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Larisa Howard

Still trying to cope

I never thought I would be on a website like this, but I lost my father to cancer in November 2009, he was only 56 years only....He was dia…

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2 1 day ago
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Suzanne

Just to share a few thoughts.

I just wanted to check in and I notice to those of you still here and that there are a few who are new.  I think that each of us has their…

Started by Suzanne

1 Aug 24
Reply by Crystal M
Suzanne

I am still here.

The day after my birthday on August 12, 1972 my husband and I were wed by the Justice of the Peace when his sister and her husband were wit…

Started by Suzanne

1 Aug 12
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Tammy Seymour

Loss of a loved one to Melanoma

It will soon be one year since the death of my former husband who had become my best friend. He passed away from Melanoma. He was only 50 y…

Started by Tammy Seymour

5 Aug 5
Reply by Kathryn Jean Rippley
Suzanne

I have no joy and I wait for God to call me home.

It's been 6 months today since my husband has passed.  I recently have started crying again as if it were yesterday.   Because my heart is…

Started by Suzanne

3 Jul 23
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Kirstine Rushing

Need some prayers......

Hi everyone, I am pregnant and had a full blown panic attack today over the loss of my mom...crying non stop, sweats, throwing up, heart ra…

Started by Kirstine Rushing

4 Jun 29
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Suzanne

It has been 5 months.

I wish everyone would not have had to go through this.  I've been thinking all day that today being June 22nd it was 5 months ago since Jan…

Started by Suzanne

4 Jun 24
Reply by Kirstine Rushing
Suzanne

I just received really bad news.

I have three brothers and three sisters.  The other day I found out that my eldest brother who will be turning 70 in August was diagnosed w…

Started by Suzanne

7 Jun 21
Reply by Julie
Kirstine Rushing

I so badly struggle with the "why's"......

Its been 4 months since my mom passed away (Jan 22) and I would like to say that its getting easier, but actually for me it seems to be get…

Started by Kirstine Rushing

6 Jun 20
Reply by Rhonda K Nolt
Suzanne

Only those who experienced this can understand.

One of Danny's sisters who I call and we can talk for a good 2 hours sometimes is very good to me because of the love she had for her broth…

Started by Suzanne

3 Jun 3
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Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
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It has been 22 and a half years since my mother’s suicide in October 1987. I look at that number – 22 – and it startles me. It’s hard to believe that I have lived more of my life without my mother, than with her. During those first 10 years after her death I carried the heavy load of her suicide every waking moment. I struggled with my own depression and feelings of abandonment and...

8 practical ways to help a grieving family

When a friend or family member experiences the death of a loved one, we quickly offer our condolences and help. Listed here are eight practical suggestions for helping a friend or family member that has just suffered a loss. 1. Offer to answer the telephone or answer emails at the family's home. Telephone calls and email can take up a considerable amount of time. Take messages and give information to friends and family. 2. Volunteer...

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