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Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Danny , I remember you. i think our mothers passed away around the same time. It will be three years on February 18 for me. It is very difficult for me as well. Its just horrible. I never stopped missing mom even though I post less here. It becomes…"
Feb 15
Casey replied to Paul Hurley's discussion My mother died while in bed at home, and I was in a different room.. in the group I miss my Mom!
"i am so sorry, i cant imagine,  my mother passed away at the age of 56. Its so hard but you are so brave for writing this down. "
Feb 9, 2016
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hugs Valerie cox. I am sure your mother knew you did all you could. I am so sorry."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What a nightmare experience it must be. I hate how these pain medication just totally wrecked a person. There are so many questions."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What an insensitive thing to say. They have no clue we want to be with mom as much as possible. I was with mom the whole time until the end."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"valerie cox: reading your post made me angry.  I can relate , its very frustrating to me that the hospice cant do anything but to give morphine. My mother didnt have the strength to cough up something and during her last day or two, she wasnt…"
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Garett, i totally understand. My mother passed away at 56 and i was 30, no husband or kids. I never thought in my wildest dream i will never see my mother again in this life. Time will never be abe to lessen that pain and missing."
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am not really concerned about my  health. Death seems like a relief , if its quick and relatievely painless one. Grief is like a bottomless hole that can never be filled. Its difficult to walk with a hole in one's heart."
Nov 20, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Definitely Danny . If I had children , I can live for them and maybe I will see my mother in them . I am living for my mom because that's what she would want and I have to honor her wish for me to live happily. I am not happy and I am fighting…"
Oct 26, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ft1rYcht0c      I 've been listening to this video alot, from Eckhart tolle. Beautiful and sad."
Mar 22, 2015
pushpa left a comment for Casey
"So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care."
Mar 4, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Melisa C and Danny, yes how weird and disorienting it is that we cant ever see our mother again at least in this lifetime. I think we can't truly grasp the enormity of that loss but we are experiencing the loss everyday, till when? I believe, i…"
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I feel for you all, its been one year for me. I miss my mother even more. No kids or husband either. She was only 56. I am so tired of life but i keep breathing."
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am very sorry for your loss Maddie. Its been one year since my mother passed and I am still completely broken. I miss her only even more."
Feb 16, 2015
Casey posted a status
"in a world so full & busy the loss of one creature makes a void so wide & deep that nothing but the width & depth of eternity can fill it up"
Jan 13, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"my mom was 56 when she passed away, I miss her so much."
Jan 13, 2015

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About Me:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.
About my Loss:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.

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I am just grateful I am my mother's daughter

A note fell out onto the carpet today, and it was left behind by my mother, it reads, “when we focus all our time on grief, we lost out on our present and our future; instead of dwelling on what we are losing, focus on what we still have” I felt like I was receiving a sign from my mother that I should not dwell in my grief at all times. It makes sense my mother wrote it, because she lived her life fully till the end.

Being diagnosed with stage four cancer did not subvert my…

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Posted on May 14, 2014 at 9:30pm — 2 Comments

My mother's day gift to mom

I cannot forget how my mother died and I don't know if she is just dead or in a better place

 

My mom rarely complained even though she was diagnosed with stage four…

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Posted on May 9, 2014 at 9:30pm

I have nothing left to live for or do I?

My identity is intertwined with being a good daughter to my mother because she sacrificed  everything to me  and her selflessness  is what motivated to go  on living. My mother was an immigrant  who left her family and her  role as a housewife  to come to Canada and provide a better future for her children. After the divorce, she worked harder than anyone else I know in order  to provide a life for myself and my brother.  She had  no choice but to be strong and determined  without a husband…

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Posted on May 8, 2014 at 6:00pm

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At 1:36pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care.

At 2:05am on November 8, 2014, Danny said…

In fact I read your entire post today what you wrote in May.  It makes me realize that while a sudden event is traumatic for the survivors, a battle like your Mom had can be as tough as you wrote.

 
 
 

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Paula Marie commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It will soon be four years since I lost my mom and today the grief is worse than ever ... I wonder will it ever go away ... and do I even want it to go? I don't mind the constant sadness, but it often becomes so overwhelming in it's…"
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Richard Rivera replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MY BELOVED WIFE DIED DECEMBER 2ND in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I got back from the hospital. I checked in and I was there for several hours. the results came back and the doctor told me that chest x-ray came clean and that my bloodwork is normal. Also my EKG also showed no abnormalities. in short, I am a…"
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Tanya commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Nancy, grieving is hard work because at some point you have to pick yourself up.  So your emotions go up and down.  Thankfully between my daughter and work, I'm busy.  That helps otherwise I would be a mess.  The finality of…"
20 hours ago
Nancy Dynes commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, YES!! I almost forgot about this but I used to do the same thing. We would be out for dinner and I'd see a daughter with her elderly mother, and I just kept looking at them thinking how lucky she was to still have her mom. Looking…"
23 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thank you Nancy yes I wished that we lived closer also it would be great to talk with you Bluebell, it took me sometime to go shopping, mostly because of panic and anxiety attacks that take over, but I did and still do the same thing I would look at…"
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Nancy Dynes commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Tanya, I just read your post from yesterday. You are SO right!! I have some clothing of my mom's tucked away that I am keeping. One piece is a shirt she used to wear in the 60's that I remember so clearly from when I was a little girl. I…"
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Nancy Dynes commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm so sorry, Theresa. It's too bad the lot of us don't live nearer together so we could meet and support one another. One thing I've learned through this is that there are people in our lives who can be thoughtless and…"
yesterday
Nancy Dynes commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, I can relate so well to this. I can't tell you how many times I have said and felt these exact same things. I'd see a recipe that looked good and start to call my mom to tell her about it, I'd create a piece of art but she…"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I went out shopping with a friend today. When I saw a pretty wind chime, I found myself thinking "Mom would like that". But there is no more Mom to get presents for. I miss her. I want her back. I wish this was all a very long, horrible…"
yesterday
catherine bailey commented on Jodi Denton's group Traumatic loss of an only child
"It really helps to communicate with others who have experienced the same loss, so thanks to all who answered my post.  Lenny, Connie and Kim - we all understand each other.  Today was a better day for me - some days are like that.…"
yesterday
Lenny commented on Jodi Denton's group Traumatic loss of an only child
"Dear Connie, Katherine and Kim I fully understand the bereft feelings and I also have been anxious about precious moments of our daughters and where they will end up when we pass. The pain of losing our only child never ends , even when we appear to…"
yesterday
Connie K commented on Jodi Denton's group Traumatic loss of an only child
"Dear Catherine I feel the very same way. I have everything form my son's baby things, through elementary and high school. He died at age 17 and never got to even graduate, drive a car by himself, well you know....I have things of mine I wanted…"
yesterday
cin po commented on Valentina Jolley's blog post Letter to you; my other half in heaven
"I too have regrets and your post deeply resonated with me. I wish I spent more time with him. I wished I laughed more with him. I wish I talked to him more. It's too late now.  I will never be the same. I am trying to help myself in little…"
yesterday
cin po left a comment for Fran
"Hi Fran, I am forced to do all of these things as quick as I can because I have to go back to work soon. I am trying to finish all of the paperwork. I was forced to do things quickly even though I am so emotionally distraught. My world stopped when…"
yesterday
cin po commented on cin po's blog post Talking to people about my loss & grief helps me
"Hi Jewels, I am so sad that your husband died a sudden death. My partner and I had a conversation about what's the worst thing that could happen to him. We talked about it for hours and we cried a lot that night. In a way we were saying…"
yesterday
kim commented on Jodi Denton's group Traumatic loss of an only child
"Catherine, I to lost my only child my son in 2014. im not doing good, I pray to die everyday. theres no life with out my son for me.  shawn is the love of my life.  my depression is getting worse, my loneliness emptiness.  im so very…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Heather, yes I do, I have no one, my husband doesn't even want to hear me talk about it, he ignores me when I do I have not had a dream about her yet To me it seems like everyone thinks I should just move on, but I'm not ready, I have…"
Thursday
Heather commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I do the same thing, at least several times a day. My Mom was a diabetic so I had to take the used testing strips back to the pharmacy the other day. I actually sat In the car hugging it, something of hers that I have to let go of and it made me so…"
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