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My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.
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My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.

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I am just grateful I am my mother's daughter

A note fell out onto the carpet today, and it was left behind by my mother, it reads, “when we focus all our time on grief, we lost out on our present and our future; instead of dwelling on what we are losing, focus on what we still have” I felt like I was receiving a sign from my mother that I should not dwell in my grief at all times. It makes sense my mother wrote it, because she lived her life fully till the end.

Being diagnosed with stage four cancer did not subvert my…

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Posted on May 14, 2014 at 9:30pm — 2 Comments

My mother's day gift to mom

I cannot forget how my mother died and I don't know if she is just dead or in a better place

 

My mom rarely complained even though she was diagnosed with stage four…

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Posted on May 9, 2014 at 9:30pm

I have nothing left to live for or do I?

My identity is intertwined with being a good daughter to my mother because she sacrificed  everything to me  and her selflessness  is what motivated to go  on living. My mother was an immigrant  who left her family and her  role as a housewife  to come to Canada and provide a better future for her children. After the divorce, she worked harder than anyone else I know in order  to provide a life for myself and my brother.  She had  no choice but to be strong and determined  without a husband…

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Posted on May 8, 2014 at 6:00pm

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At 1:36pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care.

At 2:05am on November 8, 2014, Danny said…

In fact I read your entire post today what you wrote in May.  It makes me realize that while a sudden event is traumatic for the survivors, a battle like your Mom had can be as tough as you wrote.

 
 
 

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