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16th January 2014 . . . . .An Act of brutality by unknown assailants in the face of a JUVENILE , completely changed our life . . .
Around 4 pm my father found my beloved MOTHER in a pool of blood in her bedroom. Mother, a religious lady, full of life and vigour, was hospitalized with severe head injury (multiple skull fracture) caused by some blunt object.
She remained unconscious for around 30 days . . . the most disturbing days of our life. She continued her battle for life with life support medical equipment. With her sheer willpower she came out of coma and gradually started speaking. Finally the day came when she was discharged (though paralyzed and completely bedridden) from hospital only to be mercilessly snatched away in next few days. The brave lady battled for life for long and departed for heavenly abode on 2nd March 2014
Its tough as I start my second calendar year realizing its not the same and with some trigger dates coming up over the next few months. But its important to be in a familiar location at this time at the very least so I plan on doing that. Tough few months ahead with all the triggers but I am trying to hang on.
Sharon, my Mom died on December 8, too. My birthday is January 8, so she died just exactly one month before my birthday. That day was so horrible that I think my mind tries to block it, because it seems the only way I can remember that date is that I remind myself that it is exactly one month before my birthday. December 8 is a horrible day now, for both of us I'm sure. And, I know what you mean about talking to her every day - I talked to my Mom every day too. When I told my sister-in-law that I had tried to call my Mom when I was on my way to see Jan, she said that I should just talk to my Mom, because she can still hear me. So, maybe you can still talk to your Mom about the peri-menopause. I know it's hard to talk though and not get an answer, but there is some comfort in thinking they can hear us.
Casey, thank your for your supportive words. Yes, I am tired. I know how you feel - it is hard to believe that we woke up the next morning and the world was still as it always was - the sun was shining, our job was waiting, we went to the same grocery store - but she isn't here. All you can do sometimes is keep breathing when you loose someone you love that much.
Thank you all for your support.
my mom was 56 when she passed away, I miss her so much.
You must be under so much stress , caring for so many people. I feel the same way you do about my mother. Everyday, I have to try my hardest to live with this heartache. I don't know anything anymore. I just keep breathing.
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