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Dec 2, 2016
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My Mom passed away in January 2013. The pain isn't so sharp now, I don't cry so much as in the first months. Sometimes before I go to sleep and start thinking about her, and how I feel alone. But it's true that it's another life,…"
Nov 17, 2016
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Mom passed on January 2013. I can relate to many of you who posted before. I am not very close with the rest of the family, and I'm not married or have kids. So the loss of the most important person in my life changed everything. I still feel…"
Mar 3, 2015
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I haven't posted in a while, my mom passed in January 2013. I can relate to a lot that I read here. Many times I feel bitter and jealous when I see people who still have their moms and still have that bond in their lives. I wasn't promised…"
Oct 17, 2014
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Oct 17, 2014
Ron B and Melisa C are now friends
Aug 2, 2014
Melisa C commented on Kimberly's blog post A Poem My Mom Wrote
"it's a very nice poem. And such a great attitude towards life your Mom had."
Jul 16, 2014
Melisa C posted a blog post

When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to…

When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to see what we need from the supermarket.I grew up with you and became an adult, I do hope your life was happier because you had a daughter. I can tell you I was blessed to have you as a mom, I was lucky to get you, a beautiful woman with a lot of love to give. I wish I could talk to you for a bit,…See More
Jun 30, 2014
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Casey... I'm sorry to hear about your mom. The first weeks after my mom passed away were horrific for me .I also thought about not wanting to live anymore, I think it's a normal thought brought by all the pain one is feeling. You have to…"
Apr 19, 2014
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Mary, I feel the same way, that now it's ''only me''. It's that feeling of being left behind. I send you a hug, be strong. I've read many times that one has to find a ''new normal'', after our…"
Mar 29, 2014
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I've been reading all the posts and it's like sharing what I feel with all of you. It's been 1 year and a bit more than a month since mom passed.  The pain is very much there, yesterday someone asked me about her and I had to…"
Feb 17, 2014
Melisa C replied to Rhona's discussion A Christmas Wish ~ Graham Thicke. in the group MIND, BODY & SPIRIT
"So sweet."
Jan 1, 2014
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MIND, BODY & SPIRIT

MIND, BODY & SPIRIT is a Group for spiritual seekers, and those seeking spiritual knowledge and comfort through the loss of a loved one.  All welcome.See More
Jan 1, 2014
Melisa C commented on dream moon JO B's group dreams
Dec 29, 2013
Melisa C commented on dream moon JO B's group dreams
"I like the pics you've posted here. I try to imagine Mom is in a beautiful place like a beach, or a forest. In the last years she couldn't go to many places due to her health, I think that now she's free and can go anywhere without…"
Dec 29, 2013
Melisa C commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I thought I could just ''skip'' Christmas eve, treat it like any other night, but it was awful. Maybe it's the feeling that a lot of people were celebrating, with all their loved ones, their world is the same, they…"
Dec 25, 2013

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About my Loss:
My mom passed away this year on January the 15th. It was unexpected and I don't know how I'm going to make it.

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When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to…

When you were here, it seemed like we'd always be together. One doesn't really think about being apart of that person you love while having lunch one day or watching tv on the afternoon or calling to see what we need from the supermarket.

I grew up with you and became an adult, I do hope your life was happier because you had a daughter. I can tell you I was blessed to have you as a mom, I was lucky to get you, a beautiful woman with a lot of love to give. I wish I could talk to you…

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Posted on June 30, 2014 at 4:34pm

God

Before Mom passed away I never really had a reason to think much about what happens after death or if there is a God. I was raised a catholic, but haven't been to church in years. I pray to God every day since Mom passed.

Now, the thing is that I'm not sure whether there's a God out there or not. Or if there is something more than life in this Earth. I do feel Mom, or have felt her a couple of times. But that could be me fooling myself. I can't be sure.

Even if there wasn't a…

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Posted on July 4, 2013 at 9:11am — 2 Comments

A reason to live.

The other day I was watching a movie and a character was talking about a woman who was separated from her husband, he said she was not doing well and that's what happens ''when you have only one thing in life and you lose it''.

That's how I feel. My Mom was my reason to live. She was the special person in my life. I do have some other family, like my godparents, who I know love me as their child, but it is simply not the same.

I have tried to go back to the life I had before…

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Posted on June 3, 2013 at 7:30am — 6 Comments

Away from you.

Mom, I have been reading about life and death. I know that we are supposed to be much more that our bodies, that death means to leave the body and cross to that place, where we see our true selves and are able to understand things much more clearly than we could here on Earth.

 So, I know that you are there, somewhere. But I can't reach you. I can't feel you. I don't know if you hear me when I call you. I'm still in this world and I don't understand. At some point I'll join you, and…

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Posted on May 3, 2013 at 6:58am

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At 1:10pm on November 27, 2013, Brenda Ann said…
Melisa,

I have sent you a friend request because it broke my heart when you said, "I'm not sure whether there's a God out there or not." It broke my heart because I don't know what I would do without my faith in God. I feel that God is my strength and I appreciate what he promises in the Bible. This has become my hope to see my loved ones again. If you would want to know why I feel this way please ask, I want to share this with you.

Please consider yourself hugged!

Brenda
Mawmaw1591@gmail.com
At 10:16am on July 17, 2013, Sheila B. said…

Thanks for the friend invite, now we can chat sometime. 

At 8:19pm on July 13, 2013, Sheila B. said…

Melisa,

My mother had also gone in for surgery weeks before what the doctor called a simple surgery. I can relate to alot of the things you have said. Sorry for you loss. I miss my mom beyond words too.

At 6:37pm on March 23, 2013, kathy bishop said…

Melisa

     Yes that was meant for you. Grieving is a very hard thing to do. I won't tell you it's gets better, it all takes time. Hang in there, and reach out. Hugs comes from the wonderful state of OHIO

 

 

At 11:54am on March 17, 2013, Bern said…

Thank you! They just see me sad and I don't want them to stop calling on me when they need me..just to talk and vent. I don't want them to feel like I have to much on my plate, to listen. Actually, it gets my mind off my thoughts when I talk to them..but sometimes I bring the conversation back to my son..I will have to work on that.

 
 
 

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M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"usually I find your comments really clear, Linda, so I don’t think it’s not being good with words, more that it’s hard to express these things in words.  Actually I couldn’t follow what Joe said either, but it’s…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello M Adams Joe explained in his post of how I feel. I am not good with words on explaining things but Joe you said it perfectly. I just want to thank everyone here for sharing their thoughts, as we are all in the same boat together."
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Speaking for myself, I identify with Linda.  My Love left our world and I know it, and accept that she crossed over into another realm of existence and can't come back.  I want her back and I live in HELL every day without her. …"
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M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, not sure what you mean here when you say you can accept the loss of your husband but not being able to change it is your whole problem — do you mean not being able to change the fact of the loss, or not being able to change the way it…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan, Like you mentioned in your post, there is no normal in my life. I just take each day as it comes and just wait for death. I can accept that Julian is gone but not being able to change it is my whole problem."
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Haven't been writing recently as have had so much to organize in my life I just haven't had a moment and when I do I am so tired.  So grateful to everyone else who continues to write though.  I look here daily to read.…"
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"Hello everyone I'm doing ok I went back to work and just had my meeting there today they said I'm doing an awesome job"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"They told me that Mom had a heart attack.  It happened on the weekend.  I had made her breakfast & she seemed fine.  I am thankful she was at home & that I was with her, but it hurts so much knowing she is gone.  I just…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I was with my mom when she passed and it was not sudden. I may have thought I was prepared. I wasn't. I tried to say and do all of the right things. Still, after her last breath, it was as though I hadn't prepared at all. I knew what to…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thanks so much!  It helps having others that understand.  Some of my family is supportive & that helps.  It helps just having someone listen that truly understands.  I have one sibling, but he was never as close to my…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It's important to have people in your life who understand, even if they are on a message board like this, because sometimes you have to look far and wide to find someone to walk with you. Sometimes I will call my mom's sister. She will…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thank you, some days are better than others.  I feel so for you.  My Mom was the center of my world also.  I lived with her & took care of her.  I am so thankful that I could be there for her, but now I miss her so…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Three months is not very long. It is still very fresh for you. There will be a lot of triggers. Sometimes they will hit you out of the blue. Other times you know that one is coming, like if you have to drive by a familiar place. It's important…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I never cried much before, but I do now.  I think crying does help.  I had a trigger this morning & have been crying since.  It has been over three months, but I still feel numb.  "
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