it is being watched over.
Dear friends:
I feel blessed to have found this site. It took me a lot longer than all of you to have the strength to even look for it at a friend's suggestion. That speaks volumes as to how together you all are in spite of it all. The first few month I was in a daze, in shock. Questioning every decision that was made regarding my mother. How I could have saved her. It is all here said by you, and it helps to know our feelings, our pain is absolutely normal. My mother was my life. My life revolved around her. She was my very best friend, an example of everything good. I wish I could tell you that life gets better after a year has passed, it becomes bearable. But, part of the great suffering is turning into a state of gratitude for I know that most people never had the wonderful experience of having someone that remarkable in their lives. And, I can now say that I love my mother today even more, if that is possible. And, with complete certainty I tell you all that you will be reunited when our day comes in our REAL HOME which is the spiritual realm. Meantime, our Moms are watching over us, and wanting us to to the best we can in their honor.
If I can help anyone, please do not hesitate to email me, or meet me on chat. We are family here.
Peace.
I get these feelings on and off like Dia, the whole package of disbelief etc. I feel really vulnerable at times and wonder if love can be found unconditionally. It is the new normal. It is like if I am in hospital no one cares really. I am questioning the meaning and purpose of life too Dia. Going about my routine though as best as I can. Let's see. Take it easy Dia.
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