Lost Without My Mom

My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.

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Heartache from losing my mom

I lost my mom 5-17-15, she was 89 years old.  I am 65 and age doesn't really matter, the pain is there.  As a memorial to my mom, I have invited those that were very close to her to come to her house…Continue

Started by Mary Campbell Oct 2.

Missing my mom 21 Replies

Hi! I'm a new member. My name is Emily. My mom died Dec 27,2012. I had a question for anyone in the group............. Does anyone ever feel torn-part of them wants to be with friends but the other…Continue

Started by Emily. Last reply by Donna Kaye bonner Aug 22.

i lossed my mom and need friends 4 Replies

hi im christine my mom died on april 9th of a pulmonary embolism at her house. i wasnt there when she died see i live in another state . she abandon me when i was 8 and wasnt in my life much for the…Continue

Started by christine. Last reply by Ahmed selim jouhar Aug 18.

Mom's girl 5 Replies

Don't know what to say really..I have never been part of any forums..but I feel so helpless now..I lost my mom on dec 31st, 2014.. I was in the USA and my brother called me. That phone call still…Continue

Started by Sid. Last reply by Sid Mar 9.

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Comment by Mummy's Memo on Tuesday

I miss her like crazy ..I keep dreaming about her IMG-20150723-WA0003.jpg

Comment by Mummy's Memo on Tuesday

Hy, I'm new here! My mom just passed away this June 6,2015. It was such a tragedy ..I barely held my self, I couldn't believe that that time had come, it all felt like a scene that was about to end and life will come back to what it was before.....its crazy how things can turn upside down in one single Minute. My mum also had a heart attack, so it was Sudden . May god be with them all

Comment by Donna Kaye bonner on August 21, 2015 at 12:27pm
If anyone want email me it my comment is below. K
Comment by Donna Kaye bonner on August 21, 2015 at 12:21pm
I miss my mom so much she was 96 and it was a short Illness . She love to travel with to the smokies she did in June of 2012 and got sick in August went to Heaven December 8, 2012. She my best friend and miss her so much and love her. She Understood me the most. it still hurts and still cry sometimes. just let you know. K
Comment by Danny on August 20, 2015 at 11:31am

feel the pain and yet there is a lot of comfort when i see the handwriting and scraps of paper

Comment by Angela smith on August 20, 2015 at 9:36am

I  cry everyday  since losing my beloved  sweet  mother at 89 2 weeks ago .  I  am so  sad when I  walk into  her home and it's so empty  without  her. I  can  barely  stand to be  there  without  breaking  down .  I  love  and miss  her beyond  comprehension . 

Comment by Danny on August 10, 2015 at 1:32pm

bela the handwriting melts my heart too and i have so many pages lying around.  cry but yet it feels as if its all still there....

Comment by Nancy on August 10, 2015 at 10:09am

My mother died February 15, 2015.  Her 89th birthday was February 2nd.  I am misunderstood in my grief.  I was 65 as of July 16th.  I am therefore considered to be "too old" to miss my mother.  No one grieves for Mother except me.  I am driven into silence. 

Comment by Bela on August 6, 2015 at 4:37pm

So true about holding onto scraps of paper with lists or  memos from Mum but I never see them as silly, they are deeply precious and priceless. Yes the handwriting just melts the heart. I miss my Mum every moment. And its been nearly four months. I love you always Mummy, my angel, my heart xx

Comment by Jenny Renn on July 29, 2015 at 6:20pm

Sorry, I won't take up too much more of your time - Just to say, I hold onto silly things that my Mom had like a scrap of paper that she wrote her shopping list on.  To see her handwriting melts my heart.  You realize that you will never see a birthday or special occasion card from your parent again.  It's heartbreaking.  I do not mean for you prolong your daughter's pain but for me, a book of thoughts from my Mom would be wonderful. 

Anyway Pauline, I wish you much strength and many more years with your loved ones.  Take care x


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