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Monica thank you so much, I say the Divine Mercy Chaplet each night.
My faith has given me strength, somehow.
God Bless you also.
I light a candle in front of my moms picture every night without fail, and I tell her I love her and miss her, I hope she knows.........
Thank you Monica...I know people say things that they think they should say without really knowing what I feel. Like so many comments here I read where their mom's cried for their own mother's and I too experienced that with my mom. She would make sure her mom always had flowers on her grave for my nana's bday, Christmas etc. I remember crying softly, and looking at me and telling me that she hoped I would never have to feel empty like she did...I really never thought my mom would ever die...She turned 81 in November and she lived two weeks longer after that. Knowing how sick she was, I never believed it result in her really dying. She had leukemia. She would get so sad each time she saw those St. Jude commercials and tell me how blessed we all were for not having this in our lives...we never saw her diagnosis coming...I can't watch those commercials at all...then I feel guilty not watching or donating to those children...I do give to organizations like the cancer society for my dad's honor, he died from cancer...I know we need to help so many people when we can, and it makes my guilt even bigger. Some people actually think that I use my mother's death as an excuse to cry and stay home...they can't be further from the truth, my mom's passing is every reason for not being able to participate in every day events...I want to be happy and live my life with happiness but most days I don't how I can ever be happy...my mom would want me to be happy...I get that, just like I have the same desire for my own...my mom was the one who really completed the circle of my life. I worked for the Juvenile courts where children were taken from their parents...today I don't understand how any mother could jeopardize their children, because I truly recognize the sacrifices and the power of a mom's love and the impact a good mother has on her children...I was blessed to have my mom...most of us here are...I tell whomever will listen to spend as much time as they can...because yesterday won't come again..I miss my mom...more and more each day...
Manisha
I wish I could turn back time too, I feel like I should have spent more of my days off from work with my mom, not running errands.
i feel exactly that Margie missing the part when she needed you the most and didnt realise it
I planted a white rosebush in honor of my mom, this was so that I could go talk to her. Helen I'm so sad for you. I am also amazed just how clear you break down every emotion and reason. I agree with you about counseling, there isn't anyone I feel that can begin to touch on my pain, or teach me how to move without my mom. Losing a mom isn't curable or an area that needs repairing. At least that is my thoughts. Only having my mom back in my life can cure what all of us here are forced to live out our lives with...without our moms. I had a friend tell me that I should be happy for the time I had my mom, that I'm a grandmother now. I couldn't believe she could say these types of things, because although I was blessed to have my mom for 57 years, in no way makes it easier to have lost her. Why can't people stop putting a number to love and grief. My mother was in my life daily and in my kids and their kids lives. She was everywhere and people say because of how bug our family is my mom lives forever, but with what I have suffered through since my mom passed, family for me is the last to be here for me to lean on, death life insurance changes people and it surely in my case, they changed for the worse. I'm so hurt
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