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Bluebell, you are so lucky to have her come to you in a dream!
I went to the cemetery to bring my mom roses as I always gave her and on her grave stone was three pennies, no one goes there except for me, and I remembered she used to have a penny or two on the floor of her car. I said mom I know if you could somehow let me know its ok you would.
We all got through it, now for me her birthday is next month she would have been 94.
this also my first my mother's day without my mom. Her birthday was on May 9th, so this week has been really hard. I have spent a lot of money this week because that is my out let. But I have made sure to have my husband and friends already to help but it's just not the same. I couldn't bring myself to go home or to the cemetery today, which i feel guilty about. I tried my best to pretend it was just a normal day. This worked great until my brother law checked in on me and i lost my cool.
This is my first Mother's Day without her. It has been an unsettling day. It is good to have this place to come to and talk openly.
Blue Bluebell
To all,
What a tough day. How bittersweet...
Thanks Heather for your kind message.
Wish I could tell you after years go by it gets better. One learns to live with the pain.
Martha
It is Mother's Day. I miss my Mom. I had a dream about her the other night. In it she was very sick and could not swallow. I ask her if we could have a feeding tube put in just till she was better. But she said no. I got the sense that she did not want to have any life saving procedures done. Some how this dream has made me feel better. I feel like she was telling me it was okay with her to stop the aggressive treatment and bring her home from the hospital on Hospice. That this is the way it had to be and it was the only thing that could be done. Thank you Mom. I love you.
Bluebell
God Bless you Theresa. I will keep you in my prayers.
Bluebell
So wonderful Bluebell!!!!
I will be thinking of you tomorrow,
God Bless
Mother's Day is hard for me too. This week I spent an entire day in tears. My sister and I donated in my Mom's name to a nonprofit organization that is dedicated to saving our honeybees. Mom used to support this cause.The money goes directly into planting more honeybee habitat and pollinator pathways. Now when I see a honeybee, I will feel closer to her in a physical sense and not just spiritually as I do now.
Bluebell
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