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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.

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Comment by dream moon JO B on March 24, 2014 at 4:17pm

anversy r so sad coz u feal grt thn u feal sad again i no im griefing at my own spead wish is slow spead 

all i say now is nobody shud bully us 2 get over grief 

soory if im sayng wong thngs 

Comment by Raven on March 24, 2014 at 2:48pm

Dearest Barb, I'm coming up on the 2-year anniversary of my husband's death from colo-rectal cancer at age 44.  I have to say that I'm better than I was a year ago.  I don't know how I made it through the first year, but I did, so you will too Barb!  I know exactly what you're going through!

Comment by VickyJ on March 24, 2014 at 2:35pm

Dearest Barb and Mary, I understand so well about your tears.  I will be doing fine and then the tiniest thing will cause a flood of tears.  I do believe that our loved ones want us to go on and have the best lives that we can. Please know that all of us here do care and share your pains!

Comment by Mary M. on March 24, 2014 at 2:32pm
Today is the anniversary of my husbands passing and I can't stop crying. Been irritable all weekend not intentionally just wanted to be left alone. Family doesn't understand tomorrow will be a better day, I hope anyway. Blessings to all of you
Comment by Barb Yenolp on March 23, 2014 at 9:02pm

It has been 6 months since colon cancer took my husband. I still can't understand how time goes on and he is not here. My heart breaks every day, I cry every day. It still feels like it was yesterday. We have our first grandchild which he will never meet, I know he would love him so much. I spend a lot of time with him he brings some joy to my life. I can't figure out how I am suppose to be by myself,

Comment by Laurie on March 23, 2014 at 7:12pm
One year ago today we had the service. It's hard to think about and harder still to realize how time has moved on. people have made a point of remembering, for that I'm grateful. I still don't get the why or what my life is supposed to be about now. Maybe in time......
Comment by Mary M. on March 23, 2014 at 11:26am
Couldn't agree more Barbara! Thanks for putting it into words
Comment by Barbra Ingrassia Fairman on March 20, 2014 at 7:04pm

Coming up on 4 years.....and life does go on. I still cry everyday for you.....but life goes on. I am still so angry you had to go......still life goes on. It still feels like such a senseless death. So as my life goes on I will carry you in my heart, so you can live on within me.

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 7, 2014 at 3:58pm

vickyj i luv dreams wen iv lots famly its past in dreams thy r happy again no ilnes all lk yng again full of engy 

but all i get told is my imaginsnaton is 2 over ative maybe it is 

iv even bean told im sily coz i beleve in ghots  i do im not sure iv spelt it rht 

allwe no evry 1 we hav lots we luv thm still we all miss thm wish is so hrd it is 

jo

Comment by VickyJ on March 7, 2014 at 2:21pm

Thank you, Mary, for your very kind words. There is such joy in those dreams and then such profound loss when I realize the next day is here for me but not him. I know that he wants me to go on.....and expects me to do so......and I won't disappoint him.

 

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