I am 56 and after losing my husband I have lost interest in most things like going the the beach and swimming and looking at the ocean because my husband won't be with me any more and watching anything on TV that we both once enjoyed together or listening to music; so I just do what I need to each day to get by.
About my Loss:
My 61 year old husband passed away on January 22, 2010 from a reoccurance of esophageal cancer. He was in anguish for 3 years but we didn't know his time was ending until December 18th of 09, my emotional pain started on 1/22/10 when Dan's life ended and I am still in shock I didn't know life was going to be like this.
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Yeah, it was a horrible day, that's for sure. My mom was in hospice for about a month at the hospice, but then she moved back home and had in home hospice care. She was doing so well for a while there, but really started to take a downward spiral in December. I knew it was coming, I guess I just didn't want to admit it. She wasn't ready to go. She didn't want to leave me or my kids (her grandkids). She cried that she wouldn't be at my daughter's wedding one day. Just so unfair, but I try to focus on God as I know she would want me to...
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