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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 26, 2011 at 3:42am
I was very close with my mom too, she did have cancer....im so glad i had her, im sick right now, and hope i will be ok, i would appreciate your alls support....i was in the hospital all day yesterday getting stabilized....hope things improve....thanks for you alls support and love
Comment by Linda McDonnell on August 25, 2011 at 8:23pm
Elaine I can relate.  My mom didn't have cancer but we were very close
Comment by Babs on August 25, 2011 at 2:56am
Elaine, I am so sorry you were alone on your birthday, it was a painful enough day for you with your mum not there without spending it alone. I know how painful that is, I was alone on the anniversary of steves death, nobody acknowledged it, was such a hard day to do alone. Big hugs. Babs
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 24, 2011 at 2:11am
i feel heartless cause im not even thinking of mom...i went into such a deep depression i disconnected myself from her and my feelings of her, i feel less human because of it....less of a person....in a way its good, but in a way it bothers me....hmmmm
Comment by Linda McDonnell on August 23, 2011 at 6:58pm
no one answered me so i deleted my post
Comment by Laura Krause on August 19, 2011 at 7:39pm

Mercy

I know exactly how you feel. I get sick to my stomach when it hits me. And it hits me at least once a day. I got upset at a friends house the other day when I went to pick up my son from her sons birthday party. Her mom was there helping with the birthday party just like my mom used to do with me. I just started crying. I just got out of there as quickly as possible. I was mad cuz she still has her mom. It just isnt fair is it? Hang in there all. one day at a time.

Laura

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 19, 2011 at 4:11am
its really hard guys...im doing better, but not every day....i never know....keep going on guys
Comment by mercy on August 18, 2011 at 2:31pm
Meggie; I hear you. I'm in the exact same boat as you. Its hard to get excited about anything these days. My poor baby girl has to endure a depressed mom and this is so unfair to her but I can't help these emptiness. I don't even want to talk to my mother in law; she was the same age as mom and looks so much like her. It just reminds me that I don't have my mama anymore. I have some good days but not one hour goes by that I don't get a sinking feeling, knowing I'll never see her again. Sometimes I get light headed and physically ill with this grief. I totally know how you feel. God Bless you.
Comment by Meggie Meg on August 17, 2011 at 10:29pm

It's been crazy lately. Losing my mom was so hard, and it has wiped me out emotionally and physically. I no longer care about the things I cared about before. I feel so overwhelmed and sad. I literally have cried almost every day since. I cannot begin to tell you how much I hurt inside. How am I supposed to go on alone? I have no family that I am close to, and both of my parents are dead. My boyfriend is supportive, but we've been dating 4 years. We're not married, and the loss of my mom just makes me feel more like I'm not part of his family. It makes me feel more separated from them.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 17, 2011 at 7:42pm
I had a strange experience today....I was cleaning my apartment and went into a room where my mom's old clothes are....well, there was an old purse of hers, and i picked it up, and it still had the smell of her on it....it was comforting, but kinda weird....but im glad i have that of hers.....it brought me close to her somehow.....it was still a strange experience
 

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