"Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. I understand what you are saying that for the first few months you were in a fog.....I feel the same way now. Thank you for your kind words. I hope things are a little better for you now."
"Michael I am so sorry for your loss. Your right God is not fair .. at least in the here and now that we can see. While my faith has helped me through the worst of my grief, I cannot quote bible verses either. Its enough that I…"
"Thank you Michael ad I am SO sorry for your loss. My brother wasn't very religious either. I remember caring for him in the hospital, a friend of mine gave me a bottle of holy water and told me to pour a little in his water and have him drink…"
"Anna, I want to start by saying God is not fair. I am not a religious person but my wife was. She would study the bible and say quotes from it all the time. My wife's sister is a lifetime drug attic....doing all the wrong…"
"Anna, all you can do is take one day at a time, sometimes just one hour at a time, and keep moving forward. Its good that you are being so supportive of your Mom and your sister-in-law but you need some of that support too. I hope you…"
"Hello May, Thank you. I try to spend as much time with both my niece and sister in-law as much as possible. My mother is handling this much worse than I. Since the night he'd passed I have noticed that I try to take a lot of the daily burdens…"
"Hi Anna, I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like you and your brother were really close and I think we all have the same feelings as you at some point. I know I argued with God a lot when my husband was sick, tried to bargain my life…"
"Since my brothers passing in October I hear him in my right ear making little smart comments when I do something stupid or when someone else says something. It's nice to know that I am indeed not going crazy. He came to me in a dream, kissed my…"
I lost my little brother in October due to an infection after he'd beat MDS (a form of leukemia). Everyday is a struggle and I cry at least once every morning. It wasn't supposed to happen like this. I was supposed to pick on him when we got old and I was going to hit him with my cane. All he ever wanted was to be a wonderful husband to his wife and the father we never had to his 19 month old little girl. He didn't smoke, after he'd married his girlfriend of 7yrs he barely went out drinking, he…See More
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
I am 28 and live in South Florida. Born & Raised. I am second oldest of 6.
About my Loss:
Long story short:
My little brother (Sgt Kenneth Reich USMC) was diagnosed in May 2011 with MDS, which is a form of leukemia. The diagnoses came barely over a month after his daughter was born. He put up a hell of a fight and did alot of 1st through his various treatments at Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center. Alot of the staff including lab tech's, doctor's, NP and even the cleaning staff grew fond of him through his long stays at the hospital. He didn't take crap from anyone (I guess you could say that was his inner Marine) and even a few times we had to calm him down and tell him whatever it was, was just going to beneficial in the longrun).
On October 30, 2012 he was joking around with the nurses (as he usually did). He was having trouble breathing because of an onset fungal infection. He'd given permission to be put on Oxygen to give his lungs a little rest. At 7:31pm he passed. My mother had to make the difficult phone call to his wife in Japan (who had been waiting for months to get the "Okay" from the Marine Corps to come over here and be with her husband).
Everyday is a struggle and since each person in my family is dealing with this in their own ways we are all trying to be there for each other. He was always the big bear of our family. Looking out for us, giving us a boot in the ass when we needed it and giving us hugs when we were down and out. Needless to say we are all torn up about this. Everyday is a struggle.
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I was his caregiver for 8 months before his last hospitalization.
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Your wife, the love of your life, is BEAUTIFUL! And it does seem like it was destiny that brought the two of you together. Beautiful story of the two of you meeting for the first time.
Like Linda says, we have to be grateful that God sent us…"
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Thanks for the cudos. I know every one of us is trying to cope with the loss of our Beloved Spouses. I too cannot do the things we shared and that's just about everything. Our likes were the same, so the only thing I did…"
Mary and Leane joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
"I am so grateful that each of you share what you are doing and how you are dealing with your loss at whatever stage in months or years. In the past I never had to worry about looking for company for misery. I wasn't miserable.…"
What you say here about your day sounds like my miserable daily schedule:
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I can relate to what you are saying: the activities that Joseph and I loved to do together are now very painful to do on my own. But it seems that you have started taking baby steps in the right direction by starting to run again.…"
That is quite an accomplishment! My husband was my running partner and we did a lot of charity runs together. My last run was 2 months after he died and dedicated the run to him. Since then I have tried running alone but it was too…"