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Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Danny , I remember you. i think our mothers passed away around the same time. It will be three years on February 18 for me. It is very difficult for me as well. Its just horrible. I never stopped missing mom even though I post less here. It becomes…"
Feb 15
Casey replied to Paul Hurley's discussion My mother died while in bed at home, and I was in a different room.. in the group I miss my Mom!
"i am so sorry, i cant imagine,  my mother passed away at the age of 56. Its so hard but you are so brave for writing this down. "
Feb 9, 2016
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hugs Valerie cox. I am sure your mother knew you did all you could. I am so sorry."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What a nightmare experience it must be. I hate how these pain medication just totally wrecked a person. There are so many questions."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What an insensitive thing to say. They have no clue we want to be with mom as much as possible. I was with mom the whole time until the end."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"valerie cox: reading your post made me angry.  I can relate , its very frustrating to me that the hospice cant do anything but to give morphine. My mother didnt have the strength to cough up something and during her last day or two, she wasnt…"
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Garett, i totally understand. My mother passed away at 56 and i was 30, no husband or kids. I never thought in my wildest dream i will never see my mother again in this life. Time will never be abe to lessen that pain and missing."
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am not really concerned about my  health. Death seems like a relief , if its quick and relatievely painless one. Grief is like a bottomless hole that can never be filled. Its difficult to walk with a hole in one's heart."
Nov 20, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Definitely Danny . If I had children , I can live for them and maybe I will see my mother in them . I am living for my mom because that's what she would want and I have to honor her wish for me to live happily. I am not happy and I am fighting…"
Oct 26, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ft1rYcht0c      I 've been listening to this video alot, from Eckhart tolle. Beautiful and sad."
Mar 22, 2015
pushpa left a comment for Casey
"So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care."
Mar 4, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Melisa C and Danny, yes how weird and disorienting it is that we cant ever see our mother again at least in this lifetime. I think we can't truly grasp the enormity of that loss but we are experiencing the loss everyday, till when? I believe, i…"
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I feel for you all, its been one year for me. I miss my mother even more. No kids or husband either. She was only 56. I am so tired of life but i keep breathing."
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am very sorry for your loss Maddie. Its been one year since my mother passed and I am still completely broken. I miss her only even more."
Feb 16, 2015
Casey posted a status
"in a world so full & busy the loss of one creature makes a void so wide & deep that nothing but the width & depth of eternity can fill it up"
Jan 13, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"my mom was 56 when she passed away, I miss her so much."
Jan 13, 2015

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About Me:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.
About my Loss:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.

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I am just grateful I am my mother's daughter

A note fell out onto the carpet today, and it was left behind by my mother, it reads, “when we focus all our time on grief, we lost out on our present and our future; instead of dwelling on what we are losing, focus on what we still have” I felt like I was receiving a sign from my mother that I should not dwell in my grief at all times. It makes sense my mother wrote it, because she lived her life fully till the end.

Being diagnosed with stage four cancer did not subvert my…

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Posted on May 14, 2014 at 9:30pm — 2 Comments

My mother's day gift to mom

I cannot forget how my mother died and I don't know if she is just dead or in a better place

 

My mom rarely complained even though she was diagnosed with stage four…

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Posted on May 9, 2014 at 9:30pm

I have nothing left to live for or do I?

My identity is intertwined with being a good daughter to my mother because she sacrificed  everything to me  and her selflessness  is what motivated to go  on living. My mother was an immigrant  who left her family and her  role as a housewife  to come to Canada and provide a better future for her children. After the divorce, she worked harder than anyone else I know in order  to provide a life for myself and my brother.  She had  no choice but to be strong and determined  without a husband…

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Posted on May 8, 2014 at 6:00pm

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At 1:36pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care.

At 2:05am on November 8, 2014, Danny said…

In fact I read your entire post today what you wrote in May.  It makes me realize that while a sudden event is traumatic for the survivors, a battle like your Mom had can be as tough as you wrote.

 
 
 

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Olive commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi all, I posted awhile back.  I lost my dear mom on December 23 and the pain I feel is sometimes excruciating.  She was my best friend and a beautiful, generous, thoughtful mom.  I miss her so very much.  Does this ever get…"
3 hours ago
Raina2012 replied to Raina2012's discussion Losing my mom at my age
"Everyone tells me to be strong and stay positive and keep moving forward in life. And it makes me mad. Why does everyone act like its no big deal!? They act if its wrong for me to be sad or hurting. They think i can wake up and just be happy just…"
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annjulie replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I often wonder if there is an afterlife. I'm hoping there is so I can see my mom and boyfriend again. For their lives to end so tragically, 5 days apart from each other, it atleast makes me believe that there is a bigger picture. It terrifies…"
23 hours ago
Elynn m replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Richard. Yes, I can offer my opinion.    there is definately something beyond this life.   We are only here for a short time.  As I get older I see why God says in his word (the bible) that "..life is like a vapor",…"
23 hours ago
annjulie commented on Niecy's group Compounded grief with existing anxiety and depression.
"April 2016 I lost someone very dear to me. My first love as a teenager who lived down the street from me. He passed away from a drug overdose. I thought his funeral was the worst day of my life. Wrong. 7 months later I got the news that my Mom has…"
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Richard Rivera replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird Do you believe in an afterlife regardless? it doesn't have to be God. It could just be an afterlife. I still believe in an afterlife even if there wasn't a God. There's more evidence than ever that supports the existence of…"
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Compounded grief with existing anxiety and depression.

During the tragic loss of a loved one or having gone through several tragedies , be it death of a loved one, divorce , personal health issues, or getting older , ect. Sometimes the stress and depression compounded by grief can be debilitating and it may have us feel as if we are mourning our own deaths while we are grieving the loss of our loved ones , We feel as if our own lives are over , Being in this mode can make recovery a longer more confusing process for some. It can be uncomfortable to…See More
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bluebird replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Richard, I think that is up to each person to decide for her/himself. For me -- I do not believe there is a god, but I could be wrong, and if I am he could be a bastard (if he exists and let my husband died, then he is) who might try to keep me from…"
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Stacey White commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thanks for the comments.  It is comforting that others understand what we are going through.  Our birthdays are so close, now I am trying to gather the strength for his first birthday no longer on this earth - March 5th.   Trying to…"
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Richard Rivera replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I was reading about a widower in Wales who 2 hrs after his wife's death from cancer took his own life. They were a young couple in their 30s, no kids. However the in laws on both sides were saddened but not surprised as the coup had a…"
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Jill E commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Thank you all for sharing. It helps me so much that I am not alone. That there others that understand me when I don't understand myself. WYWH My Joshie"
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Patty commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Thank you for sharing that, Teresa.  "
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Mary left a comment for MARY A BLANDFORD
"Sending you hugs and praying for comfort. I know how you feel and it is a difficult road. I too lost my high school sweetheart 9 months ago. He was 52. What you have described is also how I feel. The only reason I am still here is for my kids. But I…"
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Raina2012 posted a discussion

Losing my mom at my age

I lost my mom January 18th 2017. She was only 46 years old. She was sick all last year. She has been hospitalized multiple times. She was on home oxygen all the time. I seen all her pain and hurt. She woke up and couldn't breath. So i would have to call the paramedics for her. I did everything with and for her. I am only 24 years old and she was helping me raise my daughter since i found out i was pregnant. My daughter is now five years old. My mom and daughter were best friends. They were so…See More
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Teresa D. commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Patty your not doing anything wrong. We always think others are doing better than ourselves, but NO! We all just have to find our own way.  I agree with Ammy I never want all of it to go away.  If I have to feel my Michael through my…"
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Teresa D. commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Patty your not doing anything wrong. We always think others are doing better than ourselves, but NO! We all just have to find our own way.  I agree with Ammy I never want all of it to go away.  If I have to feel my Michael through my…"
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Richard Rivera replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Something I also realized on this beautiful day. The loneliness is literally killing me. I don't mean figuratively. I really mean it. My body is just about collapsing. My insides are hurting like hell. I. Can't handle the suffering of…"
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