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My mom passed away this year on January the 15th. It was unexpected and I don't know how I'm going to make it.

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When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to…

When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to see what we need from the supermarket.

I grew up with you and became an adult, I do hope your life was happier because you had a daughter. I can tell you I was blessed to have you as a mom, I was lucky to get you, a beautiful woman with a lot of love to give. I wish I could talk to you…

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Posted on June 30, 2014 at 4:34pm

God

Before Mom passed away I never really had a reason to think much about what happens after death or if there is a God. I was raised a catholic, but haven't been to church in years. I pray to God every day since Mom passed.

Now, the thing is that I'm not sure whether there's a God out there or not. Or if there is something more than life in this Earth. I do feel Mom, or have felt her a couple of times. But that could be me fooling myself. I can't be sure.

Even if there wasn't a…

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Posted on July 4, 2013 at 9:11am — 2 Comments

A reason to live.

The other day I was watching a movie and a character was talking about a woman who was separated from her husband, he said she was not doing well and that's what happens ''when you have only one thing in life and you lose it''.

That's how I feel. My Mom was my reason to live. She was the special person in my life. I do have some other family, like my godparents, who I know love me as their child, but it is simply not the same.

I have tried to go back to the life I had before…

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Posted on June 3, 2013 at 7:30am — 6 Comments

Away from you.

Mom, I have been reading about life and death. I know that we are supposed to be much more that our bodies, that death means to leave the body and cross to that place, where we see our true selves and are able to understand things much more clearly than we could here on Earth.

 So, I know that you are there, somewhere. But I can't reach you. I can't feel you. I don't know if you hear me when I call you. I'm still in this world and I don't understand. At some point I'll join you, and…

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Posted on May 3, 2013 at 6:58am

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At 1:10pm on November 27, 2013, Brenda Ann said…
Melisa,

I have sent you a friend request because it broke my heart when you said, "I'm not sure whether there's a God out there or not." It broke my heart because I don't know what I would do without my faith in God. I feel that God is my strength and I appreciate what he promises in the Bible. This has become my hope to see my loved ones again. If you would want to know why I feel this way please ask, I want to share this with you.

Please consider yourself hugged!

Brenda
Mawmaw1591@gmail.com
At 10:16am on July 17, 2013, Sheila B. said…

Thanks for the friend invite, now we can chat sometime. 

At 8:19pm on July 13, 2013, Sheila B. said…

Melisa,

My mother had also gone in for surgery weeks before what the doctor called a simple surgery. I can relate to alot of the things you have said. Sorry for you loss. I miss my mom beyond words too.

At 6:37pm on March 23, 2013, kathy bishop said…

Melisa

     Yes that was meant for you. Grieving is a very hard thing to do. I won't tell you it's gets better, it all takes time. Hang in there, and reach out. Hugs comes from the wonderful state of OHIO

 

 

At 11:54am on March 17, 2013, Bern said…

Thank you! They just see me sad and I don't want them to stop calling on me when they need me..just to talk and vent. I don't want them to feel like I have to much on my plate, to listen. Actually, it gets my mind off my thoughts when I talk to them..but sometimes I bring the conversation back to my son..I will have to work on that.

 
 
 

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