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Lost Without My Mom

My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.

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Missing my mom 16 Replies

Hi! I'm a new member. My name is Emily. My mom died Dec 27,2012. I had a question for anyone in the group............. Does anyone ever feel torn-part of them wants to be with friends but the other…Continue

Started by Emily. Last reply by Dawn M. Coffman Aug 19.

i lossed my mom and need friends

hi im christine my mom died on april 9th of a pulmonary embolism at her house. i wasnt there when she died see i live in another state . she abandon me when i was 8 and wasnt in my life much for the…Continue

Started by christine Apr 28.

I feel so lost 6 Replies

I am a single mom of 8 yo twins. My mom passed away a week ago. She fought a long hard battle with an aggressive bladder cancer that spread rapidly through her body.  Is it normal to feel so lost.  I…Continue

Started by Tanya Dale. Last reply by Mark Sep 24, 2013.

Lost my mom a little over two weeks ago. 2 Replies

Hi Everyone, I am new to this site and the group. I lost my mom on Aug 24th toLeukemia. I am her only child and we were so very close. I am wondering, does itever get better? I know I am glad she is…Continue

Started by Wendy (Boabie). Last reply by Wendy (Boabie) Sep 20, 2013.

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Comment by Danny on August 19, 2014 at 2:42am

Jenny with sudden and unexpected it takes a while to even accept what has happened so take it slow. Best to you.

Comment by Jenny Renn on August 18, 2014 at 7:02pm

Hi Julie, I lost my Mum this January.  She too had a heart condition that we knew about but she passed on very suddenly and unexpectedly.  I am sorry to hear that you were not informed about your Mum's condition, it must have been such a shock.  I still have to keep stopping myself from phoning her, forgetting momentarily that she will be there to pick the phone up.  To never hear her voice or have her advice, taste her cooking is heartbreaking.  I miss just looking at her.  

Comment by Sheila B. on December 12, 2013 at 2:16pm

Comment by Cynthia Gee on December 1, 2013 at 11:36am

i am most definitely lost without my mom.  i sometimes feel like i am alone in a dark hole searching for any light whatsoever- the loneliness is all consuming. 

Comment by Debbie Bacon on November 8, 2013 at 9:19pm
I'm also missing my mom ,she died sept 29 and everyone thinks I should move on
Comment by Sheila B. on September 20, 2013 at 2:47am

I felt resentment but his mother is going to call for no reason every time she feels like it. I can't let it tear us apart because it almost did. It still bothers me, but she's not going to change, she needs her attention. I guess she figures after a few months I should be over it. Her mother is still alive, almost twice my mother's age and she will never understand. Yeah, I still feel jealous. 

Comment by Kristin Renee on September 20, 2013 at 1:43am

Please accept my heartfelt condolences regarding your Mom, Michelle. I too can't help feeling jealous of people who still have their mothers. I even harbor a secret resentment towards my sister who I feel is closer with her Mother-in-Law than she was our own Mom.

Comment by Michelle Goetz on September 19, 2013 at 8:06pm

Hello, I am new to this too.  My Mom passed away on August 24th and I am so devastated.  I feel so guilty for not doing more. I am so jealous and bitter of everyone that still has their Mom.  Does anyone else feel jealous of others that still have their Mom?

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on August 30, 2013 at 3:22am
Dear Kristin,
Thank you for responding and also for your condolences.please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I can totally relate to you. In your profile information you said : *taking care of your mum defined you*. This is what I say all the time. I took care of my mum for 14 years and those were the best years of my life. She was the best , most wonderful mum EVER. It was my privilege and honour to take care of her. Even though she was sick I was always hopeful and confident of facing the world. Now that shes gone I feel hopeless.the thing is she cheated death and survived several times in the past. This time she did'nt make it. I feel we her family failed her in the end. We fought with the hospital staff, pleaded them to show some humanity but they were incredibly cruel. Mum felt isolated and unhappy in the ICU in her last few days. This haunts me day and night. I will never forgive the hospital authorities. I will always carry this sorrow till the end of my life . How do I ask for her forgiveness? How do i tell her how much I love and miss her. Why did such a great human being suffer this much. These questions haunt me day and night. Please let me know if I could help you in anyway. I may be far away but am always ready to lend you my support and kindness. Please take care.
Comment by Kristin Renee on August 29, 2013 at 6:36pm

Karen C, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. You are definitely not alone here.

 

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