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happy mothers day Mom. and god bless all of us and our mothers memomdad.jpg
I miss my mom so much. She's been gone year and half. i lived here taking care of her and her taking care of me for 28 years. I can not get past this or i should say i can't forgive myself for not doing a better job of taking care of her. i promised i wouldn't put her in nursing home and the last 3 months she was in nursing home. I was scared she was going to hurt herself i had no choice. But my heart is breaking that i broke a promise to my mom. On her good days i would say "Mom do you forgive me for bring you here" she would say yes if you forgive me. I would tell her she has nothing to be forgiven for. we were like 2 peas in a pod. She was my shadow. i love and miss her so much.
well mothers day is coming up....its going to be hard....makes me think of my mom, but she is in my heart, i plan to have a nice day that day, and get on here to talk if i need to, hope you all are doing ok
Great poem Casey! I have to say it's a tough month. My mom's birthday is this Saturday, May 10th and Mother's Day is on May 11th. She died late last summer and I miss her beyond words every day!!!!
great poem. so true.
Indeed a tough May for many but I got lucky on this one. Parents got married in May so its when two great folks got together.
I revised a relevant poem that speaks to me.
Please don’t tell me you know how I feel,
Unless you experienced the exact same relationship my mom and I shared
Please don’t tell me my broken heart will heal, Because that is just not true,
Please don’t tell me my mom is in a better place, Though it is true, I want her here with me,
Don’t tell me someday I’ll hear her voice, see her face, Beyond today I cannot see,
Don’t tell me it is time to move on, Because I cannot, Don’t tell me to face the fact she is gone, Because denial is something I can’t stop,
Don’t tell me to be thankful for the time I had, Because I wanted more,
Don’t tell me when I am my old self you will be glad, I’ll never be as I was before,
What you can tell me is you will be here for me, That you will listen when I talk of my mom You can share with me my precious memories,
You can even cry with me for a while, And please don’t hesitate to say her name Because it is something I long to hear everyday,
Friend please realize that I can never be the same, but if you stand beside me, you may like the new person i become
I am with you guys. This will be the first year without my Mom. Mother's Day has always been about her, not about me. I almost told everyone we were not getting together, but then I realized I can still allow my grand children and children to be with me, while making it different. This year I have told everyone that we will have a picnic and plant a small flower garden in my Mom's honor and a small veggie garden for my dad.
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