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Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Danny , I remember you. i think our mothers passed away around the same time. It will be three years on February 18 for me. It is very difficult for me as well. Its just horrible. I never stopped missing mom even though I post less here. It becomes…"
Feb 15
Casey replied to Paul Hurley's discussion My mother died while in bed at home, and I was in a different room.. in the group I miss my Mom!
"i am so sorry, i cant imagine,  my mother passed away at the age of 56. Its so hard but you are so brave for writing this down. "
Feb 9, 2016
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hugs Valerie cox. I am sure your mother knew you did all you could. I am so sorry."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What a nightmare experience it must be. I hate how these pain medication just totally wrecked a person. There are so many questions."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What an insensitive thing to say. They have no clue we want to be with mom as much as possible. I was with mom the whole time until the end."
Dec 17, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"valerie cox: reading your post made me angry.  I can relate , its very frustrating to me that the hospice cant do anything but to give morphine. My mother didnt have the strength to cough up something and during her last day or two, she wasnt…"
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Garett, i totally understand. My mother passed away at 56 and i was 30, no husband or kids. I never thought in my wildest dream i will never see my mother again in this life. Time will never be abe to lessen that pain and missing."
Dec 16, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am not really concerned about my  health. Death seems like a relief , if its quick and relatievely painless one. Grief is like a bottomless hole that can never be filled. Its difficult to walk with a hole in one's heart."
Nov 20, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Definitely Danny . If I had children , I can live for them and maybe I will see my mother in them . I am living for my mom because that's what she would want and I have to honor her wish for me to live happily. I am not happy and I am fighting…"
Oct 26, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ft1rYcht0c      I 've been listening to this video alot, from Eckhart tolle. Beautiful and sad."
Mar 22, 2015
pushpa left a comment for Casey
"So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care."
Mar 4, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Melisa C and Danny, yes how weird and disorienting it is that we cant ever see our mother again at least in this lifetime. I think we can't truly grasp the enormity of that loss but we are experiencing the loss everyday, till when? I believe, i…"
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I feel for you all, its been one year for me. I miss my mother even more. No kids or husband either. She was only 56. I am so tired of life but i keep breathing."
Mar 3, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am very sorry for your loss Maddie. Its been one year since my mother passed and I am still completely broken. I miss her only even more."
Feb 16, 2015
Casey posted a status
"in a world so full & busy the loss of one creature makes a void so wide & deep that nothing but the width & depth of eternity can fill it up"
Jan 13, 2015
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"my mom was 56 when she passed away, I miss her so much."
Jan 13, 2015

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About Me:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.
About my Loss:
My most beloved mother passed away on February 18, 2014 after only 16 and a half month battle with cancer. She was only 56. I love her more than life and my self.

Casey's Blog

I am just grateful I am my mother's daughter

A note fell out onto the carpet today, and it was left behind by my mother, it reads, “when we focus all our time on grief, we lost out on our present and our future; instead of dwelling on what we are losing, focus on what we still have” I felt like I was receiving a sign from my mother that I should not dwell in my grief at all times. It makes sense my mother wrote it, because she lived her life fully till the end.

Being diagnosed with stage four cancer did not subvert my…

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Posted on May 14, 2014 at 9:30pm — 2 Comments

My mother's day gift to mom

I cannot forget how my mother died and I don't know if she is just dead or in a better place

 

My mom rarely complained even though she was diagnosed with stage four…

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Posted on May 9, 2014 at 9:30pm

I have nothing left to live for or do I?

My identity is intertwined with being a good daughter to my mother because she sacrificed  everything to me  and her selflessness  is what motivated to go  on living. My mother was an immigrant  who left her family and her  role as a housewife  to come to Canada and provide a better future for her children. After the divorce, she worked harder than anyone else I know in order  to provide a life for myself and my brother.  She had  no choice but to be strong and determined  without a husband…

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Posted on May 8, 2014 at 6:00pm

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At 1:36pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

So sorry to hear about your mom Casey.You are right we would be carrying the burden of this loss ,grief till the time we are alive.We would not see them in this life.It hurts so much.take care.

At 2:05am on November 8, 2014, Danny said…

In fact I read your entire post today what you wrote in May.  It makes me realize that while a sudden event is traumatic for the survivors, a battle like your Mom had can be as tough as you wrote.

 
 
 

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