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I miss my Mom!

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Comment by Avi on June 5, 2018 at 12:26am

Hi All, 

Yesterday night was pretty fine for me. Although I was alone in my house but was able to sleep well. I had two dreams both I do not remember clearly but I wake up twice in shock, then realized it was a dream. 

Brett, I agree with your statements and the only belief that we will meet our loved ones someday in heaven or in the journey gives you motivation to live. Also I watched a video recently that states that please do not move on after a loved ones death, instead do something in his/her name so that people remember you and your loved ones. My mother was a Hindi Literature teacher so I have decided that I will teach underprivileged kids near my home whenever feasible. 

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 5, 2018 at 12:26am

Thank you Brett,

I have epsom salts and it does help to soak in a warm bath for about 20 minutes. Can I also use the Magnesium oil in addition to the bath? I do not want to get too much Magnesium in my system.

I also read that B12 liquid under the tongue helps with Magnesium absorption. Is that true?

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 4, 2018 at 11:39pm

PS: The easiest way to take a magnesium bath is to use Epsom salts. Pour two or three cups into a hot bath. You can also purchase magnesium flakes.

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 4, 2018 at 11:32pm

Bluebell, magnesium is best absorbed through the skin. Drinking it in powdered form is the next best way. It is such a key mineral that is vital for cellular function. It does relieve sore muscles. You could apply it directly to the skin, or take a bath with magnesium oil in the water. I believe that you can also find it in a powdered form that is made specifically for baths. Some people find that rubbing magnesium oil directly on the skin can cause irritation. I take it in a powdered form before bed. It definitely relaxes the muscles. If you are having back pain I would suggest taking a bath in it. One drawback to taking it orally is that is competes with other minerals and some medications for absorption. That's not an issue when you take a bath with it. It's absorbed directly into the bloodstream. A lot of holistic treatments are hit and miss, but not magnesium. It will work.

I want to add, I am never notified (for some reason) when I have a private message. Sometimes I don't see them for months.

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 4, 2018 at 8:31pm

Brett,

This is off subject, but in poking around on the internet, Magnesium oil was recommended as a way of soothing  sore muscles. Do you have any experience in this or an opinion? Or if it is going to work, is it better to take it in pill form? I am weary of my chronic, intermittent back pain and I am seeking relief. I can no longer take ibuprofen on a regular basis, and Tylenol sometimes works and sometimes does not. Please answer here, or if you would rather send a private e mail, I will watch for it.

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 4, 2018 at 1:52pm

I have to be honest, although I am very spiritual, I have never had a lot of faith in those things. After my mom's mom died, her sister would day things like, "I saw a cardinal today. It was looking right at me. I think it may have been mother." My mom would roll her eyes. I used to ask mom if she would come visit me as a cardinal or a butterfly after she died. More eye rolling. She would say, "If I had the power to turn myself into a bird or a butterfly, don't you think I would just appear as myself? And I wouldn't stare at you from a bird feeder. I would come right in the house." All of that was just  the way my mom would kid, but she thought that her mother was in heaven. That was enough for her. And she believed that things like butterfly's and white feathers were just a manifestation. Someone was convincing themselves of something that they wanted to be true. To my mom a butterfly was just a butterfly, and a bird was just a bird. It was enough for my mom to believe that we would all be together in heaven one day.

I have no idea if mom was right or not. I agree with Avi. I do think that if our mom's can communicate with us it would most likely be in a dream. I would love to see my mom in a dream. A good dream.

And I don't want to be a downer here, but if I can't hug it, I'm not sure that it would help me. That may be why I haven't had any experiences. I'm just not as open to it as I could be.

I do believe that I will see my mom again though.

Comment by Avi on June 4, 2018 at 12:55pm
Yes bluebell. That is most important.
Our mothers have left the body and all suffering associated with it.
Comment by Theresa on June 4, 2018 at 12:19pm

Bluebell You can write as much as you want that’s what we’re here for

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 4, 2018 at 12:15pm

I had written a post that was quite long about my Mom's last few hours but then realized, it was not all that important. The main thing I think it is important to remember is that she is at peace now and no longer has any physical distress. 

Bluebell

Comment by Theresa on June 4, 2018 at 4:49am

Avi that is so great, I wish I could dream of my mom.

Virginia no have not read the book, I will look into it though.

 

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