"Hi All,
Hope every one is doing fine. Last week my father got an infection and was hospitalized so could not follow much here. Now he is better and recovering.
Virginia, you seem to be totally engrossed in the guilt which I can…"
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi Pamela,
As your mom is not with you, I guess you can forget all lies she told you because those may be the situational action required at that time.
Now you can pray for her and as you told that you love her a lot, she is at peace for sure."
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Bluebell, seems that you have faced lot of losses and still stand strong.
I wish lot of peace for you on this earth and for your family members in heaven.
The earth is a safe place because there is no alternative. I wish peace for me as well and…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I hope so bluebell that god walks with us and love us unconditionally.
I wish early recovery for you"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa I feel for you. I was not able to speak to my mom in her last days because she lost ability to speak much. "
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Guilt is the most dangerous emotion because it does not allow you to be happy, eats you from within but our deceased mothers will never want us to feel guilty. They have forgiven us, so please forgive yourself now. "
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Same here Virginia. I cannot wait to meet her again as well. But we can only wait and our moms would like us to reach the destination with happiness or at least content. "
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi virginia,
Sorry if I my statement hurt you. I was just meant to say that sometimes it is not in my hands. Definitely, something will be the medium. It can be us, doctors or any other thing.
Apologies if I hurt you in anyway. "
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I am back to my hometown after 2 weeks and can memorize all the time when my mother was ill.
It is so hard to believe that it was all destined."
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Virginia, problem with cancer is that it is a group of diseases and you are not sure which part of it will affect the patient. So if you would have done 1 thing right then you will do other things wrong. I also have lot of guilt related to my…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Yesterday night I had a very unusual experience. At late night I observed that somebody is shouting on me like "is this way to live" but when I came in senses I realized that it was a bad dream. But when it was happening, it seem to be…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Crystal, Like you I also feel guilty when I smile or enjoy. I was on vacation since 4 days but not sure how much I thoroughly enjoyed.
I guess this is natural and I hope we all overcome it and also celebrate one day to gether because the others may…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Great to see Theressa.
Guys I am on my first vacation in almost an year. I am in Hyderabad, south of India with friends and trying my best to be happy.
Will post one pic as well"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi Crystal, Wishing you a very happy birthday. We have not talked in past. I am from India and lost my mom on 15 May 2018 due to stage IV cancer.
I wish you have a wonderful day.
Wishing Aunty Ji (Theresa's mother) a very happy…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Great to hear this Bluebell that you are getting better.
Theressa, I enjoyed my first ride to office today and will drive back as you do daily. "
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi Theresa.
For me, mint works amazingly for stomach issues. Please check if you can use mint in any way like in juice or salads.
I hope perfect health for you. "
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I miss my Mom!
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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Monty replied to Pamela philipp's discussion FAILING in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi
Im sorry for your loss no matter how long ago it is.
i can only imagine the pain and emotions you are still going though.
for me it was taking care of the kids and finding one thing to achieve (no matter how small) helped a lot. it was as small…"
M Adams left a comment for Jarvis"Thank you for creating this site, it is a lifeline for many people. Hope your health is improving every day."
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi All,
Hope every one is doing fine. Last week my father got an infection and was hospitalized so could not follow much here. Now he is better and recovering.
Virginia, you seem to be totally engrossed in the guilt which I can…"
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"My boyfriend finally gave up. I don’t blame him at all.
And Brett I will tell you I don’t deserve the prayers, pray for my Mom please."
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"So the dr talked to my therapist and he told her the same things he told me. I had asked her to try to get more answers. I actually feel worse because I had someone ask some doctors about using ventilators. The oncologist told us…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa, since talking to you last I have been searching for a natural solution to your issue. There are new supplements since I went through this about a year and a half ago, but my best advice would be to talk to your doctor about trying a new…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi everyone, I have been reading, going through a tough time with my friend her dog is getting ready to go to the rainbow bridge and that set me into anxiety. My stomach is flaring up no matter what I eat.
I started to think about my mom…"
Lori Gersbeck joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
Orphaned Adults
This group is for adults who have lost both parents and are struggling with coming to terms with this impact, which is harder then you realize till it happens to you.
Fran replied to Pamela philipp's discussion FAILING in the group Lost My Spouse..."You are not a failure! You are a survivor. It's hard to continue a life that was balanced and enriched by a truly loved spouse. Just do what helps YOU go on."
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Virginia, my dad was horrible. My mom and my brothers and sister moved to NC where mom had family. I was six. We found a little house to rent. We had left all of our furniture at our house in Ky. I remember the day the moving truck came to our new…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Bluebell, I do not know if you have the same symptoms that I did. It was scary. I was in my shower one day. I was looking at my bottle of shampoo and I couldn't remember what to do with it. And then when I reached for it, it was like my arm was…"
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Pamela,
Those are hurtful things you had to deal with. I am so fortunate that drinking was never a frequent activity with most of my family. The only thing I can say is this. I am the one feeling guilty, desperately hoping my Mom…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Thank you Brett. It is very scary. What I do not like the most is the lack of motivation and being so easily fatigued. I am also frustrated with the lack of support from the Doctors. I keep asking it it would be dangerous to increase a certain…"
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, the dr may realize that he didn’t tell me what was going on in the hospital and that’s why I have all the questions. I blame myself for getting upset with him, then not seeking him out but he might feel responsible. I…"
Pamela philipp commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Virginia yes I will tell you what she lied about who my father is my mother told me the man who is on my birth certificate was my father but he told me I was not his daughter and I look like my so called step father who raised me since I was a baby…"
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Bluebell,
Are you having more symptoms to make you think this? Or is it from the anxiety of the one you had? Did they say how long it would take for it to resolve? "
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