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Polly Gee replied to Dennis C.'s discussion Is it Gods fault? in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Dennis We die because we sin ??? REALLY?? hundreds and hundreds of children around the world with terminal cancer, babies brought into a world where they have no food to eat and will die of starvation whilst still being breast fed....We die because…"
Sep 30, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Dennis C.'s discussion Is it Gods fault? in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Hi Kim Just so you know, I too was brought up a chrisitian, I believed in god and prayed every day. It was after watching my beautiful young husband die a horrible death from cancer leaving me with 2 children that I became an athiest, during his…"
Sep 29, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Dennis C.'s discussion Is it Gods fault? in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"I believe that every person has a soul and it is unique to each and every one of us. Our own souls can be made up of love, kindness generosity or they can be consumed with greed malice and destruction. Either way I believe each persons soul is their…"
Sep 29, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Dennis C.'s discussion Is it Gods fault? in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"There is no god. There never was or ever will be. In the early years people created a god to explain away things like night and day and thunder and lightning. As the years passed all religious books including the bible were written to control the…"
Sep 29, 2012
Ann replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Polly, I have no family so I am not surviving, just existing.  However, you have children and I can't tell you how much a mother means to a child no matter how old they are.  You will survive because your kids need you.  You will…"
Jul 2, 2012
Polly Gee commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Sorry Sue if it helps I feel your pain."
Jun 26, 2012
joni replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Heartfelt hugs to you....I also lost my husband... 2 months after diagnosed with lung cancer... It is not easy. What helps me is grabbing all the support I can. Hospice support group, counseling, several close friends, journaling, prayer and family.…"
Jun 19, 2012
Polly Gee commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"I wrote this poem...not to offend anyone..just to help me deal with my grief: I prayed so hard to this loving god But this god was deaf He did not answer my prayers Not one Who needs this stupid god anyway Not I Not me Not us Not we Surrounded by…"
Jun 18, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Kathy Derby's discussion My Husband, My Friend
"I hear you Cathy. I lost mine on May 31st after a short 12 week battle with cancer. Feel free to go to my page and read what happened. I am still kind of numb too, in fact sometime I still wonder what I am doing on this site. I suppose I'm here…"
Jun 14, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Liz Ann's discussion Is anyone familiar with Australian Aboriginal Smoking Ceremony?
"Hi Liz I have witnessed an Aboriginal smoking ceremony at my sons school. To the best of my knowledge the ceremony is performed by an aboriginal elder and the purpose is to clear away bad energy / feelings and replace them with peace and harmony. No…"
Jun 14, 2012
Philip B. replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Polly:  You survive because you have to.   He needs you to be strong and help him.   Caregiving is tough work but you can enjoy the better part of it because you love him and he needs you right now.   Take the time to fall apart…"
Jun 12, 2012
Kim Phillips replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Polly I totally understand.  I lost my best friend and soulmate too a month ago.  It doesn't seem real.  I walk around the house so lost.  I am soooo lonely and angry and extremely sad.  I feel like I am a zombie just…"
Jun 11, 2012
Debbie S left a comment for Polly Gee
"Polly my heart hurts for you. I to am 50 and my sweet husband woulh have turned 52 on June 13. He past away March 7 just 8 days before my birthday. I stilll find myself in a fog and find I'm just going through the motions of the day. This site…"
Jun 11, 2012
Polly Gee replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Thank you. I'm having trouble negotiating this site... I think maybe my head is still too foggy. But its so nice to just say what you feel and not have to put on a brave front and pretend everything is ok. You people actually know what has…"
Jun 11, 2012
anna l. replied to Polly Gee's discussion Please help in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Oh hun, I was right where you are now just a year ago.  You survive because that is what you have to do.  It is what you would want for your husband if it had been you that cancer struck down.  You will survive because your children…"
Jun 10, 2012
Polly Gee added a discussion to the group Losing Someone to Cancer
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Please help

My husband Mark was my soul mate we were childhood sweethearts finding each other at just 14 for 35 years we spent every day together we went to school together then worked together then loved together. Just 12 weeks ago Mark was diagnosed with oesophageal Cancer which had already met to his lungs 10 short weeks down the track it has met to his brain with so many lesions they couldn't count them. I am completely shattered and shocked and devestated. we have 2 fabulous boys aged 19 & 20. How…See More
Jun 10, 2012

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I am 50 years old and have just lost my darling husband and best friend in the world to a very aggressive cancer.
About my Loss:
My husband Mark was my soul mate we were childhood sweethearts finding each other at just 14 for 35 years we spent every day together we went to school together then worked together then loved together. Just 12 weeks ago Mark was diagnosed with oesophageal Cancer which had already met to his lungs 10 short weeks down the track it has met to his brain with so many lesions they couldn't count them. I am completely shattered and shocked and devestated. we have 2 fabulous boys aged 19 & 20. How do I survive???

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At 10:46am on June 11, 2012, Debbie S said…


Polly my heart hurts for you. I to am 50 and my sweet husband woulh have turned 52 on June 13. He past away March 7 just 8 days before my birthday. I stilll find myself in a fog and find I'm just going through the motions of the day. This site has at least helped me realize there are others going through the same thing. Which is bittersweet. I wish we could be in here for a sweet reason. Hugs to you

 
 
 

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Deanna N Nash added a discussion to the group surviving family members' murders
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Nothing feels real

My husband was brutly murdered 6 day ago and nothing feels real to me I'm still waiting to wake up or him to call me the pain is unbearable I don't know if I can go on anymore
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Robin commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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Missing my true love

My partner died 14 weeks ago and I am struggling big time without her, we been together for 10 years and now I have nothing left,
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Sharon batten left a comment for Sharon batten
"I hate my life without her now I miss her so much, we been together for 10 years and now I have nothing left"
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