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Heather left a comment for Panda
"Hi Panda, It has been a while and I just wanted to touch base and see how things are going for you? Thinking about you and sending hugs and good thoughts to you. Heather"
Aug 15
Heather replied to Panda's discussion Song to my mom in the group I miss my Mom!
"Beautiful, panda:-)!"
Jul 26
Panda left a comment for Heather
"Idk. He wants to put me back on a med that I already had and got taken off of and it was just horrible I was shaking and everything. Idk. :/"
Jul 25
Heather left a comment for Panda
"No thanks needed... just wishing the best for you. How did it go today with the new psychiatrist? Hopefully, you found some comfort or help... hugs to you, panda:-) Heather"
Jul 25
Panda left a comment for Heather
"Thank you <3"
Jul 25
BLUEBELL left a comment for Heather
"If you open up Grief Counselor, at the bottom of the page you can click on report an issue and it will send a message. The counselor is the one who started this online grief group."
Jul 25
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Hi Panda, I wish i could give you a big old hug and tell you that everything will be ok. I know the road is rough right now and it is hard to see that everything will be alright. For me when I have believed what someone has told me then found out…"
Jul 25
BLUEBELL left a comment for Heather
"If you think she is in danger of hurting herself, report her. Is there a way send to the administrator the post she sent you that is concerning you so much? Maybe they can help her. Hugs to a very caring person, Bluebell"
Jul 25
Panda left a comment for Heather
"It did. It's just i shoulda met her sooner :/ I totally regret that :/ I shoulda met her when I turned 18. I shouldn't have even believed my family :/ I knew they were abusive :/ so why did i? :/ I'm just retarded. Idk. It just hurts"
Jul 25
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Panda, you have such an incredible amount of courage to stand up and take the risk you did to meet your Mom!!! I know it was way too short of a time and it is beyond unfair that you only had those two weeks:-(. try not to "should" all over…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Hi panda, it is so hard to trust anything after your mom passed away. This is a period of intense uncertainty. I'm way older than you and since my mom died, I am so uncertain about everything, so angry and so so sad. The biggest thing is the…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Hi Panda, Thanks for answering. I'm glad you are seeing a new psychiatrist, hopefully you will click with them. Sometimes you have to try so many different ones before you hit on the right one. I hope that this person can give you the support…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for BLUEBELL
"Bluebell could you check my comment wall? The young girl that posted today, panda sounds really distraught and am concerned about her. She commented that she didn't want to be here anymore and said that no one wants her. Not sure what to do…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Panda, Do you have a family doctor that you can talk to that can maybe help / suggest some help? The week after my mom passed I went to talk to my doctor and she put me in touch with some numbers in the community that could offer some supports. if…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Panda, I know you are hurting, and one remark from a complete stranger won't undo a lifetime of being abused. But I care and I can listen. I truly believe that your mom is looking out for you, and so wants you to be happy. Please keep reaching…"
Jul 24
Heather left a comment for Panda
"Panda, I am so deeply sorry to hear of your Mom passing away:-(! I wish so much that I could say something that would ease the pain of everything that has happened to you... words seem so inadequate! The only thing I can say is you are cared about…"
Jul 24

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About my Loss:
I just lost my Mom on July 4th after she suffered a blood clot in her leg, a heart attack after the surgery to remove the clot, then a month of pain from the resuscitation. She passed away in the morning with no one around...she was 90 years old.

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At 6:48pm on July 25, 2017, Panda said…
Idk. He wants to put me back on a med that I already had and got taken off of and it was just horrible I was shaking and everything. Idk. :/
At 5:28pm on July 25, 2017, Panda said…
Thank you <3
At 1:42pm on July 25, 2017, BLUEBELL said…

If you open up Grief Counselor, at the bottom of the page you can click on report an issue and it will send a message. The counselor is the one who started this online grief group.

At 10:43am on July 25, 2017, BLUEBELL said…

If you think she is in danger of hurting herself, report her. Is there a way send to the administrator the post she sent you that is concerning you so much? Maybe they can help her.

Hugs to a very caring person,

Bluebell

At 10:19am on July 25, 2017, Panda said…
It did. It's just i shoulda met her sooner :/ I totally regret that :/ I shoulda met her when I turned 18. I shouldn't have even believed my family :/ I knew they were abusive :/ so why did i? :/ I'm just retarded. Idk. It just hurts
At 9:29am on July 5, 2017, Joy said…

Thanks for the virtual hug Heather. Hugs to you as well. I've only been without my mom for under two months and can't imagine a life without her. You are so correct when you say you feel lost. I feel lost too because moms no matter how old we get, are there to give us solicited and unsolicited advice, guidance, etc.

I'm glad I'm not the only one going through this, although I wish none of us were.

At 8:01pm on July 4, 2017, Joy said…

I'm sorry Heather. I know it's hard. The greater the love the harder it is to let go. I'm not so sure that it gets easier with time.

At 3:31pm on January 18, 2017, Olive said…

Thank you, Heather. I am so sorry for you loss, too.   I am so very lost without my mom.  She was my best friend.  The sadness I feel is so overwhelming.  Thank you for reaching out to me.

At 5:19pm on October 22, 2016, samantha said…
I am sorry for your loss as well. Thank you for your kind words. Sometimes i feel like i will never be okay again
At 3:20pm on July 27, 2016, Kathryn HUDSON said…

Yes please report him, thank you

 
 
 

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